Most embarassing gyno moment?

[hiufung88319]

i totally agree with you because if you wear many T-shirt,people will more mention why you need to do this,so i always wear 1 T-shirt in summer,and croos the hand in anytime.

[aux513s]

Blatino,

It's not uncommon to see guys wearing a light undershirt during summer. In no way would the average person look at someone with more than one shirt and think "he's hiding his gyno". That wouldn't even cross their mind.

It might be obvious to you because you're a perverted gay man who's obsessed with looking at other mens chests.

[jones357]

I agree.  Going great lengths to hide something only draws attention to it.  When picking out a shirt, always pick out the one that looks better, but not both:)  

Reading some of your stories I just remembered that when I was a kid, my doctor asked my parents in front of me, if my chest bothered them.  They were so offended, they said no.  Then said to me, "It doesn't bother you does it?"  I came from a household where my dad would beat my ass for asking to go on a field trip, so you can only imagine that I wasn't confident (or brave) enough to defy my parents.  It was also the first time anyone ever spoke about it.  I always knew it was there, but hoped it was just in my head.  So, to hear that exchange between my doctor and my parents was a shock.  For years and years after that, I regreted not saying it bothered me, because I was so young that it would have been easy to fix.  And it would have been fixed on someone elses dime! Oh well, June 21st I will be done with this Shiot!

[Grandpa Bambu]

I was delivering pizza in my late teens and a young girl answered the door of the house that I was delivering to. The girl had the money to pay for the pizza. As she handed me the money, an older guy (I assumed it was the girls father) said, make sure you give the 'pizza girl' a tip. D@mn that hurt. :-/

Another time was when I was renting a basement apartment from a widowed woman named Mary. Mary had asked me if I would like to go swimming with her one day soon. I said "yeah maybe", just to apease her offer. Mary was at my apartment door one day in her swimsuit to see if I'd like to go swimming. I didn't have a shirt on when I answered the door and Mary got this horrified look on her face and turned around and ran out of the house. That hurt also! :-/

How can you not 'feel' like a freak?  :-/

John.

[hiufung88319]

Grandpa Bambu;)I have see the online vedio interview that is interview you.I think you are very brave because you fight the gyne with many years.I have fight for gyne 8 years and i had feel very tried already.Good luck for you.

[aux513s]

Bambu, that has to be the worst incident anyone has described so far. It must have been akward paying her the rent after that, or did she just kick you out altogether?

[MasterlessMan]

I'm having surgery in about a month so I went clothes shopping to get some ideas for a post-op splurge I plan on doing.  I go into buckle and started checking out a pair of slim fit bootcut jeans that caught my eye (I have mild gyne [the kind that's pretty concealable with just a think baggy t-shirt] but I still love slim fitting jeans and after this surgery I'll be getting some slim fitting shirts to wear with em  ).  As I was checking them out the 3 female salespersons in the store flock me and ask me to try them on because I guess they were a newly released design.  I figure I liked them anyway so I tried them on to humor them.  They looked and fit well, however inevitably they wanted me to try on some shorts with it.  Lo and behold the few shirts they wanted me to try were so light and tight I thought "Oh shit...are you for serious?".  But hey, I wasn't going to ruin the party, I sucked it up, put the shirt on, and showed them.  I'm assuming they probably noticed the gyne (hard to miss, especially with a light tight fitting shirt) but I just pretended like everything was normal.  They didn't say anything and actually asked me to try on a few other things.  It did feel awkward but you can bet that after my surgery I'll be back up there because I really did like the outfits  

[Grandpa Bambu]

Bambu, that has to be the worst incident anyone has described so far. It must have been akward paying her the rent after that, or did she just kick you out altogether?

aux....

No Mary didn't kick me out. But yeah, there was one akward moment after that incident. Mary invited me upstairs to her place for dinner one day. Mary's friend and her young (10-12) daughter were also there for dinner. It was fairly warm outside that day, certainly not a day for wearing two shirts. However, I showed up for dinner with a t-shirt and an open button down shirt to conceal the gyne. As I sat down at the table, the litttle girl said "Why is he wearing a jacket?". Mary looked at her friend and made one of those 'demonic smiles'.   Arrrrggghhhhh!  I felt like crawling under a rock and dieing.

Actually another incident I had was just prior to surgery. I was at a union meeting for work and a guy came up to me, grabbed my right moob and said "Look at the titz on this guy!".    

John.

[Vanatu]

Actually another incident I had was just prior to surgery. I was at a union meeting for work and a guy came up to me, grabbed my right moob and said "Look at the titz on this guy!".

I guess some people never grow up...

[SC GameCOCKS]

I guess some people never grow up...

If I were John, I wouldve been kicked out of that union....for beating the living sh it outta another member

[aloe]

How did you resist saying, "Yeah, you really like them?  Wanna go mess around?"

[headheldhigh01]

is there any thread that (grossly homophobic expletive deleted) troll blatino won't try to eff up?  stating the obvious once more, merle should have banned him long ago, but one of these days the guy's gonna get ten years for pederasty anyway and the boards will become a welcoming place for people to talk and learn once again.  

standard stuff.  shirts and skins, the bra comment, the same once with my brother in a dressing room.  then i got real good at finding excuses to be the last to change (real fast) after phys ed.  the reason that was about it however was that i learned fast after the first ones the skills of evasion and concealment  

[sadgyneguy]

this was year 2003. i was renewing my passport at US embassy because it will be expired.

i had a double shirt, and have a jacket. it was very cold at the office. two girls where looking at me. and i can see their actions and they are 'demonically' smiling. it's like a hell there even it is very cold. then i heard many people say, that i am gay. it really breaks my heart.  

that's one of my problem before, even i wear jacket, my gyne is still visible. it looks like i have worst case of gyne.  

[bklynchuck]

OK, I was in dark a bar and a comedian onstage called me out as a lesbian.
F*%k!  Talk about ruining your game!

It was bad enough he mistook me for a woman but then they shined a light on me and he started honestly apologizing, explaining that he thought I had breasts -  just made it even worse.

Honestly I can find the humour in it but it still makes me cringe.


 

[Chodel]

The number of embarrassing gyne moments for me are endless (as I am sure with many of you).  There isn’t really one that stands out as being worse than the other, so I will just list a few that seem to have stuck with me.

One of my earliest memories was when I was part of a swimming club.  I must have been 12ish.  A lad said that I had bigger breasts than the girl I was standing next to.

At school: I got the usual you need a bra, Pamela Anderson breasts blah blah blah

I remember a time when my sister said ‘blimey you have bigger boobs than me’ – or something like that.  That really hurt, specially as I was youngish and she was in her twenties.

I was always overweight as a child and in my late teens lost much of it.  My weight fluctuates quite a bit, but I am never really overweight.  Not so long ago my dad said something along the lines of “your looking better than you have lost that weight and your breasts” – which hurt because I knew that I hadn’t gotten rid of the gyne, as you know doesn’t just go like that.

Very recently I had lad say to me god you have massive breasts you must be like a size blah blah.  Thing is the guy isn’t offensive I just think he’s simple.  His friend said he isn’t being offensive.  Whish surely just makes in a stupid insensitive twat?

Had an incident over the summer where my friends brother was making some ‘oh so funny, we are only joking’ comments, which almost led to me losing my friendship with my friend (long story).

Anyway, I could go on the list is endless.  As time goes on I think I have gotten stronger at dealing with it, but the an incident occurs and it hurts just as much as the time before.