Hi and welcome to the boards,
I completely understand your concerns and impatience, but you have to have a clear view of what needs to be done and more importantly, who you need to be seeing.
My gyne first appeared in my late 40s and (rightly so) this rang alarm bells within the medical fraternity, because it is unusual in middle years. Gyne is common during puberty and later age (60+).
It is uncommon in the middle years and needs to be investigated. Regarding your question about gyne on one side only ... no I believe it is not that uncommon to have it on one side only; my surgeon who does several hundred gyne ops a year says he sees quite a lot of unilateral gyne.
It sounds like your early experience of doctors was not unlike mine. Although my GP was great and referred me onto various local hospitals, it soon became apparent that the people I was seeing were out of their depth. I needed to see a good Endocrinologist (hormone specialist) preferably one who specialises in reproductive matters. There is a contributor on these boards called
Hypo_is_here who, if he reads this, can give you some names. If he doesn’t pick up on this try sending him a Personal Message.
Assuming your gyne is glandular and not just fat, then there are many possible causes for your gyne appearing when it did, but it is almost certainly because your male and female hormones (androgens and oestrogens) have fallen out of balance. What is causing that imbalance to happen is what the doctors have to find out. It could simply be a side effect of some medication you are taking .. it could be something more complicated but as far as I am aware all are treatable.
The following causes of gynecomastia and percentages are taken from a medical paper ..
The Endocrinology of Gynaecomastia by AAA Ismail and JH Barth (Department of Clinical Biochemistry and Immunology, Leeds General Infirmary, England.)Cause (%)
Idiopathic (unknown) 25
Puberty 25
Drugs 10-20
Cirrhosis or Malnutrition 8
Primary Hypogonadism 8
Testicular tumour 3
Secondary Hypogonadism 2
Hyperthyroidism 2
Renal Disease 1
Others 6
If you want to read a little deeper on the subject then I suggest you Google this paper and download it.
A good Endo will know what tests to run and very importantly when to run them. He or she will carry out a full medical examination of you, including your testicles, and take a medical history. You may have already been through all of this but another going over won’t do you any harm and it will amount to a second opinion. It was my early experience for instance that the doctors I first saw didn’t realise that blood tests should be taken in the morning. Consequently I was getting erratic results when one set was compared to another simply because some were done at 9am and others done at 4pm. I’m not suggesting that this would account for your varied results but I’m trying to make the point that a good Endo will know the correct procedures to use.
Discomfort or pain (bearing in mind different peoples perception of pain) in the breast is again not uncommon. Some get it and some don’t. In my case it was the first thing that sent me to the GP long before I felt a lump. I got to the stage when I knew my oestradiol levels were up and the gyne was growing simply because the tenderness reappeared. It had to be confirmed by blood tests of course but I was right every time.
Like you I found the whole investigate process slow and worrying. In the early days it was obvious that the people I was seeing really didn’t have the skills or the experience to help me. Finally I saw a Professor of Endocrinology and more latterly an Andrologist who knew EXACTLY what to look for and what tests to run.
Finally ... stay focussed. Find the expertise who can help you, you may have to research them yourself but hopefully
Hypo_is_here will give you a list of those in your area.
Keep us posted as to how you get on. Ask questions. You may like to post your lab results on here (with the relevant lab ranges) because there are one or two people on here (not me) who although layman, have a huge amount of knowledge on matters hormonal.
Good luck and end of ramble