What I'm Wearing Today

[Justagirl💃]

Back to my green/light green polka-dot bra today....

I love how you look in that bra

Thank you

[42CSurprise!]

I've shared photos of this brassiere before... an inexpensive E-Bay purchase from a brand called Breezies.  I've mentioned that it isn't comfortable for long term wear but I love what it does with my breasts.  I've been wearing it for the last few days and am mesmerized by my breasts.  What can I say... that happens for me.  So this morning I thought I'd try a selfie.. this is what I got...

[Parity]

You fill it well!  It's nice at times to just enjoy the breast we have and shape them as breast.  Even if only for ourselves. 

[42CSurprise!]

Perhaps it is because when I started buying brassieres and experimenting with wearing them and had no intention to ever leave my home wearing one that I never bought bras that hid my breasts.  No sports bras for me!  Yes, I did eventually gravitate to a minimizing brassiere but that was simply because I didn't want any sort of padding.  This particular brassiere has cups that are paper thin as well as silky soft.  I liked the feel as well as the look. We all know that when we wear an underwire brassiere it will pull the mass of our typically wide set breasts together, creating a lovely shape to our bosom.  I welcome that.

Now I'm wearing a brassiere most of the time and rely on my clothing choices to mask the fullness of my breasts.  That likely works in part because I'm not a slender person.  I don't think people are able to understand the fullness of my chest... something we all know because we share photos of ourselves.  Yes, these are voluptuous breasts and I'm not unhappy about that.  This is the body nature has given me... so I intend to enjoy it as it is AND to wear attractive brassieres to treat them well.

[Dudewithboobs]

The beige/nude style/color bras are my favorite. Of the 9 bras I own 4 are this color for general purpose and use. I don't need floral or feminine colors, just something that blends in with the day to day and neutral colors serve that best. Your breasts clearly fill that bra well.

One thing said that resonates consistently is "creating a lovely shape to our bosom...i welcome that" and "not unhappy about that, this is the body nature has given to me". I think it's imperative for anyone on this forum to understand we didn't ask for our body's to develop breasts. Whether they are budding and stopped, slightly developed but easy to hide as softer chest or fat or fully developed unable to hide so must adapt. And feel once you adapt to the realization that you have a womans bustline, the shame/insecurity/etc just fades away. 

Thank you for always sharing 

[42CSurprise!]

Tried a couple of brassieres that aren't in my normal rotation this morning... one to wear while visiting the bank and one to wear this afternoon while taking care of business at home.  I thought I'd take a selfie of this lavender lace brassiere I've shown before.  It does a nice job of presenting my breasts and is a bit more pliable than the minimizers I wear most often.  That makes a difference when I touch my breasts... nothing more to say on that subject.  Here is the photo...

[Parity]

Still looking good there 42C.

[curiousk]

This is my Torrid bra that I wore today.  I was in the bathroom brushing my teeth and when I bent over to spit, I got a look at my cleavage. 

[WPW717]

Dude w boobs,

Have a look at extenders. My prednisone weight gain has made a few of my bras tighter. Downside is a bit more hardware visibility.

[Dudewithboobs]

I’m not a big worrier of visibility at this point. Just comfort. I’ll look into them. Thanks. 

[OldSlowAndRound]

I was trying the extenders, and went to my boutique to buy a size up.  my Sales Associate looked at me and told me to take extender off and then I should reach behind me and pull the strap down my back towards the floor. 

That’s what i needed.

[42CSurprise!]

My favorite brassiere does not produce bands longer than 42 inches so to wear it I need an extender.  I also learned that to keep the shoulder straps from falling down my arms I need a connecting piece that holds the shoulder straps in place.  This means I have to maneuver the brassiere so that connecting piece fits over my head with my arms through the shoulder straps.  I then have to reach behind my back to hook the extender to the opposite end of the band.  Fortunately, I am able to reach behind my back to accomplish that.  This works only because there are two hooks on that brassiere.  When there are three or more I have to hook them in front and twist the brassiere around my torso.  The brassieres that require have bands long enough that I don't need to constrain the shoulder straps.  The work we do to take care of our breasts!  

[WPW717]

Cannot even imagine how I would break if I tried to fasten behind my back. 

[50/50]

I fasten my bra from the front and spin it. But taking it off I can reach around and pull down and unfasten it. Fingers are not nimble enough to fasten it from behind.

[Parity]

50/50 I would say that sums it up for me as well.  I wanted so bad to wear a pullover and eliminate the hardware possibly showing for those sensitive times with a select few.  I even tried last week, I just can't flex that way any longer.  Hook and spin works and I just go on with life.  
For those questioning if they should  wear or not,  let me just say, I donned my 40C 40D bras without a problem all weekend.  Picking shirts, outerwear, that helps hide is key.