My gyne got pointed out TWICE today :(

[jc71]

Look for something they're insecure about.  Even if you don't think it's as bad as your gyne, in their head it may be worse.  

Put your detectives hat on and figure out what bothers them and then Jab away.

I really wouldn't complain to them about touching you, that'll likely cause them to do it more.  

Give them some of their own medicine.  Have fun with it.

[bignipCT]

ill kick their ass someone grab my bignips! ive never been made fun of my chest not one time though or even it bein mentioned, went swimming in high school gym class an everything. but if i were you i wouldnt show them that it bothers me they might just go at it more, an fight fire with fire get on suttin about them.

[ram02]

Damn I REALLY REALLY HATE WHEN THAT HAPPENS! Its a major bitch>>> especially in the summer! But hey bro, at least its still technically winter right now so you can kind of cover up...but in the summer....OH MAN! I dont even wanna step out of the house . I just hope i can get my surgery before summer..but i doubt that will happen...my stupid gynecologist wants me to take blood tests every month so she can monitor my hormone levels....argh...if thats the case...there goes my youth. im gonna be 20 soon :|

but good luck to u brother, stay strong.

[User]

I hear what you mean when you say "Last Resort" pile. Something noone else would even think about and here we are trying to find which T-Shirt looks the best on us.

I have good T-Shirts and bad T-Shirts to wear. Lucky for me its the middle of winter and I'm always wearing a jacket/hoodie now.

Yeah, I also have good and bad piles as I'm sure most people on this site do.  Thank god for winter.  I don't really like the season, but I love being able to wear coats and sweat shirts all the time.

It's really sad when people make fun of you when you have your good shirts on.  In 9th grade, I bought a Navy blue t-shirt that I thought completely hid my gyne.  The first day I wore it to school, I had a couple of little kids laugh at me and tell me that I had huge breasts.  Then, I went to class and a girl kept staring directly at my chest.

After school, one of my best friends came down to visit me and he spent the entire time making fun of my chest in front of my friends at school.  His first words to me were, "So User...you're up to a B-cup now?"  He just did it for no reason and I was really hurt and shocked.

I think you can guess what happened to that shirt .

[Bakajin]

I grew up with my classmates, all but my closest friends, my older brother, my mother and even my grandmother making fun of my breasts so I know how it feels.  I came from a family of athletes and hung around with mostly other jocks so breasts were not tolerated at all.  mind you I'd finds things about my friends and classmates to rip on too but somehow having your masculinity hurts a lot more.

probably the worst incident I remember was in highschool at 14.  I had already had large breasts for 5 years which were not the easiest of things to hide in Australia's heat.  one day one of the more popular older athletes who had never before said a word to me randomly walked up and asked "are you a girl?" before walking off.  I was bewildered but I thought that would be the last of it. However the next day he and two of his friends grabbed me from behind then repeatedly punched and kicked me in the balls and groin area.  They then left after saying  "hey guess what, she actually does have a d**k".  a week later he tried the same thing again but this time it was one on one and I beat the c**p out of him.  That earned me some respect for a little while but there was always someone new to step up with the insults.

nowdays I've lost most of my weight to become a big muscular guy and my condition is about 90% fixed. However I still have lots of loose skin and a little fat around my chest which seems to be enough for some people to provoke moob comments, although the frequency has dropped considerably since the old days.  I remember one time I'd been making out with a  fairly hot american girl I had met at a club that night when we decided to go somewhere quieter to 'get to know each other better'.   she started feeling up my chest when out of nowhere stated "hey your chest is like a girls", next thing I know she suddenly pull shirt up and starts laughing about my "girl breasts" and telling me I should try working out.   like the fact I could nearly bench press twice my bodyweight weight or that I had around 12% bodyfat at the time would mean I never worked or something.    

It was actually kind of lucky she did that because I just ditched her right away and went off to another club where I ended up meeting a very attractive girl who was far more understanding of my condition and would end up becoming my girlfriend for the next 2 years.  It still annoying know just how insensitive some people are to others misfortune.

[deckardd]

I'm new here and this topic really motivated me to reply

Several weeks ago I was running through the airport to my connecting flight.  I was sweating rather profusely and took of my jacket.  I remember some teen girl and guy walking past and making some comment about how "that guy has breasts" LOL

What can you do.

BTW my friends teased me about it, but you can always come back and ask them why they were looking at your (male) breasts and why they keep touching you.  Are they hinting at something?  That makes them stop hehe

[Bradley07]

that sucks, guys  people can be so cruel sometimes.  thankfully i haven't had anyone make direct, cruel comments about me like that (at least not to my face) but my gyne or pseudo-gyne or whatever the f it is, isn't that bad (it's bad enough for me, though)

BUT i finally got up the courage a couple weeks ago to talk about it with one of my best friends. we were out to dinner and i mentioned that i had begun working out but that if i weren't happy after a while then i had considered surgery. and she said "surgery?" and i said "yeah, lipo" and she said "you don't need that. you look fine". so i was thinking "wow, maybe i'm not too bad" but then she said "where do u want lipo?" and i said right around here...and i pointed to the fat around my chest. and she said "no, you don't need surgery, i like your little poofs..my son has poofs like that."  

my little poofs? wtf? she likes my "little poofs"?   i know she didn't mean to hurt me. she was telling me i was fine the way i was and that i shouldn't change...but in the same breath she managed to confirm what i had feared all along.  

[Allan7865]

Its not up to your friend to decide if you look fine or not, if you dont like it get ride of it. She noticed it all along, but she made it no big deal since her son obviously has the same problem. Get surgery, its not about how others feel, its about how you feel.

[Bradley07]

Hi, Allan. I agree w/ you 100%. It was just kind of a traumatic experience for me because I have NEVER talked about this with anyone.  So when she said that I didn't need to change anything then I thought "you know what? maybe i don't have fat there--maybe i've just been too hard on myself, maybe nobody even notices!" and i was kinda' relieved. then when she said "i like your little poofs" then I immediately hit rock bottom. it was like a roller-coaster ride in a 2 minute time-span. i went from flat to high then crashing back down. but at least me talking about it was a first step. i hope i can get the surgery soon. how much is it in general? i'm in the south east USA.  thanks for the support everyone.

[Allan7865]

Exactly! Normal people in general will always say you look fine if your considering surgery, its just the polite thing to do. Maybe if she was in your body she would have considered it alot sooner and not think that it looks fine.

[Grandpa Bambu]

It still annoying know just how insensitive some people are to others misfortune.

The sad/sick part about it is that many people 'get off' on hurting others.   :-/

John.

[Grandpa Bambu]

Maybe if she was in your body she would have considered it alot sooner and not think that it looks fine.

Bradley....

Ask your friend this....  if she all of a sudden had some sort of hormone imbalance and she grew a full blown beard and moustache. She then found out that the only means of getting rid of her facial hair was by having surgery. Would she want to have this surgery or would she continue to go through life growing a beard and moustache?

John.

[Allan7865]

Bradley....

Ask your friend this....  if she all of a sudden had some sort of hormone imbalance and she grew a full blown beard and moustache. She then found out that the only means of getting rid of her facial hair was by having surgery. Would she want to have this surgery or would she continue to go through life growing a beard and moustache?

John.

Tell your friend she looks fine and that you like her beard.

[blahblahblah]

I feel sorry for you as thats happened to me all the time and i know what it is like!

On the way to get my last meal before my op i had to pass through a carnival in my local village (well where my holiday home is) and while in the que i was sitting there on my motorbike and a bloke comes up to me and just grabs my chest!

[Worrier]

I feel sorry for you as thats happened to me all the time and i know what it is like!

On the way to get my last meal before my op i had to pass through a carnival in my local village (well where my holiday home is) and while in the que i was sitting there on my motorbike and a bloke comes up to me and just grabs my chest!

Thing is no one has ever come up to me and insulted me about my gyne. When I started running some people would take the urine when driving past but I think that was more to do with being a fat bastard. I have had people glance at my chest but I might be being paranoid I am not sure....

I think you guys are remarkably nice, if someone did say anything about it even a slight remark, I would kick their faces  in. I worry actually about this happening not because of being upset about it but ending up in trouble.As I have been a good boy for a while now and have just got a job.