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I feel joking about the inadequacies for lack of better word, is almost necessary to relieve any tension that otherwise may be there. I've been well aware of how dissatisfied I've left partners in the bedroom and it's nothing new to me. I'm not quite average but good enough. But my endurance is what always got me. Lasting at best maybe a few seconds unless I pause or go slow to a point where what are we even doing here lol
When my wife and I got married, we waited to engage in things. Wedding night, couldn't perform. Next day and days after were fine but only lasting a couple seconds. It got to a point we'd make jokes about what song to listen to cause we'll be done before it's over so let's listen to something good. She's always been sweet and loving about it and never seemed to care overall. But in the beginning she did tell me she wishes we did things before marriage so she'd been better prepared for how her bedroom life was going to end up like.