Hey,
Until recently I never knew there was a medical condition known as Gynecomastia. By luck I happened to be frequently body building forums more and more recently as I'm trying to lose some fat and then plan on bulking up.
In the process of frequenting the forums I found out about gynecomastia, mostly because of posts from steroid users etc.
For me, I began noticing my manboobs at age 12 (natural gyno I guess you call it). I'm 24 now so I've lived with it half of my life. I have yet to see a doctor as I just learned about this in the past month--but I'm defintely going to see my family doctor to see if he can diagnose it whether or not it is gyno.
Ever since I was 12 years old I've been ashamed to take off my shirt. I've avoided swimming with friends, won't use the jacuzzi when my neighbours are around outside, and I -always- double up on shirts. Even in the summer, I
always wear a tshirt underneath any other shirt I'm wearing to hide it as best I can (and even then it shows through some).
I have a persistent hunched over look, and being taller doesn't help. My sister asked me why I have a hunch--the fact is that I don't have a crooked back, but rather I calculate every damn move I make because I'm so self-conscious about this. I press my shoulders/arms forward and cave in my chest, and walk somewhat funny just to try and conceal it.
For years I've -never- worn a t-shirt in public. Even during heatwaves in the summer. I know it sounds really crazy but I was very very insecure about this. I even go so far as wearing light spring jackets through the summer (again, during heatwaves). I get tons of weird stares and people think I'm nuts but they just flat out don't understand. I wear very baggy clothes and never wear anything remotely tight.
Throughout high school and college, public speaking was a TOTAL nightmare--more than it is for the average student. I would go to the washroom ahead of time, go into a stall, and take a roll of duct tape out and wrap it around to try and flatten my man boobs. Totally devastated me for the
longest time. I still do this when I have to make a presentation at college
I was skinny for years and it was present, and I'm now obese and still have it. So I don't attribute it solely to my obesity (as again, it was there since I was 12... and I only became obese around age 20).
My plan is to lose 50 lbs (I'm 6'3 @ 240, planning to hit 190). The question I have is: when is the optimal time to get the surgery done?
I've heard about lipo (general lipo for fat people) where they had lipo done and then when they put on weight later it looked really funny--"cratered" almost.
So basically I can get this surgery done (provided its gyno I have, but I think I do judging from the fact my nipples can cut through a tshirt) -- I can get this surgery done with three different body types:
a). Right now, while I'm still fat and on my diet
b). After I lose the 50lbs of fat completely
c). After I finish bulking up (going to do some hardcore weight lifting after I'm done cutting to 190lbs)
Understandably I'd like to get it done as soon as possible just so I can live a "normal" life and enjoy college. I've had so much insecurity with girls because of this and my social life has sucked big time. It compounds into more problems then just having a poor self-image. I think that getting this done will make me a much happier person.
BUT, I don't want to risk a bad surgery. So what do you think is the best body type to have this done on, and the reasons for your recommendation? I'm not so much worried about scarring as I am worried about having a naturally "contoured" looking chest that appears right once I am into the weight lifting. I want to be able to look like any other weight lifter within reason (nothing is perfect, I'm seeking an improvement over what I have though)
I really look forward to hearing your input and I'm so thankful I found this forum (and found out its not just me, but that other men suffer from this too).
thanks for your support