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Acceptance Garments / Re: I bought a strapless bra!
« Last post by Evolver on Today at 05:52:01 AM »
I should add, I will wear this bra with the straps in place but turn them around so that the adjusters are towards the front, for camouflage purposes. At least I won't have to adjust the straps to their maximum extent to get a good fit, unlike most of my bras. 

The cups themselves are a bit more padded than I expected too, giving me a boost, but the bra is still invisible under loose dark colored t-shirts.
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Acceptance Garments / I bought a strapless bra!
« Last post by Evolver on Yesterday at 11:23:56 PM »
I recently talked about how I had been looking into getting a strapless bra, after realizing that they have the advantage of a deep band and longer straps, which can be used several ways. I also discovered where I could get a 40A. Body Soft™ Wired Strapless Bra A-E | M&S AU (marksandspencer.com)

I've only had a brief try on so far, but I'm pretty happy with my purchase. Unfortunately the cups run a little large; I also have a 40B t-shirt bra which actually fits better, but never mind. I was really happy to see that the band is a full 3" deep at the hooks, of which there are four rows.

The lace layer over the band is extremely soft to touch, and quite pretty in my opinion. I also bought a 3-pack of matching high leg Brazilian briefs.

Crappy photos, but anyways:

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Acceptance / Re: Crossdressers Excited by Their Gynecomastia
« Last post by Evolver on Yesterday at 10:06:32 PM »
  I think the difference between me and a CD is, in my mind I don't have the desire to dress fully as a woman to feel complete.  I do enjoy some aspects of woman's clothing but have no desire to dress completely and present that way.  
I'm exactly the same. I'm not a crossdresser. I feel complete as I am, although I do push some boundaries at home every now and then. I'm even starting to deliberately shop for clothing that is, although unisex, based off typical female designs and I'm happy to wear that sort of stuff in public. But dresses or high heels etc.? NO WAY! I also don't even shave my legs or chest. Another factor that sets me apart from being 'just' a crossdresser is my comfort with my given masculine name. 

A transwoman, as a woman, absolutely needs to come up with a feminine name. A crossdresser, as a female impersonator, also needs to come up with a feminine name in order to align with their appearance. Me, who started out as a boy experimenting with bras and panties and happened to grow some moobs which I welcome, isn't trying to impersonate anyone. I'm just being me, wearing items that suit my body, heart, mind and soul, and I'm happy to keep my given masculine name along with my hairy legs and chest, no matter how pretty my hair and nails are or how dainty and smooth the fabric is of the stuff I wear against my body.

Sorry if I've just blurred this thread and the 'transgender but not transitioning' one, but I think the reference to CD's is relevant.
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Fat and Gynecomastia / Re: Still not sure if this is just fatty flab?
« Last post by Salsoul on Yesterday at 01:57:48 PM »
I have done the squeeze test a few times and it's certainly firmer than the love handles I also carry 😉
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Acceptance / Re: Crossdressers Excited by Their Gynecomastia
« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 12:11:14 PM »
I saw this posted on the crossdressing website in the discussion about breasts growing on their chests...


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For me, the bust is primarily a torment.
 
When I crossdress, yes, there is no need to use any inserts, the bras look almost like on the model, whose picture appears on the box.

But these are only moments.

But when you're a man and have breasts of size 40C, you have to somehow hide it under the shirt, you have a big problem.
Especially in the summer.


Lately I've been trying to slim down.
I'm just afraid if the boobs will decrease in proportion to the rest.
If not, it will be even worse, and in the summer it will probably be easiest to become a woman and start parading in dresses, blouses and skirts

We may not go in that direction, but the sentiment is surely one familiar to men on this website... what to do with those breasts when layers don't make sense...
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Acceptance / Re: Crossdressers Excited by Their Gynecomastia
« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 11:56:01 AM »
  I think the difference between me and a CD is, in my mind I don't have the desire to dress fully as a woman to feel complete...
I would look quite grotesque if I tried to pass for a woman... not going to happen.  Of course, there were women in my family with bodies like that and I've seen photos of men on the CD website who look like my grandmother.  That is not what I aspire toward.  That breasts have developed on my chest is more a surprise than anything else.  Coming to terms with that reality has been what my time here has been all about.  I'm grateful that self-acceptance has finally come my way.  That still leaves me with how best to live my life while accepting, even appreciating my breasts.

A couple of years ago I started a thread called Shame to Embarrassment to Toleration to Acceptance to Appreciation to ?

That is a journey most of us have taken, though where we are at the moment is our story to tell.  The question mark could involve transitioning or simply crossdressing.  Wherever we land is fine.  I'm content with enjoying my breasts and playing with brassieres while at home... occasionally wearing a brassiere when I'm out and about, and never wearing a brassiere when I'm with friends or at a social gathering... something that happens rarely.  We each find our own way.
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 11:47:54 AM »
Talk about me being a “naughty boy.” Very nice 42C! 😁
I've never denied the fact I'm a "naughty boy."    But like you, I'm not about to show off my endowment anywhere but here with like-minded men.

Yesterday, I laundered four brassieres, two of which sorely needed washing... unscented dish detergent, hand washed in a bowl.  One I washed because it needed a bit of refreshing... the first Lilyette minimizer I tried... the one that showed me where I needed to go.  Below is a photo I took a moment ago.  Nothing covering my breasts accept two very thin pieces of silky fabric... absolutely delicious. 

Addendum - I swear as I wear this brassiere today that my breasts are slightly bigger.  It is not something I'm celebrating simply because it is becoming ever more difficult to mask their presence.  If I wear anything other than dark blue (I don't have anything black in my wardrobe) my breasts become visible.  Fortunately, I have four dark blue turtlenecks but summer is arriving and my dark blue tee shirts are getting a bit frayed.  Yes, I'm rather enthralled by these breasts but it is not a love affair I'm prepared to share with the rest of the world...
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Fat and Gynecomastia / Re: Still not sure if this is just fatty flab?
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 04:24:41 AM »
I certainly don't want to diagnose looking at pictures.  People put on weight differently.  People loose weight differently. 
With out a Dr. looking, Squeezing and testing I feel you may not get the correct answer. 
Yes, there is a guy at the centre with a fairly large chest but also rather overweight. I would have thought he had gynecomastia, and apparently so did the doctor. His ultrasound came back clear, he apparently does not have gynecomastia (he was a bit depressed over the results). 

I have seen gynecomastia with smaller chests than pseudo-gynecomastia in some people. You really need to ask your doctor about it, and most doctors won't mention anything unless asked. 

I'm not a doctor, but based on photos I think you have a reason to ask. 

Self check involves squeezing a large pinch of fat for a reference, then squeezing your breasts tissue. The breast tissue should feel firmer and rubbery compared to just fatty deposits (glandular tissue is firmer). But verify with your doctor. 
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by Traveler on Yesterday at 02:20:55 AM »
Talk about me being a “naughty boy.” Very nice 42C! 😁
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Fat and Gynecomastia / Re: Still not sure if this is just fatty flab?
« Last post by Jamie325 on March 26, 2024, 10:17:04 PM »
From one overweight guy to another, lose the weight and you will look better and feel better.  For the sake of my increasing my stamina and energy, I've gone from 221 lbs.to 197 lbs.  I feel a lot better.  Although my boobs are smaller, they are still noticeable because my waist shrunk even more.  No problem.  Even when I was my ideal weight of 175 lbs., I had a fleshy chest.  
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