I'm 20 years old, and I have had large breasts since age 10. In the past 10 years, I have been healthy weight (sometimes even close to slim), overweight, and obese (my weight has fluctuated in 2 year cycles a lot over the last 10 years). I am currently at the border line of overweight/healthy weight according to BMI (but I lost 20 pounds in the last year, I'm not gaining weight right now, in fact I may be losing right now). In the past 10 years, when I was obese and healthy weight, my breasts were still large and "pointy". It seems like there's a big mass of something in each of the breasts. Do I have gynecomastia?
I asked my family physician at age 16 about my breasts, and he told me that I have soft tissue and that if I do chest exercises, the breasts will get smaller. I asked him if he wanted to examine my breasts, and he said it wasn't necessary. Two ther family doctors that I know, however, said that my condition happens because of puberty (they didn't use the word gynecomastia), and that it would go away in 1 year. The other family doctors have also told me that I should get the surgery by age 18 if it doesn't go away by then. But now I'm 20! Is it possible that my physician does not know what gynecomastia is?
Could the cause of my gynecomastia be high estrogen/hormonal problems? I do have some female characteristics that aren't typical of a 20 year old male. My voice is somewhat like a female's (when I'm on the phone, I'm ALWAYS called "m'aam", and I've been mistaken for my sister a few times...). When I ask others who know me about my voice, they say it sounds "not male", but at the same time "not female". I have a little more fat in the bum/legs (again, like a female) than other males.
Also...I'm too embarassed to tell anyone this (even my physician)...but I'm infertile. I am not capable of conciously ejaculating/reaching orgasm despite trying (and trying is actually boring for me and feels like a waste of time...). I do have a full beard though...
So should I go to my family physician? What should I tell him, assuming he still does not know what gynecomastia is? Is it appropriate to tell the doctor that I want surgery? Typically I never suggest a certain treatment to my doctor, because I've always trusted his judgement...