My body has looked the same for as long as I can remember (I'm 23, now), and I've always been embarrassed, and even ashamed of it. I assume I have gynecomastia, and I've posted pics in the User Photos part of the forum here (it won't let me post a direct link, but it should be one of the first few posts on the second page).
I've known about the surgical option for a while, and I've spent a long time thinking about it (years). I just want to get rid of it, and move on with my life, but I'm still very much on the fence about pursuing this surgery. To a small extent, a part of me is just very uneasy about the idea of surgery, in general. The last time I can remember being under the knife was when I was a child, getting my tonsils out, and it's always made me uneasy. But, again, that's only a small part of it.
My biggest concern, I guess, is the lasting effect of the surgery. The lowest price I've seen for this kind of surgery is around $5000, possibly higher, and the thing is, I don't exactly come from a very wealthy family. I could spring for the surgery, but my concern is how "permanent" this surgery is. I just don't want to drop $5000+ on a surgery that might help for a year or so, only for the problem to return later on. I'd feel like I'd wasted the money, you know?
I'll be honest, regardless of whether or not I get the surgery, I don't expect to change my lifestyle any. Meaning, I don't plan on exercising more, or watching what I eat better. Of course, I don't consider myself to be that unhealthy, to begin with. I'm not so much "overweight" as I am sort of "chubby" and out of shape, but that I'm okay with (the gynecomastia, not so much). My weight typically doesn't massively fluctuate. So, I don't know whether or not this would be a factor.
Anyway, thanks for any input, as I remain on the fence.