Pool party: Shall I go and have fun or risk being ridculed beyond belief?

[revolver]

Alright so later today, there's this girls pool party I'm supposed to head over to. Now I have gone swimming before with gyne and the usual notice rate has been about 30% of the people noticing and the other 70% either not saying anything or not noticing. Judging by how bad my gyne is, do you think I should stay or go? 1 out of 10 how bad do I have gyne? Would you notice from afar, up close?

I realize having it on one side multiplies the "fugliness". And yes, my camera sucks.

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[Douglas]

To be brutally honest I would notice it myself, but then again I think gyne sufferers tend to scutinize quite a bit. I would probably say 4/5 out of 10. In some of the photos its not too bad and looks more muscular but in others its definitely noticeable.

Whether you should go is your choice to be honest. I know most of my friends wouldn't care as they don't judge me on what I look like, but then again I wouldn't be confident in front of those I don't know, so I understand your concern. You can still go but not swim right? Just chill beside the pool with a t-shirt on or something. If anyone asks say you tore a ligament in your leg or something like that and can't do anything physical for a few weeks.

[revolver]

Going to a pool party and not swimming is out of the question for me. If thats the case, I might as well just not go. I love swimming though.... and am still undecided.

Would it be less worse if I had gynecomastia on both sides?

[Vonsteelo]

Depends on how comfortable you feel around these people, if you believe that it will be miserable and embarrassing then it most definitely will. I know the feeling that everyone is staring, if that will be the case and you feel uncomfortable then don't go. The whole thing about going to a pool party and not swimming is lame, just don't go if your not going to swim. Just my opinion. from the looks of your photos, its not to bad at all, only you can make the decision 

[jackanonymous]

I wouldn't to be honest

[revolver]

So I take my gyne is the "Yeah it can be bad, but at the same time it isn't" type of gynecomastia?

I'm thankful it isn't terrible but the biggest downer about having "average" gynecomastia is, when faced with situations like this, the choice isn't obvious... 

[johnnybot]

I wouldnt go but when it comes to stuff like that I might not be the same as you. And one side is clearly noticbly bigger. I can see you having some problems at a pool party expesialy if theres alchohol there. sorry for the spelling

[The_G0rn]

i would be pretty self conscious if it was me and i had your case...having it bad on one side is really makes it stick and out look freaky.
you could go but not take your shirt off...say you just dont feel like swimming or something

[revolver]

I went. No one noticed (or at least said anything). I figure, why let something like this own my life. I wanna have fun and do what I do for the first time in a long while.

[middetroit]

good for you man

[Bigchest123]

good that u went and had fun... to tell u the truth people would notice less if u walked with ur chest out like ur not ashamed and u know ur sexxy cuz they will confuse it for muscle and plus ur gonna be in the pool most the time arent u?