Why Oh Why?

[Busty]

I was braless in school and not unusual to get felt up. 

[blad]

I really needed to wear a bra full time in my teens but without establishing home support to do so or have the the nerve to do so on my own, I constantly suffered with the awareness of my unsupported breasts. I was always jealous of the girls being able to wear what they needed. I new from wearing a bra at home in private how much better it felt to be supported by one.

Of course everyone in school new that I should have been wearing a bra and constantly reminded me.

[Johndoe1]

I was braless in school and not unusual to get felt up.

Same thing happened to me. Gym class. I hated it. It affected me so much that I grew to hate sports and not to participate which later in life lead to obesity and the girls growing even bigger due to the stored estrogen on fat. 

[p.r.1974]

Never had anyone snap the band or unhook me that wasn't trusted. I would have had a hard time keeping the instant rage at bay with the d-bag that had done so at the time. Developing at puberty was indeed not fun. Hitting 6'2" in the seventh grade discouraged most of the direct comments. I too needed to be supported at the time, but that would require conversation with family beyond pleasantries and emergencies. I felt that it was, but also did not want a larger target on for the trolls. 20 years later the groping happened more than once at work. I needed the job and reporting it would involve way more than I was ready to deal with.

[Traveler]

From the time I started developing I was made to feel that it was my fault for having breasts. I was a little chunky but my no means fat. But it was told time and again I had boobs because of my weight, even by doctors at the time. This caused me to have a very turbulent relationship with my weight for decades. I too went through the weight loss cycle that produced even larger breasts. Wasn’t until just the last few years the real reason was discovered, wildly high testosterone converted to estrogen and high aromatase receptors. Not being my fault made me able to finally fully accept my breasts.

[Dudewithboobs]

It is nice when a cause is found or at least a contributor to the cause of. I feel a concern for many is why is this happening, what am I doing to cause this? I’m healthy, no bad habits and so forth so why’s this occurring? I can definitely see how finding the root or main cause out as to why can give a sense of relief. 

[Brdy64]

It is nice when a cause is found or at least a contributor to the cause of. I feel a concern for many is why is this happening, what am I doing to cause this? I’m healthy, no bad habits and so forth so why’s this occurring? I can definitely see how finding the root or main cause out as to why can give a sense of relief.

Sometimes I think it's "just because". 
I used to beat myself up over that question since my teens. There was no real answer. My brother and I both got it. 
It's just the luck of the draw. 
Moving past the haunting question of "why" is step one in accepting things and moving on in my case. 

[Dudewithboobs]

Agreed. I’ve been to a few doctors and in the end the conclusion was idiopathic. Which is fun. Why am I growing breasts when I’m otherwise healthy, verdict says “shoulder shrug” lol. Glad I paid copays for that profound information. I feel doctors should provide a if we can’t figure it out you get your money back lol. 
I find just looking at it as a positive rather than a negative gives a lot of solace as well. Even if the cause is found or not, so be it.