A few may remember me

[bobb]

i don't care what people wear for clothes i wear a bra and panties. i guess i just don't understand some things like hormones and what they do i know my breast got bigger but the way i feel hasn't changed other than i'm not so sure of myself anymore.

[WPW717]

I think bobb isn’t opening a can of worms. A review of his posts shows that meds appear to be a cause of the gynecomastia growth. Spiro is an antagonist to androgen receptors. So, the T/E ratio is altered. 
My path of hormonal roller coaster I allowed me to experience this ratio flipping rapidly in both directions until the need for a castration. A real harsh hormonal change. Slow slides of this ratio changing can be imperceptible to the individual. He may not feel the effects of the ‘estrogen highway’ as some of us do. 
I’ll take the remark as a casual query as to the culture here. This is just one slice of the cake ( thread) here.  A low posting number is reason to believe he has not had time to become immersed in the milieu. 

[Normalboobs1]

FACT.
All males have estrogen mixing testosterone. 
All females have testosterone alongside their (usually predominate) estrogen. 
So all males are, to to some extent fem and vice versa.
This explains men with breasts and flat chested women both normal and both stigmatized by the ignorant.

The normal for any given person is highly variable and usually normal...
Males born with predominate estrogen levels will be the ones inheriting breasts at puberty. 
Others, including myself, develop breasts with age as testosterone declines leaving estrogen in control or a surge of estrogen which can be normal but certainly warrants exclusion of pathology. 

All those males with breasts can either be tortured by not being average or choose enjoy the gift that nature has given them and live at peace with the inheritance that, nascently, has been with them since birth. 
The latter course is the path I have chosen. 65 yo when "diagnosed " with normal breast, and now in my 80th year and having always been "one of the girls" rather than "one of the boys" I had a ready made support group for which I have been deeply thankful. 
Perhaps it is just me, but I can attest that conversations over coffee in a group of women is far rewarding than alcohol fuelled ones down the pub over a pool table. 
I envy those who have had breasts since their teenage years {though I wouldn't have enjoyed boys school!) but I certainly intend enjoying my fem life  and all it may bring for however many years I have left. 

Embrace what life gives you  .... At least, male or female, be thankful that filling a bra does not cost you mon8

[Justagirl💃]

One of the wonderful aspects of this site is that there is something for everyone. 
If concealment is your game, There's plenty information on this site about layering, prints, and baggy attire. There is a wealth of information in past threads, some of which I contributed. 
If you don't care much about concealment, and focus mostly on comfort and support,  again there is a wealth of information on this site in past threads.
If matching panties is your thing, but under men's attire,  again there is a wealth of information. 
If the estrogen hiway has taken its toll on you and you celebrate your breasts, even find them sensual,  again we have a wealth of information available.  
If you are AMAB, but present as female (intersex or not), again a wealth of information (mostly from Sophie).

Take what you can from the site, and leave the rest. Just enjoy the site.