Well..... Hey everyone heh.
I have quite a few questions about Gynecomastia as im thinking I may have it (Otherwise why would I be here... right)
I am 20 years old, will be 21 this year, 6'3" 210-235ish pounds (My weight has varied quite a bit during the last year due to all sorts of lifestyle changes).
My chest has always been a bit different from other guys as far back as middle school. I'd change in bathroom stalls instead of the locker room because of my chest. The few times that I had to change in the open I was made fun of, go figures. As much as I didnt like not being able to take my shirt off it never bothered me enough to look into how to truly get rid of them until recently. The thought of having sex with someone with my chest like this makes me feel like it would be impossible.
My lifestyle change came from being in a Military school where I had to take showers in a large shower hall with other people. I got made fun of and figure a new way to deal with it by just laughing at myself. When people thought I didn't care it became not such a big deal, a way to cope with it. 6 months of being in this military school where you wake up at 5 in the morning and do physical training all day long should have been a perfect test to see if this was just fat or if it was something else. I do remember one of my drill sergeants telling me not to worry about it, that there was surgery for that sort of thing (something I'm not a huge fan of). At the end of the military school some of the guys in my platoon said that they had noticed that my "boobs" had gotten much smaller. It was still VERY VERY clear that they were not gone at all, just slightly small (I'm assuming this was part of the fat layer that went away during the physical training)
My question is how I am able to be 90% sure whether I actually have Gynecomastia or if it is merely fat. I am not a very physical person, but even when I was it didn't seem to help.
If I have Gynecomastia, is there any solution other than surgery?
If Surgery is my last option, roughly how much does the procedure cost? (I know that I am no where near a location for it, so I'm looking at airfare on top of it)
Assuming you are in pain after the surgery, how long before you are able to take your shirt off without having obvious wounds?
I have seen a few programs out there claiming to help "reverse" and cure Gynecomstia, any of them real.
And my last, maybe one of the more important questions. After having a surgery, will the tissue continue to "grow" back... as in, will the tissue grow back and you will be back at square one?
Thanks for all the information in advance. I know its quite a bit of an introduction to sift through. I had no clue about this until I was just goggling around (what would we do without the goggle lol) Just like anyone I'd like to be able to live a normal life without something embarrasing me or making me feel different.
To give you guys an idea about what my chest looks like (without photos at this point) if I have my shirt off an im sitting normal my chest protrudes about 2 1/2 inches, puff nipples... ect not just a little bulge like some people.