A few days ago, I went to Dr. Fielding for a consult. I have a few concerns.
I noticed that he doesn't explain things in too much depth, and he is somewhat brief. Is this ok? It seems like he knows what he's doing.
But I was also feeling very tired (didin't get any sleep on the red eye from Vancouver). I forgot to ask him some questions, so I'll ask here.
My situation: I do have gynecomastia. I am not overweight (according to BMI), but most think I'm 10 pounds overweight probably because I don't have much muscle tone (I look like I'm 100% covered in fat), I'm very short, my face is naturally round, and my gynecomastia makes me look fat. Still though, I would like to lose about 10 pounds (just to have less of a belly and to look skinny, not average). My gynecomastia is a pretty bad case - Dr. Fielding did say I have quite a bit of extra skin, but it will likely go away (my skin is elastic).
Dr. Fielding showed me with his hands how much the surgery will reduce my gynecomastia. However, I don't know if he meant that just the excision will remove that much, or that both will remove that much. I was not really impressed - it seemed like whatever he was describing (either just the excision, or both excision and lipo) would not make my chest much flatter. It seemed like I would get an end result like this:
http://www.rsplastic.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/gynecomastia-119081.jpgIgnore the before in the picture above - my gynecomastia is much larger than his was.
If you look at this person's after picture, his chest still isn't flat. I don't want to end up like him - I want a more flat chest!
I talked to Dr. Fielding about this (still not having a complete chest), and he said don't expect to be 100% satisfied with the surgery. Is he purposely going to still leave some fat in my chest just because he possibly thinks I'm overweight, and that having a chest with a bit more fat will look proportional to the rest of my body? There was a doctor who posted on these boards before who said that he does leave in a bit more fat for overweight people so that their chest looks proportional to the rest of their body, and to give them an incentive to lose weight. I don't want Fielding doing this to me - and I'm not even overweight! (but I admit, I do look overweight to most because of the reasons listed above). It feels like a punishment for being overweight (even though I'm really not, but he thinks I am).
Another concern of mine was the fat above my breasts. I do have some fat above my breasts (coming down from my shoulders towards my breast), and Fielding said that it is subcantaneous fat, meaning that it can go away through weight loss, and that for gynecomastia surgery, he typically doesn't ahve to remove fat in that area. But he also said that there is a bit more fat there than he would expect for someone with the same weight/height as me. I've lost many pounds over the past few years, and fat was NEVER lost in that area. I told him I wanted that fat removed, and he agreed. He told me he can't remove all of the fat in that area b/c it would look "not natural". What does he mean by this? Does this mean he'll leave enough fat so my chest looks proportional to someone overweight? He told me that he can't remove all the fat b/c he said EVERYBODY has SOME fat in that area. Still...I have my doubts. He seemed to be getting a little annoyed at my concern about having a flat chest. But really...I didn't mean to annoy...I just want this surgery to be well worth the money and I want a good job to be done in the first time. I was hoping he would be a bit more empathetic.
However, my surgery now comes to $2400 plus GST, which is WAY more expensive than what most here have paid! And I'm a full time student! Do you think he's giving me a break because I'm a full time student, or not? Is he charging me more as a punishment for supposedly being overweight (even though I'm not)?
Is he just saying that my chest won't be 100% flat just so I don't complain after just in case it doesn't turn out the way he planned? I've seen many before/after pictures for Fielding, and it looks like he always does a good job regardless of whether or not the patient is overweight (makes everyone's chest flat!). For those of you who were overweight when you had the surgery - were you satisfied in the end? How flat was your chest afterwards? Was it like the picture posted above, or flatter than that? I really don't think having a completely fat chest would look disproportional on me b/c I'm not overweight!