I really like the Lace Trim Underwire Bra by Amoureuse, so much that I bought three different ones. It's hard to find bras in my size but this one is a perfect fit, and it's a very well-made bra for the price.
The only issue is the outlne of the lace on the top of the cups showing through shirts, so you wear an undershirt. The green one on the bottom right is the full coverage version of the same bra, which is a little better under a shirt because the top edge doesn't have the lace.
I always wear a women's layering tank under my tops to conceal the straps and outline of my bra. I tried men's undershirts, but there were times when it just got too warm and women's tanks are made to conceal and layer without overheating the body. It's amazing how much heat can be trapped by a bra and then you add an undershirt and it gets really sweaty underneath and if you are not careful, you can develop a rash around your bra if you constantly have moisture under your bra. At first it was weird to be wearing a women's layering tank, I have both classic tanks as well as camisoles depending on the top but since it is a fitted piece and fits like a second skin over the bra, it doesn't add bulk so it doesn't draw attention to your chest so now it's just clothing. Remember, if you are wearing your bra correctly with most of the support coming from the band, depending on how much fat your have around your chest, the band can cause an outline of the indention that can show through tops, so having that additional layer smooths that out on your back, as well as concealing any adornments that might be on the bra like lace or roses, or medallions. Layering is normal for women's clothes to keep the fitted but smooth look. My opinion is if you wear a bra, you need to wear the proper undergarments that go along with it to make it all work. I think that is why I have been successful in keeping the girls not drawing unnecessary attention. In my on case, being a DD, and according to my bra fitter I should consider going to a DDD (F), underwire is pretty much a necessity for proper support. It also does give some enhancement as well, but with the proper undergarments, I don't appear "feminine" in the classic definition and so I can mostly go unnoticed. Something to think about.