Man, that is the longest sentence ever!
Mate, your problem is bothering
YOU - so big or small you need to get it sorted. No surgeon is going to laugh at you - they'll just be honest and if they are in a position to fix your problem then they will. Remember there is no standard case of gyne - we come in all shapes and sizes. The one thing that is common between us all is the effect it has on our quality of life.
Pick up the phone. Book a consultation - feel a whole lot better
Good luck