Pictures with t shirt on

[curiousk]

I have some pictures of me wearing xl t shirts.  I like them and think that they fit well.   I believe that my boobs look smoothed out and not drawing a lot of attention to myself.  

[Johndoe1]

These look nice. What bra are you wearing?

[curiousk]

Thank you.  I'm wearing an unlined underwire bra.  One of my go to bras.  I also wear a padded demi cup bras when the weather is cooler.  It still looks like I have boobs, but they have a rounded, smooth appearance.  While I can't hide them, they appear and feel in control without bouncing around. 

[SideSet]

Exactly. Yes, just like a woman, you have boobs. And just like a woman you can’t hide them, but you can emphasize or deemphasize.  Here, you are deemphasizing.

I agree that part of deemphasizing is controlling movement. Another part is shape and smoothness. Here you look like everything is nicely  held in place. Nicely rounded and lifted, but not so prominent.

While you can’t see the outlines, it is obvious to anybody who looks that you are wearing a bra.  It is the only way your bust would look like that. You can’t tell how big your breasts are, that is, your cup size, because clearly your breasts are being contained, but you can tell that you are not flat chested  like a man and that you are wearing a bra like a woman, just, as I said earlier, deemphasizing your bust.

You look nice.  Smooth.  Nicely shaped and lifted. Contained.   I like you in those tops.  And the bra works for you.  Braless would be much more provocative. 

[Johndoe1]

Thank you.  I'm wearing an unlined underwire bra.  One of my go to bras.  I also wear a padded demi cup bras when the weather is cooler.  Is still looks like I have boobs, but they have a rounded, smooth appearance.  While I can't hide them, they appear and feel in control without bouncing around. 

I have found the same thing. It may look like I have breasts, but if the look of them are not floppy or bouncing around, and natural in appearance, no one notices. That was the most noticeable thing after I started wearing a bra, wondering eyes stopped. I couldn't figure it out for the longest time, then hit me. I had not been paying attention to my chest so it looked however it wanted. After I started wearing a bra, I paid attention to the look of my chest and eyes stopped going to my chest even though I still showed. And that has given me peace of mind. I have control over my breasts now on look and movement and that has made all the difference in the world.

[curiousk]

John and Sideset, I totally feel the same way as both of you.  I'm very comfortable wearing those shirts in public.  They are men's xl shirts.  I've tried some women's t shirts because they have more room in the chest.  They basically fit the same.  I do have a couple of women's t shirts that I wear regularly.

This is the bra that I was wearing in the pictures.  They are discontinued.  I have 2 of them and wish I bought more when I had the chance.

https://www.penningtons.com/en/soft-cup-bra---ti-voglio/401671.html

[SideSet]

 Oh, I like that bra. I like looking at bras.  Studying them. I think we look more closely at bras than a lot of women do. 

That bra looks like it’s very comfortable and with a lot of support, and the type of bra you would want to wear when you’re not looking to emphasize your breasts.   It’s not a minimizer, because it does not spread the breast tissue as widely, but it almost acts like a minimizer. 

I think that model is more full busted than she appears. 


 When you bought those bras, did you go in and try it on? 

[curiousk]

I check out bras often as well.

I did try it on.  I have pics of my trying this one on in one of my previous posts in the photo section.  At that time, I had a bit of room around the underwire.  I don't anymore.  I love this one.  Very once in awhile, they'll have 1 or 2 for sell.  Maybe they find some in a warehouse or a storage area in a store.  If I find one in my size, I'll buy it quickly.

[Dale Warnio]

 I have heard lots of women say the same thing about a favorite bra.  When they have an old standby, they will buy several, and often more if they know it’s about to go out of stock. 

So glad you try on.   I think it’s impossible to buy a bra without trying it on first.  You need to wear a bra as much as any woman does, so it’s good you’re comfortable going into the Intimate apparel department  to look at, try on, and buy bras with all the other women doing the same.   you have a breasts like a woman, need to wear a bra like a woman, so you should be able to go bra shopping just like every other woman 

[Traveler]

I totally agree with the others that a good bra is one of the most important factors in keeping the girls concealed. With the proper shape and a tee with some body to the fabric, we can look a little chesty instead of busty. I have to be careful when sitting down that I don’t “shelf” over the table, but overall I’m unremarkable when I’m out and about.

[Johndoe1]

I think that model is more full busted than she appears.

That bra does not fit the model. The gore is not tacking and I suspect this is a classic case of cups too small, band too large and the wrong style for the body. I hear women complain all the time how you would expect a manufacturer would want their product to be presented correctly.

[blad]

The shaping and control of a bra definitely improves my appearance and confidence. I feel naked in public without a bra.

[SideSet]

So true, blad, so true. 

 I am always more comfortable and confident wearing a bra. When I am braless all that juggling and nipples rubbing inside my tops feels unpleasant, but I also know how suggestive it is, so I worry what people think because I can see both men and women looking extra long at my bust 

[Dale Warnio]

 For those very reasons, most women feel they need to wear a bra, and I think that makes a bra the most feminine of garments. I feel the same need as women do, and it reminds me of my femininity 

[curiousk]

Exactly. Yes, just like a woman, you have boobs. And just like a woman you can’t hide them, but you can emphasize or deemphasize.  Here, you are deemphasizing.

I agree that part of deemphasizing is controlling movement. Another part is shape and smoothness. Here you look like everything is nicely  held in place. Nicely rounded and lifted, but not so prominent.

While you can’t see the outlines, it is obvious to anybody who looks that you are wearing a bra.  It is the only way your bust would look like that. You can’t tell how big your breasts are, that is, your cup size, because clearly your breasts are being contained, but you can tell that you are not flat chested  like a man and that you are wearing a bra like a woman, just, as I said earlier, deemphasizing your bust.

You look nice.  Smooth.  Nicely shaped and lifted. Contained.  I like you in those tops.  And the bra works for you.  Braless would be much more provocative.

You are right, anyone who looks at my shirt with the rounded boobs would know that I'm wearing a bra.  I'm ok with it.  I do notice eyes wandering to my chest, but they would do it whether I had a bra or not.  The best part is that there is containment and a smooth shape.  The bra is a 42 C.  I'm deemphasizing for sure.  This is a bra more for spring and summer because the material is light weight as well providing good support. 
This is a bra i tried on a few months ago.  I love it.  It was a little pricey and I don’t need a new one right now.  Maybe in the fall.