My realization

[curiousk]

I developed breasts starting at age 10-11 years old.   They grew to a very noticeable size by the time I was 13.   I remember trying on my older sister’s bra and they fit well.  I was made fun or was told to wear a bra.   Fortunately, I didn’t have grabbers and touchers that would make me feel bad.  

Through my teens and 20’s, I wish I could have worn a bra to reduce the discomfort of the unsupported weight of breasts.  I have an ex girlfriend that has fairly large breasts and when she wasn’t home, I’d wear her bras.   Maybe 5% was a turn on, but 95% was because it felt right. 

I’ve been married for 28 years and would try her bras on too.  She didn’t know that I did that.   I did it for the same reasons as I did in my teens and 20’s.   I also realize that have a feminine side that I feel needs expressing as well.  

Over 6 years ago, I talked to my wife about my need to wear a bra full time and I wasn’t interested in having surgery. Wearing a bra full time has been such a relief to my body.  

Over time, my breasts have increased in size.  I personally love my breasts and body as it stands right now.

About one week ago, I thought I’d try going a day without wearing a bra.  What a mistake that was.   My breasts were so uncomfortable being unsupported.   My reality is that I’ll need to wear a bra for the rest of my life and I’m ok with it.  My body shape has me shopping on the other side of the aisle, which I’m ok with. 

This is my reality and I’m good with it

[oldguy]

There becomes a time when support is needed.  I'm good most of the time with not being noticed.  Summer is harder.  Heading to Alaska for several weeks for fishing.  No problem there.  Cool and every skin is covered.  Otherwise the mosquitoes will attack you.