Ok that explains a lot.
You need ONE doctor who is going to help you who is in charge/aware of everything going on, someone who you trust.
It is unfortunate but a reality that as men we often loose hair or go bald. Male pattern baldness occurs because of a recessive gene in combination with testosterone and its metabolite dihydrotestosterone (DHT).
If you don't have the recessive gene and have high testosterone and DHT you do not loose hair or go bald, likewise if you have the recessive gene but vey low levels of androgens then you don't tend to loose hair or go bald.
This is why men in certain families go bald but the women don't. it is why the condition is called male pattern baldness.
If you are a man that has the recessive gene then the inevitable consequence of having normal levels of testosterone and its metabolite DHT is hair loss.
To try and stop this process from occurring by messing with hormones you are actually lowering/taking away what it is that hormonally differentiates you from being a woman. Lowering free testosterone and DHT will reduce hair loss, but on the other side of the balance sheet it can cause you to develop gynecomastia, loose your libido, have erection problems, increase adipose visceral fat, lose muscle mass etc.
It can if taken far enough cause depression, lowered bone density, cause a statistical increase in the likelihood of developing diabetes, stroke Cardio Vascular Disease (CVD) Alzheimer’s etc
The big question is;
What is more important your maleness or your hair?
Because that is what it comes down to if you are medicating against hair loss with endocrine affecting drugs.
Aren’t there plenty of men in the world who do very well and are seen as attractive by the opposite sex but just happen to have less hair?
If this is a big issue for you why not consider options that do not involve endocrine affecting medications such as hair transplants or none endocrine affecting medications?
Surely it is not worth forgoing your maleness just to avoid hair loss?
P.S
In about ten years time we might see the development of Selective Androgen Receptor Modulator medications (SARMs) that can help target specific actions such as muscle, libido, bone, prostate growth etc that avoid things like hairloss, gynecomastia etc, until then the choice when it comes to the endocrine system is a direct one or the other.