fluffy, i get you fine, you're a straight shooter. titmouse is completely different, he has two problems.
one is, he doesn't listen, you can say the same thing at him three times, he'll never get it, he's in it for the trash talking, AND he'll accuse you of doing what he does (not listening, thinking he knows eveything), because that's what trashtalkers do. he's a tarbaby. doesn't matter how clearly you say it, with him it will always go in one ear and out the other, and all he does is claim it's really you.
his second problem is - and he STILL never answered my question about whether he's one of those old dudes (gyne44d, blatino, angel_allen, etc.) under a new handle in spite of my asking three times, not that he'd answer honestly anyway or like it mattered - is that there are two kinds of keepers, and he's the bad kind like those guys. the good kind like william can live with those who choose to fix their gyne, and it's great, more power to them. they're like me, they understand we're in this together and can respect anyone's choice, no matter if it's keep or get rid of it. those who can't, it's weird, they can't
stand it, it's like they're scared of or angry at the guys who get it fixed, so they go around telling people that unless you've got size 40s, you've got nothing except bdd, they call you butcher or self mutilator, they make fun of kids for posting at all, and if you call them on it, they whine that you must be working for the docs (titmouse has tried this twice now, he's the kind of scum who'll say anything no matter how untrue so long as it sounds like a smart-ass answer back) and
they're the ones being persecuted! some of the earlier guys were pedophile fetishists who told these kids how "hot" they looked - and i was almost the only one on this site to blow the whistle on it while they were drooling at the pics and doing their "persecution" whine. believe me, if this were one of the sites i was a mod on, they'd never have lasted as long as they did.
they're nutjobs, you can't reason with them. i said it all in one simple post before. i'll post it again, but you watch. a case like titmouse, it'll never even sink in:
yep. anytime somebody starts using words like "chop" or "butcher" or "cancer" i just start tuning them out, they don't know jack. my gyne, which is not a severe case, f**ked up my life probably much worse than even a cancer could have. posts like tm's are the kind of argument that says, don't give money to a harelip foundation, those kids are just a bunch of whiney egotists that need to get over their body dysmorphic disorder narcissism, at least you don't have aids, boo hoo you whiney p*ssies that think you have the right to reverse your disfigurements or make choices for yourselves and your own dignity. i don't think even a bucket of ice water would wake some of these twats up.
i've always stood up here for the rights of keepers, but so many of them love to cross the line of respect and turn into wisecracking trolls instead no different from the b**ch-ass bullies that make fun of gyne kids in school. if a guy knows his life better than you do and wants to fix the gyne that's f**ked him, butt out, shut up, and
LET HIM DO IT.