First Bras

[aboywithgirls]

Absolutely nothing wrong with being a full busted male. Some women are flat chested and have never owned or wore a bra.
I'm a cup size larger than my wife. She wears a 36G /F and I wear a 36H or G on most of my bras. How do you compare in bra size to your GF?

[SideSet]

She is mostly a D cup, but when she gets a bra that is not a D, it is a C, not a DD, so I am now bigger than she is, but she is pretty big still.

[Athena12@]

I am still my 36B and the wife is a 36D so our bras don't get mixed up.  But she doesn't like me wearing a bra even when I buy one for her.  I have come home with a bra she liked and the first words out of her mount were "Did you shop for me?"  So the next day I scoured the sales at Dilliard's and found one in here size (Thank God) and in a different color, which she liked and I was off the hook.  But she still doesn't like me wearing a bra except when we go to the casino in Maryland. I was wearing the afore mentioned bra and so was she and I won a small jackpot.  So now I have to wear one there but I guess she doesn't want me to wear one anywhere else.  TOUGH LUCK, I'M WEARING ONE ANYWAY.

[SideSet]

If you wear a 36 B cup bra, then your breasts are about the same size that many women wear.  Most of them would not regularly go around braless and neither should you.  It is about comfort and confidence.

[Athena12@]

what you at is true to a point but I do not have the fat deposits under my nipples like women do not do I have (to my knowledge) do I have enlarged milk glans of a woman behind my nipples.  What I have is enlarged chest cells above the nipple tha r not indicative of female breast but do require support.  Mine have seems to stop at a t 38 A/B which correlates to a 36B.  A lace 36B lightly line bra is a great fir for me, as long as the band as some nice stretch to it.

[SideSet]

Athena, do you prefer underwire?  I do.

[Busty]

I prefer underwire bras. I find they give better support, which is important if you are full-busted like me. Also, they give me nice lift, so I have a more youthful appearing  bustline.

[SideSet]

Busty, you seem to think of bras the way a woman would.

[chestyoldman]

I have adopted the position that since I have breasts I want to have the best-looking ones possible. Therefore, I wear underwire bras and some even have a tiny bit of padding to improve my shape. Personal choice, not necessarily right for everyone else.

[Busty]

Chesty and Sideset, you both look great in your bras.  And you both need to wear bras.  So it would make sense for you to get bras that work best for you.

[SideSet]

I am amazed at how quickly putting on my bra is already second nature, feels so natural, how much better I feel and feel I look in a bra, and how I like the feeling of being able to fill my bra cups, and needing to wear a bra.  I want to build an extensive collection of bras to choose from for whatever I am wearing, doing, or feeling on a given day.

[steven618]

I prefer underwires and front clasping. I workout a lot so I wear comfort seamless wireless bras like genie or barelythere for those tasks. I'm to a point i don't care anymore in regard to projection I'm barely a b cup so perhaps if I were larger i would however I do care about detection and try to avoid back clips and clasps as to avoid any indication of a bra being on. Plus the front clasps I feel give me much better ability to put on and remove and to swoop and scoop

[chestyoldman]

Bustymale, thanks for the compliment. SideSet, over time I have done exactly what you're talking about doing. I have built a pretty good wardrobe of bras for pretty much whatever activity I'm going to doing and my mood and color choice of the day. It has been fun getting them. Except for my sports bras all the rest are underwire and have varying amounts of padding. On a whim I even bought a cheap one with LOTS of padding, just to see what I would look like with bigger breasts. My only concern now is that I will need to start over if I outgrow these! 

[SideSet]

Chesty, busty, and Steven, It is quite a journey we are on learning about our breasts and the bras we need to wear for them.

[chestyoldman]

Yes it is, SideSet! I've gone through several emotions from shocked to embarrassed to frustrated to finally accepting and actually enjoying them.