First I would like to thank those who have posted here concerning the use of a bra to control back pain and general discomfort. I have also been dealing with these large breasts for many years and it wasn't until recently that I found this site and was able to learn about about my problem. I had a heart attack back in March, that woke me up to the fact that I was doing everything wrong, eating and exercise were the big problems. I listened to the Dr. and lost 50 pounds by diet and exercise but found that my two friends were even bigger, I thought for sure I would lose them along with the fat and weight lifting. I was riding my bicycle 25 miles a day (weather permitting) and would really suffer back and neck problems. I rode a 100 mile ride in Oct. and could hardly lift my head after the ride my neck hurt so much, and by bed time my back felt like it was broken. I never gave a thought that my breasts were hanging straight down and bouncing around as I was over the handlebars. Walking on the treadmill was also pure agony, the bouncing of my breasts would hurt so bad I just wanted to stop and forget about the exercise. If I want to live I have to keep the plumbing clear and the blood flowing to my heart.
After reading the many posts concerning surgery I ruled that out as an option, then I got into acceptance of the problem. I sat down with my wife and explained what I have been going through for 60 years, both emotional and physical and I said that as goofy as it sounded I was going to try a bra, she measured me and came up with a size I needed. We went to a store and picked out a sports bra in the right size, I came home and put it on. As mentioned in an earlier post, I wish I had done this years ago, what a relief. No more pain and as goofy as it sounds the bra is really comfortable. According to the measurements I am a 38 B/C, and from the the feeling when I take the bra off those breasts must really weigh a lot. I have reached a point in life were I am now more concerned with how I feel rather than what others think. I also have a much better feeling of acceptance of my breasts. I think I have finally gotten over the embarrassment of someone finding out what I have, if they don't like it they don't have to look, and I don't know 90% of the people that stare at a man with breasts. As someone else said, a bra is nothing more than another piece of clothing. I will not buy a bra that makes my breasts look bigger and I have no intention of letting the world know that I wear a bra. My wife understands the problem of breasts and the pain involved with lack of support and she has been very helpful. I still feel funny getting up in the morning, putting on my shorts then my bra, it just doesn't sound normal for a man to be doing that. I'm sure I will get over that feeling because I feel so much better physically.
Just my two cents worth.
Thanks again to all those that post here at gynecomastia.com, it sure has been a big help to me.