my chest was still swollen!! you think swelling goin to go down completely after 7 days???NO!! It has went down some.
and yea what if you lost weight and it's already loose and doesn't tighten?? then whhat??
anyways my chest was gon look the same if i lost weight or not...i was already lbs less and they were still the same!! So why keep loosin weight if you ain't seeing no results....just beats a toll on you!
If you lose all the weight that you can and your skin doesn't tighten then presumably surgery is your best avenue. Why do you think all these doctors on here tell you that weight loss AFTER surgery is riskier? They're trying to sculpt you to leave you with the best contour possible. How can they do that if you're obese? They can't tell how your chest will rest at a nice weight. If you're already at a nice weight, they can see exactly what they're working with.
I'm now 12 days post-op and I hardly have any swelling. Mind you, my case was very mild compared to yours. I just think you had lots of weight to lose before you lied down on an operating table. Not to lose the moobs, but to get the rest of the area ready for correction. Again, I'm not expert. I'm just going by what I've read.
no law says you HAVE to get surgery! 
this site is notorious for people trying to railroad you into getting them chopped off at all costs. 
If thats what you want by all means go for it, Id just like to tell you tho that thousands of guys live quite happy lives with body shapes that many would consider "abnormal" But, what is "normal"?- models, film stars, pop stars, sportsmen? or everyday guys that you see everywhere.
I could care less about models, film stars, pop stars and sportsmen. I just wanted the gland excised from my chest so I could actually see my pecs. That's normal to me. You might be happy with those things, but breasts like yours would cause a lot of people a lot of emotional distress. Whether we get philosophical about normality or not, guys don't generally like to have breasts. If surgery can correct that with a low level of risk and complication then I see no reason why someone shouldn't opt for it if it bothers them.
That's great that you're comfortable in your own skin, but let's be realistic. If you developed some excess tissue growth on your face and you found it disfiguring, but you could get it removed without complication... I wonder how long you'd walk around feeling disfigured before you considered surgery? Same goes for the next guy and his chest.
Some babies are born with benign tumors on their faces, but what is "normal" and "abnormal"? You don't always need a magazine to tell you when something looks out of place. Hey, if it's an attractive tumor, then keep it! You can decorate it at Christmas time! Just like moobs, if you've got a nice set, then maybe you should keep them... but I've seen pics of a lot of man titties on here. There aren't very many that I'd consider as pretty as yours...
