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Offline Gyno64

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Oldguy,
I as well was diagnosed via Mamogram as well. Thankfully On both sides of my bloodline breast cancer is not promident. Pretty much zero! So no real worries here for the most part. 
 I'm now to the point where I'm not so distressed over it. Thanks to my wife's loving support. I'm okay now with where I'm at and feel no distress towards the possible further growth and development as time goes by. And I nor my wife has an issue with me wearing bra's. I'm not at all very large at this point. So I can wear moderate support for comfort and moderate concealment without much hassle. And if they keep growing, I feel I can accept and adjust.   

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JJ have had that feeling in recent times as well. The pulling and tug feeling for me began in the lower to mid outer breast area and then radiated toward the underside center area. It’s where looking at past photos here shared or on our own devices for comparative purposes can help. Also general self exams. 

For me I found it was a result of definitive growth and just general gravity pulling things likely more down. As well the space behind my areolas that were empty for lack of better words became a more solid mass. Developing the second mound according to the fine folks of ChatGPT. 

Lastly, if you’re experiencing growth it could be the cooper ligaments trying to adjust to the growth and not quite being strong enough yet for the growth and creating a “we’re trying to hold them up best as we can” effect creating a downward pull for some time until it strengthens and or adjusts 

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JJ have had that feeling in recent times as well. The pulling and tug feeling for me began in the lower to mid outer breast area and then radiated toward the underside center area. It’s where looking at past photos here shared or on our own devices for comparative purposes can help. Also general self exams.

For me I found it was a result of definitive growth and just general gravity pulling things likely more down. As well the space behind my areolas that were empty for lack of better words became a more solid mass. Developing the second mound according to the fine folks of ChatGPT.

Lastly, if you’re experiencing growth it could be the cooper ligaments trying to adjust to the growth and not quite being strong enough yet for the growth and creating a “we’re trying to hold them up best as we can” effect creating a downward pull for some time until it strengthens and or adjusts
That downward pull has won with me. Gravity has not been friendly. The pencil test…well let’s just say I think I can hold up a lot more than just pencils now. Gravity and growth have not been friendly to me😩

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Idk what's going on and I know i am not as big as some of the others. But I am having heavy full feeling even when wearing my bra daily. Its such a pull it feels weird. I dont know how to describe it but its off feeling.
Those breasts are soooo pretty. I'm hoping I can grow a pair like that.

Offline Gyno64

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Oldguy,
I had a conversation recently with my wife about weight loss.
I could stand to drop 15 to 20 lbs.
That's not really a lot of weight. But my wife said said to me. You know, your boobs will be even more prominent.
I don't feel that will bother me so much because I know I would feel better having my weight down. Even just that small amount.
I'm a small framed guy just at 5' 5" tall.

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@Dudewithboobs - guess good to hear not alone in the sensations

@DianeMcG - thank you 

@Gyno64 - i know i could stand to lose also. little fearful how disproportionate I would become If my breasts would become even more eye catching if I lost the little excess around my belly.




 

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JJ,
 Oh I hear you. I've only been dealing with my gyno for almost a year now.
 I'm not quite as large as you still at this point and time.
 I don't know how long you have been dealing with it?  But the shape and fullness you have going on may be much more prominent after dropping some weight than I might experience myself. And from what you were describing what's going on lately. It truly sounds like you may have entered a new growth spurt. Hope your ready for that possibility?
 And I don't mind saying. Even though you're not as large as some of the others the shape and contour along with your nipples is actually nicer than some women I've seen. 
 I've read a few others compliment your breasts as well. 
 My wife told me to accept and enjoy it as a gift. For not all that many men get to experience breast development. That helps me with the stress I could experience. I'm not stressed out over it anymore. 
 So if I can get my weight down a little. So what if my boobs stick out a bit more. I just know I will feel better physically.

Offline JJ_Gyne

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This journey ive been on starter 6 yrs ago already. I think you might be right though, I thought I may have been done developing but these sensations tell a different story. I feel my areola and nips have been changing lately too. Subtle but maybe slightly expanding and darkening.  Idk.. its tough to say I feel like its happening but maybe I am perceiving what isn't. To close to it to objectively judge.. frog in the kettle slowly boiling can feel it but feels nice so just soaking it up.instead of screaming .lol

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JJ,
Only time will tell. Just document with photos and measurements with everything going on.
Do you know what caused the initial onset of your gyno?
From the looks of your photo. Your arolas already appear to have expanded and the nipples thickened from previous growth. But I guess it's not uncommon for them to continue to change and even change color and darken up.
You look to be maybe a D cup at this point. Truly female breasts.
I'm getting used to having boobs now so I'm not concerned nor stressed out about how mine may eventually turn out as time goes by.
Just another one of nature's journeys. Lol

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Fully filled 44 DDD bra, and I love them just the way they are!

This is me now, and I've had breasts since my early teens. It's just part of who I am. ☺️
When life gives you curves,
flaunt them! 💃
💋Birdie💋

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Reading your comment Birdie the thought crossed my mind that it would be interesting to graph our breast development in relationship to our age.  There are a large number of us who had serious breast development during adolescence and teen years.  We've heard about Sophie's journey with support from her mother to begin wearing a brassiere as a teen.  Blad has mentioned that as well.  Perhaps you weren't wearing brassieres but your development really began when you were very young.  I had a soft chest with perhaps something that looked like they could become breasts but really never did as a teen or young adult.  My development came later, unaided by medications of any sort but definitely a reality as I aged.  Clearly, a number of us have had significant development in middle years.  JJ's beautiful breasts appear to have come that way.

I imagine the thought comes to mind as I reflect on the reality that for each of us our journey has been unique and our relationship to changes in our bodies have been uniquely our own as well.  This is not one size fits all.  It is easy to feel shame and confusion about it all, but it honestly is the most natural thing in OUR world.  I didn't ask for this and I did nothing explicit to invite these breasts I am now appreciating and enjoying.  Sadly, the world does not do well with differences, regardless of what those differences may be.  Prejudices are alive and well.  I have no delusion that the world will celebrate my voluptuous breasts, though I am delighted we can enjoy the experience here with other men who are discovering the territory for themselves.  Finding and wearing beautiful brassieres is a side benefit.

I'm delighted you so enjoy being a woman with an abundant bosom Birdie.  This is who you are and you deserve our respect.  Thanks for being such a wonderful advocate foro self-acceptance.

I feel the impulse to share a photo of what I am wearing at the moment.  This is an old photo but it makes the point.  The brassiere, as I've said before is not comfortable enough to wear all day but what it does with my breasts is delicious.

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 Perhaps you weren't wearing brassieres but your development really began when you were very young.  

I'm delighted you so enjoy being a woman with an abundant bosom Birdie.  This is who you are and you deserve our respect.  Thanks for being such a wonderful advocate foro self-acceptance.
I wore a bra once about 12ish. It was a perfect fit. 
My father saw me in the outfit and came unglued. 
17 he started me on testosterone treatments for 2 years trying to stop development.  That started 45 years of boy-mode hiding behind layers, overalls,  and baggy shirts. Hiding myself from the world just to be accepted.  

It’s so much freeing to just be myself, at least the most I'm able. 

Our bodies are nothing to be ashamed of, we are who and what we are..

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So true, but people like to point fingers and make fun of others. Makes them feel better about their insecure selves 

 

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