Author Topic: I love my gynecumastia. Anyone else?  (Read 11997 times)

Offline Parity

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JD1,  I agree!  Breast are breast. I have them, you have them and woman have them.  It's the same except we have been given an added blessing of being male. 

I quite like me.  I delight in & hold my head high as I can wear a bra that allows me to shape as I see fit and makes me feel good. 
Like many mentioned in the other post I have leaned to and enjoy the styles offered. 

Offline Sophie

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I technically no longer have gynecomastia.
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And this is something that bugs me with society. You technically haven't really physically changed other than presenting differently and having some cosmetic surgery to reflect your current presentation. Your breasts haven't changed at all. Other than that, you are still the same person inside, but what the growth on your chest has changed names. I call BS.

If I were a woman, I would have "breasts". But as a man, I have "gynecomastia". No I have "BREASTS". PERIOD. It should not matter whether I have a penis or a vagina. If I have developed mammary tissue, I. HAVE. BREASTS. End of story.[/rant]
John, you definitely have a point. We live in a society that overflows with lables. As a pre-teen, i became a person with breasts. As a person with breasts, with a little help from my mother and sister, I learned that a bra was the best way to manage  my breasts. I am still a person with breasts who wears a bra to get through my day . I just put a little more effort into my appearance and use the ladies 🚺 room now. ♥️

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Congratulations on your first 'bra talk' with a coworker. 💞
Well the conversations been on my mind a lot since I saw her. She’s the first person outside of this forum who’s acted like a bra is acceptable. I still haven’t decided what to tell her or to bring it up when I see her again.
I have been wearing one while I have a little time home and off work. I’m starting to like my chest more and I’m not too bothered by it now. As I’ve said before, I would be very embarrassed if someone knew I was wearing a bra though.

Offline Justagirl💃

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Congratulations on your first 'bra talk' with a coworker. 💞
 I still haven’t decided what to tell her or to bring it up when I see her again.
I usually 'just bring it up' in conversation. I might say, "you should see the new bras I picked up at Torrid." 😉
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flaunt them! 💃
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I’ll see if she says anything else. I may admit I’ve been wearing them at home. She might have some good advice on how to conceal it better. 

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I’ll see if she says anything else. I may admit I’ve been wearing them at home. She might have some good advice on how to conceal it better.
I would just ask her of she has any good ideas at 'hiding her bra straps'. 
That would get the ''bra talk' started. 

I told the CNA about two bras I picked up at Torrid for just $2.38. I used all my rewards and discounts. 

She of course wanted to see one of them being red plaid with black lace. She said, "OMG! How cute! You need to wear your denim blouse with all the upper buttons undone to show these cuties off!"

Women don't have 'bra talk' with men mostly because they think it will send the wrong message (sexual message). But once a girl knows that you also used a bra, then all conversation is on the table. 
I also avoid talking about bras and boobs to men I know don't have either. 

Offline WPW717

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Regards, Bob

Offline Evolver

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Good points, Birdie.
@WPW717, you've seen Birdie's nipples? (JOKES!)

Do I love my gynecomastia? Hmm...As y'all know, I have pseudo-gyne with genuine A-Cup or slightly larger moobs, but sometimes they look bigger depending on what I'm wearing. The other night I caught myself fondling and jiggling one of them totally unawares. It was only after I realized what I was doing and stopped, that I realized how much fun I had been having, lifting and dropping it to feel its weight pulling against me.

The answer is - yes.

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Good points, Birdie.
@WPW717, you've seen Birdie's nipples? (JOKES!)
Lol.... I have posted my double nipple picture on the forum before (left side), so perhaps the answer is yes?

I don't love my ''gynecomastia', but I do love my 'breasts' and all three nipples.
I don't have gyno, I have breasts. 😉

Offline WPW717

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Ha ha
No, I have not seen any evidence of’points’.

I have noticed a complete lack of libido 
Since the T level has dropped to almost unmeasurable but I do enjoy a
good fondling since the have grown larger, so yes, I am enjoying the changes.

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Libido, or lack thereof. Yeah. Worse than Austin Powers losing his mojo, for me, the fire has gone out completely. I don't even feel like being amorous anymore, even if nothing is expected beyond that. My wife and I are virtually just housemates. I'm pretty sure it's not because my T level is anywhere near zero. I get tested for it quarterly along with some other stuff for another reason, and it has always been in normal range, but towards the lower end of it. Coincidentally I will get blood drawn next week for my upcoming regular appointment, so the reading will be interesting.

I've never been tested for E either. What I have noticed in the past few months is mayyybeeeee I've had some slight growth, but I think it might only be due to putting on a few kg's over that time.

I've also been in a bit of a funk lately, nothing dangerous, but I've had almost zero zest for life recently and find it hard to motivate myself sometimes. The world is my oyster, yet I can barely even get interested in planning a holiday! I'll come good, I know I will, and I have a general feeling that my spirit is beginning to lift, but I think my libido will be the last thing to recover, if at all. At least I've got my moobs! ;) 

Offline WPW717

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Mystery solved !!

I have breasts because I have a brain tumor. I believe I have a vaccine injury that caused the start of a downward spiral on the HPG axis.
Testosterone levels fell from this to well below castrate levels, all the while aromatase was converting T to E with the weight loss. Once that process was over the E level gradually fell but remained elevated in relation to the T level for a few months as the adrenal gland tried to keep up with the demand . It finally stopped working and then the prolactin level shot upward. All the while my moobs turned into breasts. MRI of the skull has revealed a prolactin tumor . This also scrambled the parathyroid gland output so I needed a parathyroidectomy Will be starting chemotherapy next week. The proposed plan has some very wild side effects listed with the agent to be used. No expectations for the return of ’‘ mojo ‘ as the ultrasound says they are kaput. The good news is that the mammogram shows no cancer. I remain very happy and satisfied with my life despite all that’s been happening. All of these conditions have bone density issues so I will continue to be monitored for that type of loss. Hormone replacement therapy is warranted but I have had cancer before so T is not recommended for that reason and my age (73). Also  low dose E is being considered so I may be going into a slow growth mode once the chemotherapy is done.
So mystery is over. I do like my breasts as they can provide a source or eroticism during intimate moments 

Offline Johndoe1

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Glad you know what your situation is and have a plan of treatment. That's half the battle. Good luck!
Womanhood is not defined by breasts, and breasts are not indicative of womanhood. - Melissa Fabello

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Mystery solved !!

I have breasts because I have a brain tumor. I believe I have a vaccine injury that caused the start of a downward spiral on the HPG axis.
Testosterone levels fell from this to well below castrate levels, all the while aromatase was converting T to E with the weight loss. Once that process was over the E level gradually fell but remained elevated in relation to the T level for a few months as the adrenal gland tried to keep up with the demand . It finally stopped working and then the prolactin level shot upward. All the while my moobs turned into breasts. MRI of the skull has revealed a prolactin tumor . This also scrambled the parathyroid gland output so I needed a parathyroidectomy Will be starting chemotherapy next week. The proposed plan has some very wild side effects listed with the agent to be used. No expectations for the return of ’‘ mojo ‘ as the ultrasound says they are kaput. The good news is that the mammogram shows no cancer. I remain very happy and satisfied with my life despite all that’s been happening. All of these conditions have bone density issues so I will continue to be monitored for that type of loss. Hormone replacement therapy is warranted but I have had cancer before so T is not recommended for that reason and my age (73). Also  low dose E is being considered so I may be going into a slow growth mode once the chemotherapy is done.
So mystery is over. I do like my breasts as they can provide a source or eroticism during intimate moments
Wow! I do hope your procedures go well for you. I am so glad you got some answers as well. 

I'm not sure if chemo has changed much over the years, but it was not fun in 1989. 

Best of luck! 💞

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Thanks for the well wishes 
Will let you know what happens in the 2 months re evaluation that is scheduled 


 

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