You may read a lot of posts here about guys who are 20+ who still have it, but think about this: there are over probably 3,000,000,000 or so guys in the world, and a miniscule amount of them who have gyne post here. Gyne is a normal thing at your age, and I wouldn't start to worry until I was about 15 if I were you. It definitely sucks but there's nothing you can really do about it now.
Surgery is definitely not a wise option at your age because of how your hormones are still changing rapidly. Believe me, we know it sucks.