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Gynecomastia Acceptance => Sex => Topic started by: Normal boobs1 on March 08, 2023, 04:58:37 AM

Title: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 08, 2023, 04:58:37 AM
Has any one else found that sex is better once there are four decent sized breasts in play?
Title: Re: Anyone else
Post by: Johndoe1 on March 08, 2023, 05:34:16 AM
Oh yes!
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: taxmapper on March 08, 2023, 10:29:04 AM
For me ,   no. 

The other half hates them and would enjoy seeing me go under a knife, do the Navy seal workout and become a Viking God rather than a half assed, butt ugly shield maiden. 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Johndoe1 on March 08, 2023, 10:39:07 AM
Shieldmaiden's are a pretty tough lot. Some argue more manly than some men. Might not be a bad thing. 😁
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: taxmapper on March 08, 2023, 10:54:01 AM
Shieldmaiden's are a pretty tough lot. Some argue more manly than some men. Might not be a bad thing. 😁
I brought that up!   


She told me I have to look WAY more to Lagertha for this to work!!! 

Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Johndoe1 on March 08, 2023, 10:57:45 AM
😄
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 08, 2023, 01:22:31 PM
Yes! Well plenty of intimacy under the sheets and elsewhere. ;D;D;D;D;D
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: taxmapper on March 08, 2023, 02:54:42 PM
uhhhhhhhhh



sex? 



define.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 08, 2023, 03:49:51 PM
I wish I'd never started this.
Just use your imagination - and don't ask me to define that as well
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: 42CSurprise! on March 08, 2023, 06:57:01 PM
I'm very happy that some among us are enjoying a robust sex life.  In my experience, elevated estrogen that doubtless supports the rounding of my body as well as the development of breasts, has come with a much diminished libido and physical endowment.  I understand that enhancers like Viagra can keep the home fires burning.  I've never used that so my experience is simply what nature provides.  I understand there are many ways to make love with oneself and with one's partner, so reduced testosterone and elevated estrogen that gives us these breasts we're happy to clothe in lovely brassieres, don't put an end to intimacy.  Of course, for that to happen there needs to be a willing partner and from reading these threads over time I know that not everyone has a partner AND even those who do, don't necessarily have a WILLING partner.  I'm delighted for those whose voluptuous breasts have not been a hindrance to lovemaking and thrilled for those whose breasts are celebrated by their partners.

At the moment, I'm simply enjoying my own breasts.  It is a shame I don't have a partner who would enjoy them as much as I do, but such is life.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Moobzie on March 09, 2023, 01:06:16 AM
From Taxmapper:
"The other half hates them and would enjoy seeing me go under a knife, do the Navy seal workout and become a Viking God rather than a half assed, butt ugly shield maiden."

LOL - wow, great wordsmthing!  
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 09, 2023, 01:21:28 AM
From my most recent posts folk could  probably put 2  and 2 together and work out that penetrative sex was not top of my list of abilities nor desires and that  after my "pivotal weekend" Viagra would be complete anathema to me. This does not mean ignoring my wife (54 anniversary today) and her needs.
I am not going into any details other than to say that with increasing tenderness there are still many moments of wonderful mutually satisfying sexual intimacy. These times bring much mutual pleasure and our 4 breasts are well appreciated and get their fair share of appreciation!
That is all that I feel it appropriate to say other than add no "toys" are involved! 

Come on now.




Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: aboywithgirls on March 09, 2023, 09:12:37 AM
A lady doesn't kiss and tell.😉 At least not on the open forum 😉😉

However, I will say this. I'm very grateful that I kept the pair on my chest and lost the other pair.😊😉😘

♥️Sophie♥️
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: 42CSurprise! on March 09, 2023, 11:18:02 AM
As I said... there are many ways to share physical intimacy.  I would be very content to be in what might be considered a "lesbian" relationship.  I keep reminding myself that the male penis and female clitoris are anatomically related, differentiated only because of the presence or absence of adrogens, the most important of which is testosterone.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30249413/

I note my much diminished penis and can't help but think about the clitoris.  My apologies if this is too graphic for anybody.  But the reality is we're experiencing diminished testosterone and elevated estrogen in our bodies.  We are becoming more feminine... something most of us are, if not welcoming, at least accepting.  Some of us are very happy with the changes happening in our minds and bodies.  Will that lead to changes in how we express ourselves sexually?  How could it be otherwise?

Whatever and however you express  yourself sexually, I say... enjoy yourself.  I am and I don't have anyone with whom to share my bed.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: gotgyne on March 09, 2023, 11:53:16 AM
Has any one else found that sex is better once there are four decent sized breasts in play?
No.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 09, 2023, 01:02:31 PM
42C
I don't think that anyone needs to apologise for anything written so far in this thread. It is refreshing to have an open and honest exchange.
It has been statements of fact from individuals as to their present body and psychological situation. Privacy has been maintained in areas where folk want it. Inappropriate detail has been left where it belongs  - just facts - some individual some medical and no eroticism.
A real adult consersation
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Johndoe1 on March 09, 2023, 02:00:13 PM
I know for some people, male and female, sexual feelings in their breasts do not exist. I think we have seen that here. I have two female friends tell me one can have sexual feelings from breast manipulation and the other has none. And breast size appears to have nothing to do with it, if you catch my drift. I believe the same is true here. And this should not be a surprise since breast tissue is identical no matter the gender. In women they are called breasts. In men it's called gynecomastia. As if by having a penis diminishes the fact that they are breasts.  I wish the term gynecomastia would go away and a breast is called a breast,  no matter the gender. And yes, I enjoy having developed breasts and the fun that comes along with having them. 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 10, 2023, 02:46:09 AM
I too wish that the term gynecomastia was dead and buried. It is a non word for a "condition" that does not exist and does not need treating.
Men with larger breasts are normal.
In the same way women with small breasts also do not have a condition that they need to have corrected.
The insecurities are fanned into flame by society's  prejudices and perceived norms.
Regrettably in both cases it is almost blackmail for both to play fast and loose with their health be it wirh surgery or hormones. It also damages their wealth
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Evolver on March 10, 2023, 04:51:42 AM
I too wish that the term gynecomastia was dead and buried. It is a non word for a "condition" that does not exist and does not need treating.
Men with larger breasts are normal.
In the same way women with small breasts also do not have a condition that they need to have corrected.
That's actually a very good point. Men with large breasts, and women with small breasts, may choose to do something about it surgically to make themselves feel good by appeasing people that they don't know, but it is not a need per se.

I am all for unisex everything, including medical terminology. Thank goodness that when men get diagnosed with breast cancer, it is not known as men's breast cancer.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: 42CSurprise! on March 10, 2023, 12:31:30 PM
I hope you guys realize that attitudes like that will put plastic surgeons out of business... including the man who pays to keep this website alive... :o

I agree, our unique hormonal stew is not a problem... unless we've accepted society's judgments about what it means to be a man or woman or beautiful or ugly.  We know, of course, that few people have the emotional intelligence and personal integrity to not succumb to group pressure in all its forms.  The reason the advertising business is so phenomenally successful is because we are so vulnerable to the messages they give us about what we should drive, wear, eat... look like.  There is no doubt that the focus on acceptance which is the hallmark of this side of a site devoted to fixing "the problem" is where an answer can be found.  I don't need to buy anything or do anything that isn't in alignment with my values.

Yes, I have breasts though I have no interest in flaunting them.  And yes, I enjoy the breasts that now fill the cups of a 42C brassiere.  I like the brassiere as well!  Fortunately, I found a place where I can say such things without being attacked.  Thanks everyone!
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Johndoe1 on March 10, 2023, 01:09:03 PM
Lots of other procedures for doctors to make money from!
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: 42CSurprise! on March 10, 2023, 01:54:01 PM
I know there is a place for plastic surgeons in this world in which accidents happen and profound abnormalities make life difficult for some... but the big money is made in cosmetic surgery... boob jobs, nose jobs, tummy tucks.  I wasn't a subscriber but I got the flavor of the FX series Nip and Tuck and it wasn't a pretty picture.  I happen to live in a wealthy community and high end plastic surgeons abound.  In fact, I don't live that far from where THIS plastic surgeon does his work.  I guess driving a Bentley can come with silicone breast implants... ::)
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Lbrown on March 11, 2023, 10:54:46 PM
To answer OP's original question, yes, four breasts are indeed better than two.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 12, 2023, 03:14:50 AM
 42 C
I suspect that anything said on this side of the forum will not dent the income of the owners of this site to any worrying degree. They probably regard giving us free reign as part of due diligence in getting informed consent for others desire for what is, after is all said and done,  elective cosmetic surgery.
I feel sad that society makes so many men disturbed enough to go through with what I see as unecessary expensive mutilation.
Others opinions will, I accept, vary. 
Peace to all
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: aboywithgirls on March 12, 2023, 01:07:42 PM
I am sooooo thankful that I had not elected to have a breast reduction or a double mastectomy. 

My wife.has ALWAYS enjoyed my boobs. I think that even the struggles that I went through as a teen when I had considered having them removed from my body. I could ever seriously consider it. 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Moobzie on March 20, 2023, 07:12:45 PM
But it's even worse for women - from infancy on females are looked at (quite literally) differently than males.  With us, generally, the focus is on what we do - hence the emphasis on physical strength / prowess.  With the other half of humanity the primary focus is on appearance.  I get this:  with me how a guy looks is not as important as how he does - I don't choose mechanics or plumbers on the basis of their looks.  Women, even when working, are super focused on how they look.  One of the odd things about us guys with developed breasts, curvier bodies, softer muscles and smoother skin is that we start being concerned about our appearance in similar or even the same way.  I never used to give a second thought about what to wear:to the store, mowing the lawn, swimming, etc., etc.  But now!?  Yup - second (or even third !) thoughts.  As I posted in another thread, I've finally started to become comfortable in my shape.  Time and estrogen can do that.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Busty on March 21, 2023, 11:07:51 AM
Time and estrogen can do that.

That perfectly describes us and our womanly breasts 

Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Normal boobs1 on March 21, 2023, 12:48:48 PM
Perhaps we should shout out that all women have gynecomastia, then the only odd ones out would be men without boobs! 
 I would hope I could be generous enough to these poor blokes to treat them better than they deserve for the years they have taunted us.
Allying ourselves with all women would be an unstoppable majority alliance for societal change.
Pie in the sky,?  Probably
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Orb on March 21, 2023, 02:09:05 PM
That being said: If 50% of the population, women, have breast and ______% of men have gynecomastia, breast, that would make none breasted people a minority and subject to said ridicule.  ???
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Brdy64 on April 09, 2023, 05:16:49 PM
Has any one else found that sex is better once there are four decent sized breasts in play?
Hmm, it has been so long ago I can't remember 🤔
And the estrogen has done it's magic in making the act pretty near impossible. Foreplay on the other hand might be fun 🤔
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: John3303 on April 13, 2023, 01:14:53 PM
Yes it is better and i must say that I am very lucky to have a wife that loves boobs. I feel like I hit the lottery when I met her. 

When my wife was my girlfriend several years ago, the first thing she did during foreplay the first time we had sex was she gave my boobs all the attention in the first 5 minutes. The way she sucked my nipples was highly erotic. I did not realize it would be so arousing. She told me my boobs are just like a woman's boobs in that department. When we first had sex, she knew what she was doing because she admitted to me that she had a lot of Bi sex with girlfriends when she was a teen and loved sucking breasts. 

To this day, I still get aroused when she sucks my nipples. We suck each others boobs at the same time. 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: qwerty6 on May 16, 2023, 02:59:59 AM
Definitely….

My nipples are now at least as sensitive as my penis
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: qwerty6 on May 17, 2023, 07:57:07 AM
And I I thought mine were sensitive , but if you can orgasm in 15 seconds……. ! 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: gotgyne on October 05, 2023, 05:26:28 AM
For me ,  no.

The other half hates them and would enjoy seeing me go under a knife, do the Navy seal workout and become a Viking God rather than a half assed, butt ugly shield maiden.
My wife also doesn't like my breasts, but she'd never come with a request to get surgery. I think that everyone, man or woman, should only go the surgical route, if THIS person alone wants it. I ask myself how many women get breast enlargement only because the partner demands it. They should better dump him (or her in a lesbian relationship) and get a new partner. Just my 2 cents.
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Johndoe1 on October 05, 2023, 07:21:08 AM
At first my wife tried to ignore my bust. They have never bothered her but she knew they distressed me considerably. I know she would wish I didn't have them, not because she doesn't like them, but her concern what others might say or do and how I might react and my feelings. When the subject of my wearing a bra first came up early in our marriage, she said she preferred I not wear one because she feared for my safety and what others might say or do. So I shelved the idea. Behind closed doors was something different though! :D Eventually even she couldn't deny the benefits outweighed the issues of me wearing a bra. These days she doesn't even give it a second thought and bed time can be quite enjoyable!
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: Justagirl💃 on October 05, 2023, 08:04:51 AM
My wife (when she was still around) was more concerned about what people might say about 'her' if my breasts were visible.

Behind closed doors, she liked them extensively.

I think my wife is a 'closet lesbian', and that's was why she was with me. She was just too scared to be 'found out' by the rest of the world. 
Title: Re: Anyone else?
Post by: 42CSurprise! on October 05, 2023, 12:56:17 PM
In my fantasy life I often think of myself as a lesbian... and that was well before my breasts began to grow.  As I noted above, with diminished testosterone and elevated estrogen in the mix, any sexual relationship I would have with a woman would be essentially a lesbian relationship.  Alas, I've reached an age when finding a willing partner is not high on my list of priorities.  But I'm delighted for every man here who has a partner to share this journey.  It saddens me when those we love struggle with the reality of our lives and bodies.  I know that happens.  My relationship with my former wife is sweet but for reasons I only barely understand, we are not as close as we once were, even after our divorce.  So I live alone and whatever pleasure I have from the lovely breasts now held in the brassiere I'm wearing I find with and for myself.  I do enjoy my breasts and as noted above, nipples can definitely be an erogenous zone.  Nothing to complain about here... 8)
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