Author Topic: Should i wear a bra?  (Read 33894 times)

Offline crash99

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Offline Paa_Paw

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I mean someone closer who you can talk to personally.

Sometimes a grandparent makes a better confidant than does a parent for several reasons. They are older and somewhat removed from the daily concerns that parents have yet they are close enough to be caring. Give this some thought.
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 i really thought about that and i really really cant do it because i am pretty sure they wont understand no matter ho much i explain my situation and i should tell you the we are of the subject here all  what i wanted yes you should or may wore a regular bra or the opposite that may included with some reasons why i should or shouldn't or may may not wear one

Offline Bman41

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I sorta thought that you did get that in here.

But ultimately it is your decision, no one here really can know your actual situation. 

If you can wear one and it helps make you feel better like less bouncy/jiggly, or more firm, less nipple seen or less back pain or less pain in the breast itself from bouncing, then by all means you won't be hurting anyone but yourself.  But in your country if you get "caught" or "outed", then what are the consequences?   Can it be seen or will someone feel it?  What will you do then?

No one can make the decision for you.  We can give some ideas of the consequences or issues we face on wearing or not wearing.  Are the risks going to outweigh the benefits?

If you are a 40DD, you had absolutely better be seeing a dr, if you are a 40A, you probably should, but I can't see it being harmful to you, but it CAN continue to grow, and eventually someone, even a dr, is going to see it or have to see it.  If you are a 40DD a bra would likely be mandatory, but a 40A probably not.  Make sense?

You have to wash a bra, you probably have to have more than one, so somewhere that needs to be addressed too.  So someone might find it, you can't guard it 24/7. 

It sounds like you probably shouldn't for local customs reasons, but being we don't have pictures or sizes or you haven't seen a dr, no one can give you an idea based on if you are similar to them. 

I would still see a dr.  They have to maintain some level or confidentiality with you, so talk to them, heck, get an appt with a dr and see what they say about it. 



i really thought about that and i really really cant do it because i am pretty sure they wont understand no matter ho much i explain my situation and i should tell you the we are of the subject here all  what i wanted yes you should or may wore a regular bra or the opposite that may included with some reasons why i should or shouldn't or may may not wear one

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To receive help, it would be necessary for you to either post pictures here or actually consult someone locally.

No one can be of any further help to you simply because you are asking us to work blind.

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these are my breast pictures but they are taken in dierent positions and camera and diferent shots so they may look different but belive me they are mine and theyare the same so do you think i shold were a bra
« Last Edit: September 04, 2010, 08:29:53 PM by crash99 »

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i posted some pic but they are only seen by me how can i post a pic


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Yeah, no doubt about it, you need to see a Dr ASAP.  That isn't going to get better on its own and could get bigger causing more problems for you. 

How old are you?


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In addition to seeing a doc, I dont think there is any question you should be wearing a bra.

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I imagine you will need a combination of major breast reduction surgery, likely requiring overnight stay at a hospital in addition to some kind of hormonal therapy with an endocrinolgist.  Not wearing a bra would cause quite a bit of back pain I'd imagine.

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Something isn't right here. Not only do the breasts themselves look slightly different in shape, but the areolas and nipples appear different, as well as being in different positions on the breast. Also, why is there a distorted band across each one? Please explain.

Anon

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Something isn't right here. Not only do the breasts themselves look slightly different in shape, but the areolas and nipples appear different, as well as being in different positions on the breast. Also, why is there a distorted band across each one? Please explain.

Anon
yeh you are right anon aculty the first two are mine but the lst isn't as you see i poted it by mistake i am very sorry for that but the first two are the same belive me

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Something isn't right here. Not only do the breasts themselves look slightly different in shape, but the areolas and nipples appear different, as well as being in different positions on the breast. Also, why is there a distorted band across each one? Please explain.

Anon
yeh you are right anon aculty the first two are mine but the last isn't as you see i poted it by mistake i am very sorry for that but the first two are the same belive me
ok annon i replaced the that last one from befor with a new pic taken today so do you thimk i need a bra

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hey guys why arent you posting any replies  i am waitin for replies and i wana read them soon so till then

Offline Bman41

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This is the best advice for you.  A bra isn't the answer, might address some of the problem, but one would accentuate the problem too, but below is by far the best advice for you.  SEE A DOCTOR.  Don't avoid it, if you have to go to a different city to see one, do it.  Call and talk to a dr office anonymously and see what they say.  

Yeah, no doubt about it, you need to see a Dr ASAP.  That isn't going to get better on its own and could get bigger causing more problems for you.  

How old are you?

I imagine you will need a combination of major breast reduction surgery, likely requiring overnight stay at a hospital in addition to some kind of hormonal therapy with an endocrinolgist.  Not wearing a bra would cause quite a bit of back pain I'd imagine.

In addition to seeing a doc, I dont think there is any question you should be wearing a bra.

hey guys why arent you posting any replies  i am waitin for replies and i wana read them soon so till then


 

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