What I'm Wearing Today

[Busty]

AlfaQ, IMHO, you have every reason and right to be wearing a bra. It's obvious you are able to naturally fill the cups of a regular bra. You get physical comfort and benefit from the support and containment that a bra provides the same as any woman your size. And that picture proves your need to be supported. The same as any woman. In my book that's not fetish. That's need.

And the material it's made of doesn't matter if it's providing physical comfort. And you look well supported and contained and comfortable.  Lace is known for its strength in support as well as the cool it provides. I practically live in lace bras in the summer for the cooling provided verses level of support. That's not fetish, that's practical. Women have had this stuff figured out for years. Why reinvent the wheel?

I agree.  That bra looks good on you. You belong in a bra as much as any woman does. 

[AlfaQ]

A year ago I  remember moving upto a 34C bra which was a surprise back then.  Today  out of curiosity I  revisited this bra and it no longer fitted.  The cups were cutting into my upper breast tissue so it needs to go to the thrift shop.  It further confirms that I  need the 34D and even 34DD cups that the fitters now recommend for me.  There is a noticeable difference in the construction of DD+ cup bras, they tend to have broader shoulder straps and wider underbands  with 3 or 4 hook fastenings to support the increasing mass of breast tissue. They do feel quite robust!

[Johndoe1]

There's a reason you have bras and then there's D+ size bras. I prefer the wider straps and wider band D+ bras. It makes a difference in anchoring the breasts and gives better support and containment and less bounce. When I went to a DD bra the comfort level was so much better too.

Welcome to the D+ Club!