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Offline brownman

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ok i work at best buy i can only book off november 23/24/25/26/27 is this enough recovery time ??


surjury is the 23rd

also i am not telling anybody so how long do i wear the vest and is it noticeable in a polo shirt/sweat shirt for school ?


how long tell i can remove the vest and just have it on at nights/when i am at home ?

any tips on how i can hide the cost? i have enough money i think i did 60 hours this week to make the shortfall up and i need a way to conceal it ?

should i come clean with the rents or at least just my mom ?

if i dont and do this how i am planning can i just cab the next day and well i be mobile enough to move around eat dinner etc normally so as to appear i am just lazy and sleeping alot ?

does it hurt alot compared to weight lifting and the day afteR?

I need INFO ON EVERY ANGLE asap please i am going in nov 3rd then surjury 23rd and i cant cancel too late if i cant pull it off ( i dont want to do this)

i need to know how long tell i can work again, and if the vest is noticeable, i can not have 2nd year college people motice i had moobs removed, right now they dont stick out too bad but will the vest be lik 2" out and around in the shape of a winter vest? or will it just be 2" out in the chest?

will my chest swell larger or just swell but be smaller?


ANYTHING YOU GOT i need please

tthanks in advance

Offline rancho

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Hey,

I did the same thing as you.
i'm at work - on the monday...
I think the foam is pretty noticeable. I told everyone i was having 'upper body surgery' - seems like a good idea to me. It worked great. I go tomorrow to take it off. you'll have to make an appointment on the Tuesday after to get it off and see the Doc, so heads up on that...
i'm in a bit of pain. sleeping is the worst.
right now, i see no improvement (though i haven't seen for sure) but it seems as though little has been done, fingers crossed. good luck

Offline brownman

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so you wore the foam wednesday to the following tuesday ?


it sticks out alot ?

think a sweat shirt or coat will suppress it

and do all cases require a vest o rjust some, mine isnt that bad

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ill do one better tonigiht

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Brownman you seriously need to take a chill pill bro.  You're stressing out too much.  Just treat Nov. 23rd as you would any ordinary day.  I'm about 4 months post-op and I have to say Dr.Fielding did an amazing job.  So you're in good hands.

With regards to the bandage and foam pads being noticeable - yes they are, only if you decide to wear a SMALL T-shirt or some other tight fitting top.  I wore a short sleeved PLAID shirt around the house at the end of June and the folks didn't notice a damn thing!!  So if I were you I'd stock up on PLAID shirts or any other casual loose fitting top (casual shirts, baggy fit hoodies and sweatshirts) if you don't already have a few!!  But don't OD on your purchases as it will only be for a week!!

After the post-op the Doctor will recommend that you wear a tensor bandage for a few weeks.  This thing is barely noticeable unless you take your top off.  The bad thing is that it itches the skin (mine at least) like a mofo.  So you'd probably want to wear it over a tigher T-shirt if you experience itching as well.  The other alternative would be to buy an Ab-Binder like Bambu or a Compression top from Nike or UnderArmour.

Just remember to keep your spirits high and you'll be on the road to recovery in no time.  Most of us here have suffered with f'n gyno for at least a decade so what's a few months recovery time just to be free of it?  Don't jump into the party scene right away.  Smoking and drinking hurt the recovery process.  Just chill out for a month or two then you should be gold!!

PS. I take it that you are spending the night at the hospital so that will take care of not having someone come and pick you up.  I completely forgot about this one and I had to tell the friend picking me up that some dumbbells dropped on me when I was working out!   ;)

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From my experience it didn't really hurt that much. About the only time I was in any real pain was a few hours after the surgery when I was sitting in the hospital bed, and even then it was only like a throbbing pressure, nothing big. Afterwards for the next few weeks there was a mild discomfort, but usually when I moved around. You'll probably be more concerned with your mobility than pain.
As for swelling, not everyone swells up. The only swelling I got was when they took off the pads and that was for a few days afterrwards. (BTW, make sure the nurse doesn't wrap the tensor too tight after you get the pads taken off. When I went home after my post-op check up I nearly fainted in the shower after taking off the tensor wrap- this is because of the sudden relief of pressure).

Now the pads are noticeable, but only if you wear one layer. Even with one layer it just seems like you've got a weird rectangular shape strapped to your chest (the top part being the most noticeable by making a crease). Just wear a few layers and you'll be fine. The tensors don't even make much of a crease. Even when it's visible (which it would only be from wearing a tight shirt) it just seems like you got a wife beater bunched up underneath.
As for recovery time the doc said I you only really need like four days before you can be mobile (depending on how much labour your job requires of course- mine is minimum) . I didn't even really need that. In fact, the day I got back from the hospital, I did the dishes and tossed out the trash. Pace yourself though, recovery can't be rushed.

Now as for telling other people: I personally didn't do it, and it was a hard ruse to uphold, but I managed. Though it will make it an easier ordeal, there is the long term ramifications that you have to factor in too. It's kind of embarassing to tell your parents, but then again, these are the people that changed your diapers so they might understand. My suggestion is that if you are going to hide it, make sure you plan things before hand and come up with consistent cover stories. You have to get to St. Joe's hospital a certain ammount of time before the surgery (I believe 2 1/2 hours), but if your surgery's at like 8:00am that means you'd have to get there at 6, but the subway doesn't even open until like 5:30, so try to get a later surgery time otherwise you might end up having to take a taxi at like 4:00 in the morning like I did. I'm not sure what the hospital policy is, but I came up with the excuse that my mother threw her back out and couldn't pick me up just in case they would try to call her or have a nurse escort me home afterwards. That way I got to stay the night in peace and comfort. By the way, even if you aren't in pain at the time, it doesn't hurt to ask the nurse for some tylenol 3s. Just save them for later and spare yourself the cost of a perscription.

This is just advice of course based on my particular experience , take it with a grain of salt. Good luck.

« Last Edit: October 31, 2005, 03:42:57 PM by Creek »

Offline W0109021

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see my problem is getting the cash together, lol if i was ready for op.   shit i prob would tell people damn think of it a couple weeks of pad ( right?)  is worth it verus a life time of not getting the op done and not seeing what is like (to be on the other side as some have put it).


good luck to ya buddy :)
thanks for time and help all, true great board and honest and helpful advise here

Offline brownman

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we had the canon lady at work dont worry i wasnt stressed too much

she asked to take my photo since she takes photos and developes them i looked into her eyes and tloke the camera then asked my buddy patrick to take the photo and i just went up and put my arm around her and she moved in so i rested it above her ass

and then she said she had a bf when i asked her out, he picked her up too but not bad for myself.


Offline brownman

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do i pay on my appointment on the Nov 7th or do i pay four days before the surjury lik eosme peopl mentioned?

if the 7th i might be screwed

Offline rancho

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i got screwed with this.
I thought I could mail a cheque or credit card over the phone.
I just couriered a money order to Dr. fielding 4 days before - sort of a bitch + an extra $30 in various fee's to do this.

I just had my post-op.
overall happy, i'm only post 6 so i think i have the good part coming now...

Good luck brown guy

Offline brownman

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rancho so i can go down and see his office on like the 17th 18th 19th ish (19 is 4 days before 23rd) and pay off the fees then ?

the longer the better so i get 21 days on top grace period via visa.

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rancho so i can go down and see his office on like the 17th 18th 19th ish (19 is 4 days before 23rd) and pay off the fees then ?

the longer the better so i get 21 days on top grace period via visa.

Zardoz paid on the day of his operation. Just tell Leslie that you wont be paying until a few days prior. They can't make you pay any sooner if you don't want.

John.
Surgery: February 16, 2005. - Toronto, Ontario Canada.
Surgeon: Dr. John Craig Fielding   M.D.   F.R.C.S. (C) (416.766.8890)
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Offline brownman

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How did you guys break it to your parents?

i tried yesterday but it went poorly they said they dont believe in plastic surjury i think they think i want a nose job or something

i dunno

how did you guys pull that off?

Offline rancho

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don't tell the parents.
bad call.
i don't live with mine but whatever...
i just told them i was going away for the weekend.
sorry man

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My Mom and Dad don't know that I had the Op. However, I'm 41 so I don't have to ask permission or report to them....  8)

John
« Last Edit: November 02, 2005, 12:33:45 PM by Bambu »


 

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