Beach holiday... sun, water, man boobs

[sickman]

I've been trying to live with my gyne for over 1 year (only 15 years old) and I know some of the guys on this forum have lived with it for over 20 or so years, which for them i give my utmost sympathy. To hide it i usually wear a dark top with a vest, but how am I going to do that on my beach holiday in a week with my family.. its gonna be pretty hard wearing two layers of clothes trying to hide my puffy breasts. Has anyone got any tips? I know ill be in the water alot and ill have to try and avoid humiliation however im trying to ease off, as if loads of people would have it on the beach, but now i am seeing my self as the only one. Should I just face it, take my top off, and dive into the water while everyone looks at me like a woman? Man.. I cant take this anymore, sorry guys if this little note affects your situation or effect.
And by the way, im a skinny guy, which makes it worse, my breasts pop out like rocks because of the small lump underneath, not floppy, but solid, which makes me look even more like a female porn star.. lol..

Thanks

[Blitz]

I feel for you, brotha.  I know you're probably losing sleep over this as well.  I don't have a solution as to hiding your boobs when you're shirtless in the water.  I could say just don't go in the water and keep a shirt on at all times.  If it embarrasses you this much, then maybe this might be the way to go.  Rude remarks will haunt you for a long time and it might ruin your vacation.  Just remember, you didn't ask for this to happen to you.

I feel as if I'm giving you lousy advice because I'm telling you to do things that will take away from your holidays.  After your holidays, you may want to look into finding a surgical solution so this isn't a problem for your next vacation.  Good luck.

[Paa_Paw]

A sporting good shop may be able to fit you with a sleeveless body suit such as is sometimes worn by surfers.  These are made of the same material as wetsuits and should provide good cover.

My Gyne developed when I was 12 and never went away.  It runs in the family.  You can learn to live with it.
I'm now 68 years old.

See you at the beach.

[GynoVict1m]

dude reminds me of myself.. just get one of those wetsuits.. try underarmour, i use those. they work well. just dont slouch

[nothingworse]

Man that sucks and yes rude remarks can stick with you forever. The wet suit thing sounds like a good idea and would probably work out well. Or when you go if things don't look to bad and there are a lot of others or you feel secure about going shirtless go for it. It all depends on you and what you want to do. As for wearing a shirt in the water I would suggest the wet suit to that anyday. The last time I wore a shirt in the pool my friends and other kids asked me why I was wearing a shirt? The only thing I could come up with was I was cold. Very embarrasing. This was in school so next day I toughed it out and went shirtless and I didn't really get any nasty comments and not any staring that I could remember. All was okay. But, I am not saying gyne is great either. I am just saying some people keep rude comments and thoughts to themselves while others are total a**es about it. Hopefully when you go to the beach there are more of the first group of decent people. Usually the younger kids are the ones who make the big deals even early adults such as college age etc. But, once people past that age most of them become decent people while the small majority still remain the a**es in their own way. I just wish earlier on in life I would have had more of the decent than the crap experiences. Good luck my man and enjoy your holiday and I hope for the best for you.