(mods please do not move this topic)
of course i wanted to entitle this thread "important, please read", or something along those lines. but everything anyone has to say on this board is important, and nothing less than.
we are all here for a common reason.
i'd like to share my experience.
i was first introduced to gyno after my 2nd or 3rd steroid cycle.
i had it bad enough to have glandular tissue about the size of half dollars underneath my nips. it was terrible.
i would find myself subconsciously contracting the musculature in my upper back, particularly the trapezius area to compensate the "boobage" that hung from my chest. actually, i shouldn't say 'hung', for my nips never hung.....but rather, protruded.
all the times when i could have been at the beach...but wasn't.
all the workouts i missed....figuring what was the point of lifting and trying to live a life of fitness, if no matter how hard i dieted or trained.....i would never get past my gyne - like kicking a dead horse.
my mom, finally chimed in and offered to pay for the surgery. i was maybe 21 at the time.
my surgeon was dr. schmidt, out of sarasota,fl. DO NOT USE HIM.
after the initial consultation, a surgery date was set, and i was more than clear with him as to what i expected....and if he could not do 'this', than it would be no problem for me to find another doctor.
i expected glandular tissue removal via scalpel, then lipo, and of course, talent...in the department of stitchwork.
a few days after the surgery i was flabergasted to find that this doctor has not even touched the glandular tissue with a scalpel, but rather used a ultra-sonic lipo technique to break up whatever bit of tissue he could, and of course sucked it out. the only problem with that is.......lipo, in my case, would have been the second step. first was to come the scalpel, second, the lipo.
no kidding, he may have removed 15-20% of the tissue that was supposed to be removed entirely.
talk about pissed right.
after some time, i went back and gave him a piece of my mind. he said he knew i was upset with him, and he didn't want to give me a concave, indented look to my chest.
i know my body...and this wouldn't have happened. even if it would have happened, i would have had a solution for it. diet & exercise. i can literally melt fat off of my body.
anyways, he offered to do a "revision" of the first surgery. i accepted, although i should have requested the full four grand back.
and this is what gets me...he still didn't fully remove the tissue. i still, to this day, have gynecomastia, and the scarring is horrible.
i suffer from chronic adult onset hypertension disorder, which i believe is stemmed from the gyne. like i said earlier, i'm always walking around like a robot, with super stiff shoulders, and even stiff movements to hide the gyne that lives underneath my nips.
not to mention the phycological issues that has gone along with this whole thing.
and not to mention having to undergo two surgeries, with terrible results.
it's now the 22nd of november, 2005, my birthday. and i've decided that it's time to go back and see what i can do about getting every penny back from this doctor.
i may seek legal counsel before >:(hand, or just tell him if he doesn't fork over my moms hard earned coinage that i will seek legal counsel.
or just go on the gumption that he will know that i am right and he is wrong.
to me, even agreeing to do a so called "revision" is admitting fault.
from what i can tell, he is a very humble, and conservative man.
i don't know...........any thoughts or suggestions. thanks guys