What I'm Wearing Today

[AlfaQ]

I was shocked recently in Boux Avenue as she  fitted me to a 32DD!  A size I  never ever considered trying but it seems to work and I  like the shaping and support it provides. Nothing budges.

[42CSurprise!]

I haven't been around much of late but there are still breasts that need support...

This oldie but goodie still gives wonderful support.  And I bought a lovely yellow tee that enjoys my curves.  The world continues.  Hope everyone is well.

[Justagirl💃]

I haven't been around much of late but there are still breasts that need support...

This oldie but goodie still gives wonderful support.  And I bought a lovely yellow tee that enjoys my curves.  The world continues.  Hope everyone is well.

Looks great!

[Parity]

Good to hear form you again, and yes your still in need of support..... and that's why we're here also!

  Looking good my friend.

[Justagirl💃]

Thigh Thursday (from my wheelchair)

[42CSurprise!]

Seems you're still in the game despite still being in Texas.  I understand, of course, that this is no game for you.  I appreciate your thread about intersexuality.  I thought in reading that about the other thread in the forum devoted to sex in which we speak about atrophy of our penises... as you note one way of defining intersexuality is about the size and shape of what could be a clitoris or a penis.  We talk about our position on the gender continuum to be fluid... that decreasing testosterone and elevated estrogen that leads to our breast growth also leads to a more feminine body.  Our chromosomes don't change but the hormonal shift is a real thing that changes how our body expresses itself in the world.  Many of us are mesmerized by the breasts we are now living with and enjoy showing them off in our latest brassiere purchase.  Whether that is kinky or not is up to the individual.  And that is not what you're doing at all... even if you enjoy showing us what you're wearing in the moment.  Respect Birdie.

I was playing a bit this moment and this image came to mind.  I thought I'd share it... this is all me in an unlined brassiere.  I get the feeling my breasts are growing...

[taxmapper]

Recently I had a deep discussion and will reiterate something I said some time back.  
The intersex situation does not affect only the "fun parts", but everything.  
Skeleton, muscles, sino-circular, nerves, hair, skin , eye, fat, cartilage, 6 senses, perception, neuromapping.  EVERYTHING! 

So your body when the hormones hit do funny things, the chesticles are only one side of it.   

Many believe that you have to look a certain way, sound a certain way, act a certain way, etc.  But in reality its all about how your body takes to the hormone stew we get.   

[bobb]

i don't understand a lot of this, but don't think because we have breast and hormone imbalance makes us intersex birdy was born that way a lot of us weren't.

[Parity]

i don't understand a lot of this, but don't think because we have breast and hormone imbalance makes us intersex birdy was born that way a lot of us weren't.

I don't under stand a lot of things either bobb.  And that's okay.  What I do understand and what many here have explained is we all have a unique blend of hormones traveling through our bodies that has and continues to make us all uniquely different.  
I think that is absolutely beautiful.  

[42CSurprise!]

You're absolutely right bobb.  Birdie is the only person on this site who has identified as intersex.  All of us who've experienced development of breasts are contending with reduced testosterone and elevated estrogen.  For some of us that is simply a result of aging.  For others it has happened because of medical treatment that involved use of drugs that alter our hormone balance.  Many of us experienced soft chests in adolescence when our bodies were deciding what they wanted to be.  It seems that even for men with XY chromosomes, some will have soft bodies with pronounced breasts and curves while others will have more heavily muscled torsos with flat chest and slender hips.  It seems one size does not fit all even when there is no ambiguity regarding gender.  Our conversations here often focus on both what our bodies are doing and how we relate to what is happening.  A dear friend who posts as Sophie decided at some point in her life that she wanted to fully transition to become a woman.  She was born a boy but her breast development as a teen was dramatic and she was encouraged to wear a brassiere by a very understanding mother.  She married, as a man, but eventually chose to transition, with the support of her wife.  So we accept that breasts have developed on our chests, while reflecting on what that means for how we live our lives.  I have no intention to transition but in accepting my breasts I find myself accepting that I've become feminized by the changing hormonal stew that allowed those breasts to develop.  We each have our own journey here.

I bought a fancier brassiere some time ago but I don't believe I've shared many photos of what it looks like.  Here we go...

[bobb]

i don't think i would call myself feminized just because i have breast but that is just me although i do like my bras and panties.

[taxmapper]

Did not say everyone was.  what I was saying is that when one IS intersexed, it affects EVERYTHING, not just one spot.  

I still cant get a doctor to look into this for whatever reason, but there are other physiological traits that point in that direction with me.  

The hormones however when they do creep out will affect you in more ways that one. those things that can change will, those that cant wont.  remember, the hormones are not only a feature causing effects, it is the DRIVER of many of those effects.  

It does not mean your intersexed, it means that if you are, there is way more to the story. 

THAT is the problem today. 

[42CSurprise!]

i don't think i would call myself feminized just because i have breast but that is just me although i do like my bras and panties.

Over time we've talked about a number of changes that come along with breast development and upon reflection some have seen those changes as more associated with women than men.  The fact you "like" bras and panties says something.  Most men would like them only because of the women who is wearing them... not because they want to wear them.  To say you have developed breasts and it is more comfortable to wear a brassiere, but panties?  Often men talk about changes in their bodies... reduced hair on arms and legs, developing curves and having softer skin.  Often those things are happening and we're not even aware of them.  Breasts are hard to ignore but softer skin can easily be missed.  Sometimes angry men find it easier to listen to what someone else has to say.  Does having greater empathy mark a more feminine response to life?  Consider that it is a continuum, not an either/or.  And, of course, no one is asking you to believe anything about yourself that doesn't feel true to you.  This is a journey and we each take it in our own way.  Sometimes I wear a brassiere and it excites me... sometimes I leave brassieres in the drawer and get on with life.  At the moment I'm showing off a bit... 

[bobb]

neither panties or bra excite me but i do find them comfortable. i don't know why but have never had body hair from the neck down my wife always said my skin was soft and smooth.i'm not sure about any curves developing.

[AlfaQ]

I fit in a bra but panties don't work for my anatomy as the I spill out of the side of the gusset. You can however practice tucking with appropriately designed underwear which I  sometimes do when I  wear tight leggings.