I see a bra as a tool and it’s a tool I use for comfort. All my bras is basic and simple.
My first awareness of my start down this path was constant nipple sensation - very pleasant in certain limited situations - but annoying most of the rest of the time! Something that I was never conscious of before came into sharp focus.
I tried bandaids (plasters) at first, which helped for dulling the rubbing sensation from a t-shirt, but didn’t help for something like a seatbelt. Plus removing the tape was super annoying. This eventually led to a pull-over bra (from Jockey), which added a touch of compression plus a smoother result and relief. Next I discovered the pull-over with cup inserts - and thought I found the ultimate solution. However I was annoyed by the wider band beneath the breasts and for me a tendency to roll and curl.
But as I developed one step lead to another. I screwed up the courage and was measured and fitted for a 42B underwire. The narrower band worked better. And I realized I had begun the quest most women have pursued: finding the “perfect” comfortable bra.
I came to the point where fit and comfort were more important than style - all would be covered by a shirt anyway. This open approach led me to try on a padded bra (Torrid) - and I instantly liked the extra insulation and warmth provided during the cold months. I had unwillingly moved well past basic to discover better fits. With weight loss I was back for a fitting to discover further options opened up by a new 40C measurement.
And so it goes. Like most of us this became a complex journey - not “one and done.” It eventually involves others well beyond our comfort zone like doctors, family, spouses, girlfriends, SA’s at various stores, and even coworkers. Not to forget this community!