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Online JJ_Gyne

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So much great info to read and take in.. don't know exactly where I stand in the mix. I believe what's going on with me is hormonal driven even though numbers don't really prove it. They don't disprove something is wrong with my mix either.

I don't post too ofter either but I value this site as a resource and corroboration with my own experiences.

Took new pics to share. One what it looks like above the clothes one of what is going on below bra

Offline Johndoe1

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JJ, all breasts are beautiful no matter who's chest they're on. And yours are too. Just remember that. 
Womanhood is not defined by breasts, and breasts are not indicative of womanhood. - Melissa Fabello

Offline taxmapper

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Nice! 


Wish mine looked that full! 





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So much great info to read and take in.. don't know exactly where I stand in the mix. I believe what's going on with me is hormonal driven even though numbers don't really prove it. They don't disprove something is wrong with my mix either.

I don't post too ofter either but I value this site as a resource and corroboration with my own experiences.

Took new pics to share. One what it looks like above the clothes one of what is going on below bra
Have you heard "nice rack"directed towards you?
If the bra fits, wear it.

Online JJ_Gyne

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@ Dudewithboobs - thanks.. I was wearing my bra for the first Pic. I tend to tent out tshirts with obvious nippage when not wearing so I pretty much wear all the time. I have so skin hugging shoulder strap pullover style bralettes that don't show and switch to those if I am going to be out with crowds. They are a bit tighter but don't hide size but do dim the headlights.

@taxmapper - thanks, yeah they kinda qualify as a little perky.

@Johndoe1 - thanks they kinda grow on ya j/k

@blad - no, I think I would be deer in the headlights dumbstruck if a stranger on the street confronted me like that.
I think I am hiding in plain sight fairly well when I do go out. I could be oblivious to real perceptions though

Offline Busty

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Your breasts look amazing 

Online AlfaQ

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I know that my breast  development is not that significant  compared to most of you, but this morning I  did notice that  the inverted V or cleavage is becoming more noticeable.  I also feel more mass when I  massage them with oil. Also 1 nipple is becoming more pointy.  What does that indicate? 

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I am happy to accept them as they are and quite like them  However as things have definitely progressed over the last year or so there is the uncertainty about the future.  Further growth is OK but I  don't think that I would want to reach a D cup. 

Online JJ_Gyne

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@busty - thank you
@alfaQ - When my growth started my nipples seemed constantly alert... before growth spurts I would soetimes notice harder uneven masses of tissue behind the areola. They eventually balance out. When I am warm my areola will become half dollar size, puffy and soft.. very sensitive. When touched or exposed to cool air they contract and go back to hard tips. 

Dunno if other have that exact experience but I guess what I am saying is my breasts react much like a woman's would.

Also a D cup on an otherwise male torso doesn't necessarily mean it's as eyepopping as a smaller framed woman. Yeah there is alot of tissue there obviously buy proper support i beleive changes how it's carried. If that makes any sense. 

Yeah I wear 38D could probably also wear a 40C sister size. If letter assignment is a hang up.

Online JJ_Gyne

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I won't deny that I carry myself different when I am out in crowds vs safe at home. Only my wife really knows how busty I have become.

It does hurt that I try to hug loved ones differently as to not give up to the truth. Just because I accept what happened with me means others will.

Larger t-shirts, hoodies, slouching, crossing arms, rubbing hands different body posturing. even moving to keep people I know out of having a profile view. that part of it is exhausting and a tax on how I wish things could be.

I just wonder if the damn will even break. Really am paranoid about that who is going to call me out..

Online JJ_Gyne

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It's a thought to just be open with my situation and not care either way.. but I don't know I am ready to find out how it will play out.

My mom especially is breast cancer survivor so bringing her up to speed that "Hey, your son has breasts now.." is something I would rather not dump on her.

My rock for now is my wife. And for now that is good enough.

Offline Parity

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I won't deny that I carry myself different when I am out in crowds vs safe at home. Only my wife really knows how busty I have become.

It does hurt that I try to hug loved ones differently as to not give up to the truth. Just because I accept what happened with me means others will.

Larger t-shirts, hoodies, slouching, crossing arms, rubbing hands different body posturing. even moving to keep people I know out of having a profile view. that part of it is exhausting and a tax on how I wish things could be.

I just wonder if the damn will even break. Really am paranoid about that who is going to call me out..
I'm happy your in the place you are.  I think you should be proud of who you are and how you look.  Accepting the support of those who mean the most yet doing the dance with those that we feel will just be left with more questions than answers.  I think many of us here do what you describe as, Larger t-shirts, hoodies, etc....
I know I do that not out of shame for myself rather avoiding the conversation where I will walk away still being unheard, unseen and not understood. Leaving others guess is all right.  We just carry on.

Offline Johndoe1

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I used to hug differently and fold arms and all that. To me it seemed by doing unnatural things brought attention. After I stopped doing all that, I noticed I was not getting anywhere near the same attention. Truth is I rarely hug a guy. I do hug women. Going boob to boob I have never had a woman notice the two mounds pushing against her two mounds. Actually I don't pay any attention myself so suspect they don't either. You got to figure they hug each other and go boob to boob all the time and never think about it. 

Offline Parity

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You both make great points.

thanks for that.

Offline Evolver

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Act like nothing is a matter and they likely won’t tell. And even if they can. If you seem natural about it they probably will assume this has been a long term thing and probably not make it a cause for discussion. Long as you aren’t trying to provoke attention you should in my opinion be ok.
Spot on. Six months ago for example, even if I was wearing a simple racer-back crop under a tee shirt and hoodie and visitors were due, I would remove it to prevent a state of panic in case it was detected. Not nowadays; wearing something is more normal now and with it comes nonchalance. All the previous panic and fear was only in my mind.

 

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