Hi, I need some advise guys.
I work with a friend of mind and we both bodybuild together. I have know him for four years now and he always ask me why I don't wear small shirts or tank tops when we go out to clubs. Since I join this forum i have been feeling better about myself and i feel like telling him so he can help he look for a good ps. I don't know if he is going to make jokes about my gyno or if he will understand and still work out with me. Help what should i do? Anyone had the same problem i have or just anyone wanting to give info write back.
Let him joke, my best buddy does. I only had to tell him once that it really wasn't funny (well, it sorta is ) and he quit. He is also the one who noticed it before I did. The issue of wearing a tight shirt....maybe not at school or work, but when you are out on the weekends, try going shoppping or some other activity, and watch people. You will find that most people won't even notice, and unless they are stopping and gawking at you, I wouldn't be too concerned. I made a point to point that out to my buddy...no more mention now. Now it is his issue, and not mine. After all, what guy wants to be accused of looking at your chest? LOL <veg> It challenges them with their own fears.
I did go to Target ad bought a couple of compression shirts in the underwear section of the men's depart... They don't really compress a lot, but actually smooth out the high points, making it look like you've been working out a bit. The shirts are cheap enough, so that may be a consideration for you. I got them to work in the office, as women seem to give you funny looks when yours are perkier than theirs. JK