Welcome back Orb
I too chucked it in a while back much the same as your reasons. Got chased around the site by a few (very few) who had an agenda and agressively kept posting their own very narrow views regardless of the fact that they were almost always totally off topic.
I have been back for a while. The tolerance on here is much better.
People are not taking up cudgels against those of us who firmly believe that a bra is one of the first no risk options that should be considered rather than a "last resort".
I benefitted from the advice of an blunt ex Royal Navy Dr who suggested that a bra was a well tested and successful means of alleviating pain and soreness. He also was also wise enough to point out that a hormone shift affects the whole body, not just the breasts and that in time many womens clothes might well be more comfortable. He was right!
Straight up I am 100% male and no one meeting me would mistake me as a woman or as trying to look feminine, but over the years I have got to the point where 95%+ of my clothing comes from the women's aisles.
Clothes are Clothes, nothing more. They either fit or they don't.
Technically I may be crossdresser, but I am light years away from what that term conjures up in the mind of the common man.
I will get my hard hat on in case the trolls have only been hibernating!!
Seriously, this has once again become a haven for men and young teenage boys to get balanced sensible advice. It is back to the being a site that , as I did, you can encourage your wife or mother to look at to help them understand that you have not become a weirdo but need real help with something that mentally and physically has become problem.
WELCOME BACK