If you have breasts like we do, over time you are eventually going to try on a bra, either because you have heard so many times you need to wear a bra or because you yourself come to feel the need for support, containment and a better presentation.
Once you try wearing a bra, you will never go back, and often you begin to have a different feeling about having breasts.
You start to teach yourself about bras. What different styles do for you, such as support, lift, shaping and nipple concealment. You discover what you like. You find the brands and styles that work best for you. You build the bra collection you need. And want.
Having and wearing bras becomes natural, your new normal. And you accept you have now become like a woman is in this aspect.
You shop for bras like women do and when you go into a boutique or intimate apparel department you are surrounded by women and you are doing the same thing as them. The women see you have breasts like them and not like a man. They accept you need to wear a bra like they do.
As you shop for your bras, get fitted, try on, and treated like the women around you, you also see the bras surrounded by panties, shapewear, hosiery, nighties, and lingerie in general. You can’t help but notice them. It is natural curiosity to eventually want to check them out.
Nobody reacts or even seems to notice when you move from the bra to panty display. Or sometimes a sales associate helping you with the bras you and she know you need, asks if you need any panties today, or shows you the matching panty for the bra you and she have decided works best for you, or the sales associate tells you she is wearing the bra you are about to buy and it is her favorite and would you like her to bring you the shaper she is wearing and that she thinks you will like, too? Or how about some pantyhose or tights or stockings?
You may feel awkward at first, but with time and exposure and acceptance, you will eventually say yes. You have seen how good these other items look on women. You have seen and been told a bra looks
good on you. So, you finally give in and try panties, shapers, hosiery, etc.
You find they feel so silky, soft, smooth, and whispery on you. It is so unlike men’s underwear and like nothing you ever experienced. You find they look better with the bras that have become second nature for you to wear and that you and everyone knows you need.
You find you can’t say no to that first matching panty or the shaper the sales associate says she is wearing with the same bra you and she have on. I mean, what’s the big deal, you already wear a bra like a woman, of course you should panties, too. You look silly in the dressing room with your nicely filled bra matched with men’s tighty whiteis, which in my case, show they are only nicely filled in back, but showing clearly there is very little to fill the front.
You say ok please bring me the matching panty or shaper. The sales associate does, along with a disposable paper panty, she tells you to use underneath. She says she will get you a few more different styles she thinks you might like. When she returns, you are in the same bra and shaper as her and she says they look good on you and asks how does it feel. You honestly answer good, you like them. She says she does, too. And you wonder if she is talking about you, herself, or the both of you or if the distinction even matters.
You end up buying the bra and panties or shaper.