Hey bro,
I am 20 year old Gyn victim. I just found out about it by looking online too. I though I just had big nipples and was chubby but I didn't think guys were supposed to be that chubby in the chest.
Anyway, I am from NY but not near NY City. I live in Erie County in Western NY. I am in Japan now but when I return home on the 15th, I will ask my doctor about what can be done. I couldn't afford the operation. I have no money because I am in college.
My advice is, even if it may be embarrasing, talk to your doctor. Remember you do have Doctor-Patient confidentiality so you should be safe. Most doctors are good about that.
Good luck man, I still gotta explain about what I got to my parents because they thought it was fat and told me to do excersie.