Sharing my "assets"

[Athena12@]

I have mixed emotions about this topic.  While I was a member of another support group, which I will not mention, I had a friend that was transgendered.  Has his birth certificate and drivers license changed to female back in 85.  He is around my age now and was a very good chat friend until I was kick off the site for complaining about an posting, my mistake for opening my mouth.  But he was a good friend and was truly a female.  Not a choice I would make but for some people it is more that just a just I just decided to become male or female.  So while agree with Hammer in mot regards I well leave this to the individual.  BTW there are some very strict guidelines that have to be followed before someone can have a sex change, unless you live in San Francisco. 

[hammer]

I have a nephew that is gay, we could see this when he was very young that this was in him and not a choice, but it was who he was! So one has to wonder, why? What changes a person to be this way? If you can see it when their so young, they must be born that way!

[Athena12@]

Good question!  I have seen it as well.  One of the wife's friends has 4 son's and when they were growing up there was one of then my wife was sure he was gay at a very young age and now he is an adult he is married to a man.  Like you said they are born the way and only GOD knows why. My son had a gay student in one of his class  in high school.  Everybody knew it but nobody said a thing. He even used the bathroom in the nurses office sine he could not use the girls bathroom and he didn't want to use the boy's bathroom.

[hammer]

There are other forums for it and i advise those who fit those forums to please dismiss this one and venture to those meant for those demographics.
However to assess and assume a true transgender person is solely playing dress up is absolutely ludicrous and insulting ignorant prejudice and just blatantly blind to the respect of an individual who has gone the distance to be their true self just to be ridiculed and insulted by some old men who think they are still in the 50s but then again that's your vision of when america was great I'm sure.
I'm sorry hammer you were someone i respected immensely on this forum and while i respect your ability to convey about gynecomastia to others but you just continue to showcase a very ignorant display of how you view people as a whole who dont fit your idea of identity

Steven, if you look back at the post you will see that many of them have been removed by the moderators! So I believe it is time to move on!

Remember that in this great America we all have a right to our own opinions!

[Et1964]

My post here has disappeared.  What I said was:

I am with Hammer on this.  I have medication induced gyno which is progressively getting worse, a condition I find distressing.  I joined this forum to find help....Hammer, I enjoyed our chats, and on top of that they put things into perspective. 

There are other forums for those who view their breast growth differently, and I fully support that....genuine good luck to them.  For me, I am a bloke with a feminine 38c bust....and I don't like it.

Just my thoughts.

[Athena12@]

Since this started as a post about "My Asset" I thought I would share a picture of the bra that I bought for the wife and I.  She is a 36 D and I am a 36 B and when I saw it on line at Target I bought it for me and then when I saw they had it in her size I bought them both and she was very happy with it.

[SideSet]

 Nice bra, Athena, and it is apparent why you need to wear one.  I'm not surprised your wife likes hers. It is nice that she accepts you having breasts and needing to wear a bra, even to the point of the two of you wearing matching bras  V

[Athena12@]

Yes Sideset it is nice that we can wear the same style bra but that is also a problem.  She doesn't want us wearing the same bra at the same time because it messes with her sorting out the laundry.  She will even show me the bra she is wearing to make sure I don't wear it that week. She likes my choice in bras and I like that but this "not today/this week can get a bit tiresome.