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Title: Called Ma'am...
Post by: taxmapper on August 05, 2021, 03:06:56 PM
This has been brought up before, but I am wondering how many of ya'll have been called "ma'am" based on looks and protrusion? 

In the past four months, I have been called "ma'am" on multiple occasions. 

My bust has now gone over 4 inches past my band size and I am protruding out more and quite obviously. 
I have let my hair grow out and because I am naturally curly, the hair looks like a bad perm. 

Last night the other half and I went to a Texas Roadhouse for a long overdue steak. I wore a polo shirt that has about 10% spandex in it and no bra. I was poking out quite hard, and the breast shape was unmistakable. 

While there a number of folks had to do a double take to make sure I wasn't her "significant other".  Even the waiter called me "ma'am" twice and turned bright red when he realized I was on the male side of life. 

So those who have had this happen, what was it like?   
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Moobzie on August 05, 2021, 09:27:00 PM
Happened to me once - was wearing a tank top on a hot day.
(https://i.imgur.com/VufJCT7.png)
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: blad on August 06, 2021, 01:31:41 PM
When I was around 13y old and was developing breasts, many adults had mistaken me for a girl. 
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: taxmapper on August 06, 2021, 03:38:27 PM
Scary thought... 

When i looked in the mirror this am, I realized I do look more feminine. 


not blatantly female but face looks a bit softer and chest is slightly more protruding. 

Had a twenty something kid this am checking me and my x3 out.  

I was...............  uuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Moobzie on August 06, 2021, 05:53:42 PM
Sorry, folks - couldn't reduce pic size in my previous post.....lol
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Rich meier on August 07, 2021, 01:11:46 PM
Scary thought...

When i looked in the mirror this am, I realized I do look more feminine.


not blatantly female but face looks a bit softer and chest is slightly more protruding.

Had a twenty something kid this am checking me and my x3 out. 

I was...............  uuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Had the same thing happen except in reverse to my first wife. several times she was called sir. she wore a boyish hair cut no make up and no jewelry and didnt wear feminine cloths. very hard to tell from her back especially if she was wearing a jacket or a flannel shirt
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Traveler on August 09, 2021, 02:16:34 AM
During my teen years I got called “ma’am” a couple of times. Always at odd places. Never knew how to respond as I knew I had breasts but didn’t think they were that noticeable.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: My twins on August 21, 2021, 09:57:51 AM
I've been called ma'am more than a few times and I don't really mind as my 42C's are hard to hide on some days. It really only happens when I go braless. 

But a few weeks ago while at my local hardware store the owner (a real ass) called me a faggot as I left the store. I was almost out the door but he said it loud enough for everyone to hear. Now I have been called this before,  but not by a store owner and this time it bothered me. He has a set of his own and really overweight but no one would call him that. Most folks do show restraint and don't make crude comments in this very small town. I have never had a problem when wearing one of my bras, but if I let the twins swing free I get the "look". You just don't expect to have a problem with someone carrying a set larger than you. 

I'm 66 and about to retire so I'll take just about anything other than name calling.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: SideSet on September 04, 2021, 06:16:02 AM
I would patronize a different hardware store
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: paulpark21 on November 07, 2021, 04:39:30 PM
If it bothers you to be call MA'AM, perhaps looser clothes would help.  A polo shirt is usually quite cling-y and would accentuate any breast tissue.  Longer hair doesn't help either.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Willimuth on December 05, 2021, 03:45:47 PM
I've been called ma'am at the grocery store. I wear a under wire bra and yes it protrudes, because I do t like the feeling sagging breasts. I just have bought closes that people think I could be a female. I'm kind of in the middle.so I think people just go with female. I've worn bras for years so I don't think about it much when I go out. I just like protruding. (https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/72x72/1f455.png)
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: SideSet on December 05, 2021, 07:26:10 PM
 Androgynous dress and appearance with a noticeable bust, so not surprising they call you ma’am 
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Nyaacoleptic on December 17, 2021, 08:45:09 AM
I have been mistaken for a girl and hit on by a few guys, but this was based on my slightly androgynous looks and not my chest. Also a store worker thought I was a girl and I was with my mum and aunt haha
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: aboywithgirls on December 24, 2021, 07:51:50 AM
My first bra fitting when  I was 16, the SA at JCPENNEY thought that I was a girl. I think that is why she had me try on underwire bras and ask me if I needed panties too. I just went with it.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: bustymale on December 24, 2021, 08:58:40 AM
Although not being mistaken for a female, while bra shopping, I have been asked if I was also interested in looking at panties.  I think the sales associate just assumed since I wore a bra like a woman that of course I would wear panties like one. 
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Herbert on January 16, 2022, 09:15:47 AM
Called ma'am many times and then they correct themselves. I just ignore it and move on. No need to bring more attention to the nips. I catch a lot of females looking at my chest.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: paulpark21 on January 17, 2022, 05:00:34 PM
While a lot of woman wear a short hair style, having longish hair and breast projection will almosr guarantee a "maam"  
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: aboywithgirls on January 18, 2022, 12:46:26 PM
Even before I stopped pretending to be a man. I was routinely referred to as Ma'am or Miss. I know that people were simply acknowledging my body shape not to mention that I was always in ladies jeans or slacks with ladies top. I was never insulted by it. Even as a teenager, I was mistaken for a girl. Now, if I'm referred to as Sir, I have been read and they are attempting to be mean.
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: SideSet on January 22, 2022, 06:52:21 AM
Welcome back, Herbert
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: hawkdaboo3 on March 02, 2022, 04:20:59 PM
This has been brought up before, but I am wondering how many of ya'll have been called "ma'am" based on looks and protrusion?

In the past four months, I have been called "ma'am" on multiple occasions.

My bust has now gone over 4 inches past my band size and I am protruding out more and quite obviously.
I have let my hair grow out and because I am naturally curly, the hair looks like a bad perm.

Last night the other half and I went to a Texas Roadhouse for a long overdue steak. I wore a polo shirt that has about 10% spandex in it and no bra. I was poking out quite hard, and the breast shape was unmistakable.

While there a number of folks had to do a double take to make sure I wasn't her "significant other".  Even the waiter called me "ma'am" twice and turned bright red when he realized I was on the male side of life.

So those who have had this happen, what was it like? 

Would you prefer 

(https://i.imgur.com/15PDI1d.png)

Or classic peanuts?

(https://i.imgur.com/6TBH8Ji.png)
Title: Re: Called Ma'am...
Post by: Marco011 on March 17, 2022, 03:21:25 PM
I've been called ma'am  3times just because of them An they are not fully out yet 
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