Good luck sorting this out for yourself. I think the majority of folks who are active on this website have chosen to embrace self-acceptance and from there have decided to live with what nature has given us. I know the man who started this website eventually chose to have surgery and he was very happy about that decision. A number of us are at an advanced age and the changes in our bodies have simply become the new normal. But clearly, we each have our own journey to take...
All of that said, I'm happy for you that your introduced yourself, which meant you were able to receive support from kindred spirits. It is very painful living alone with anything that leads to shame. Being with people who know the feelings is really important. If you stick around you may want to wander a bit and see how we're all dealing with the reality we have breasts... imagine, men who have breasts that simply arrived on the scene. For some that began in adolescence, for others it came later in life. But here we are, part of a club none of us really wanted to join... but are happy we found. We are not alone. All the best to you Ironmaiden.
