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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 03:35:35 PM »

Atrophy is another thing that is a sign of low T/elevated E men don't want to talk about either. I have heard nurses say that if they need to do a catheterization on a man with atrophy, they will use the female catheter because it works better for the patient.

That term definitely applies... atrophy... AND it has contributed to my decision to sit down when I pee rather than stand up.  I eliminate "accidents" that way.  I always marveled at how my former wife went through toilet paper... now I understand. 

I admit I too find sitting to pee is preferable to standing. But it's still nice to still have the option to stand even if it's become not as convenient as it once was.

Definitely nice to have the option lol. If I'm at a hockey game not much chance I'm sitting on a toilet in a stadium lol it's one area I look at women and go that's gotta be tough cause if it were me I'd probably just adult diaper the evening than risk sitting on those lol

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 03:32:36 PM »

I feel joking about the inadequacies for lack of better word, is almost necessary to relieve any tension that otherwise may be there. I've been well aware of how dissatisfied I've left partners in the bedroom and it's nothing new to me. I'm not quite average but good enough. But my endurance is what always got me. Lasting at best maybe a few seconds unless I pause or go slow to a point where what are we even doing here lol 

When my wife and I got married, we waited to engage in things. Wedding night, couldn't perform. Next day and days after were fine but only lasting a couple seconds. It got to a point we'd make jokes about what song to listen to cause we'll be done before it's over so let's listen to something good. She's always been sweet and loving about it and never seemed to care overall. But in the beginning she did tell me she wishes we did things before marriage so she'd been better prepared for how her bedroom life was going to end up like. 

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Today at 03:25:49 PM »

Atrophy is another thing that is a sign of low T/elevated E men don't want to talk about either. I have heard nurses say that if they need to do a catheterization on a man with atrophy, they will use the female catheter because it works better for the patient.

That term definitely applies... atrophy... AND it has contributed to my decision to sit down when I pee rather than stand up.  I eliminate "accidents" that way.  I always marveled at how my former wife went through toilet paper... now I understand. 

I admit I too find sitting to pee is preferable to standing. But it's still nice to still have the option to stand even if it's become not as convenient as it once was. 

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 01:58:10 PM »

My libido is quite strong, but I don't really have the equipment needed. I used to joke with my wife that we were in a lesbian relationship.

Toys are basically the only option. 🙄

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 01:55:24 PM »

Sitting has been something I've done for years. My wife would complain about splashing and spots that I wouldn't notice on the floor. I just figured sitting would be easier and give me a moment to just relax for a few.

I'm on the other side of the spectrum in that 'sitting' has been my only option my entire life. I tried a urinal once our of curiosity and peed all over myself. 

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by taxmapper on Today at 01:26:25 PM »

So I am the odd man out. 

My libido is quite strong, but also different. 
I wont peruse some of it here, but what is weird is that when i do get "urges" there is a much deeper aspect to it and one that isn't fulfilled with a simple quicky. 

I also feel other things that are just as strange and weird that I cannot fully explain. Just that they are there. 

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 12:44:15 PM »

Sitting has been something I've done for years. My wife would complain about splashing and spots that I wouldn't notice on the floor. I just figured sitting would be easier and give me a moment to just relax for a few. 

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 12:27:11 PM »

Atrophy is another thing that is a sign of low T/elevated E men don't want to talk about either. I have heard nurses say that if they need to do a catheterization on a man with atrophy, they will use the female catheter because it works better for the patient.

That term definitely applies... atrophy... AND it has contributed to my decision to sit down when I pee rather than stand up.  I eliminate "accidents" that way.  I always marveled at how my former wife went through toilet paper... now I understand.  

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Lounge Area / Re: Morning coffee chat, any topic:

« Last post by tryingtoaccept on Today at 11:49:38 AM »

Birdie, I work in the medical field and I am surprised almost every day at how ignorant some CNAs and MAs can be.  I know a lot of them that know as much as an RN but some seem to only have a kindergarten level of medical knowledge.   All they have to do is read your medical history and they would know that you DO have real breasts.

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Sex / Re: ED from ED

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 10:47:48 AM »

Interesting, I can see why, but don't think I have that issue. It's definitely smaller, but from what I understand it never actually "shrinks" just appears to due to lack of stretching from ED and whatever. But can imagine if general shrinkage like when it's cold and such is more permanent as a result of ED and depending how retracted it becomes, alternatives like that may be more equipped to get the job done.