Doctors Visit

[oldguy]

I have had 3 primary physicians over the last 4 years.  Each one ordered a mammogram.  Each have shown more breast tissue.

I have lost 53lbs, 48lbs after the holidays.  They told me that fat stores estrogen, so that may be why breasts are growing.  With a 34" waist, I'm going wear compression bras in the summer.  I think that going bra less in the summer is done.  At 74, that is OK.  I have been married for 53 years.  We dated for 3 years before.  Life is good. 

[Justagirl💃]

Not a doctors appointment, but the CNA helped transfer me into the shower from my wheelchair. I almost lost my balance and she quickly grabbed for me hesitating only for a moment. She then exclaimed, "OMG, I almost grabbed your boob to keep you from falling!"

I told her to grab whatever is necessary if it means I don't fall.

[tryingtoaccept]

I told her to grab whatever is necessary if it means I don't fall.

Yes, grab any body part within reach. 😃

[Justagirl💃]

I have been having issues with dizziness and spikes in my heart pulse rate, so I finally got to see my doctor yesterday.

The medical day centre I attend addresses me as male basically because I was presenting as male when I first started in the program. They obviously know I'm intersex.
Their religious observances don't allow them to accept gender fluidity.

Yesterday's appointment was quite awkward as the male nurse needed to perform an EKG. He asked me to remove my shirts so he could attach the leads. He immediately commented, "oh wow, a pink bra!"
In an effort to smooth over things a bit I commented that I had purchased it on sale and that they're normally $50 and I got it for about $20.

His next comment was rather rude saying, "well, you are a big DUDE I can see why you need it, but I wouldn't be caught dead wearing a pink one."

Intersex individuals do not always identify with the gender assigned at birth. In fact, many intersex individuals experience gender dysphoria or discomfort with the gender assigned to them at birth.

The rest of the time with the nurse was uneventful.

The doctor finally arrived as I'm sitting there in the chair with just a pink bra on my upper torso and said nothing, he was actually very professional and stuck only to Medical conversation and procedures.

I commented to one of the other nurses that my nurse could be quite rude and she informed me that he had previously worked at a Men's prison and was a bit rough around the edges.

[tryingtoaccept]

I commented to one of the other nurses that my nurse could be quite rude and she informed me that he had previously worked at a Men's prison and was a bit rough around the edges.

Prison hardens the attitudes of both prisoners and staff.