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Gynecomastia Acceptance => Acceptance Garments => Topic started by: Traveler on March 19, 2023, 10:34:51 AM
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Why I have to buy the next size up. Flannel does help but this summer? ::)
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I'm in the same boat. I now buy XL shirts and have accepted that pullover knit shirts are no longer my friends.
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That top nicely shows your assets
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Thank you Busty! While it’s not a “top” per se, it’s a hoodie I’ve had for several years, it no longer is one of my go to’s. I’m finding it harder to obscure my breasts while wearing comfortable support. Heck, at this point it’s probably not possible.::)
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Definitely at this point no hiding no matter what you do
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I've noticed more changes than just breast development (which has been fairly 'stable' for the last several years) - among them are some pretty drastic changes to my legs. My gyno is fairly obvious (see pic in dark shirt), but no one (= 0 people) has seemed to notice / pay attention, much less comment. Which has led me to be more 'accepting' of how I now appear. Also, my experience with MDs, RNs and pharmacists - all of whom have 'seen' my developed breasts - has been perfectly comfortable (they've 'seen it all' with other patients anyway!). As many here have discovered and posted, the biggest problem is usually in our own minds.
I am obviously male, and 'present' as a man, and have encountered no (= 0) negativity about my obviously developed breasts. One friend light-heartedly commented on my legs (last summer) when I was in shorts on a hot day, but NOT about my more obvious boobs!
So...my clothing 'fit' has changed - I now go more for comfort, which means items more from the women's sections.
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Moobzie, have you tried women’s jeans?
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I recently had knee replacement surgery. As part of recovery, I was prescribed thigh-high TED hose to reduce swelling and prevent blood clots. After about 3 weeks, they weren't staying up and bunching which caused construction and the leg to swell in other areas. I purchased ladies leggings that were 80% nylon and 20% spandex. They do a much better job of keeping the swelling down and are much more comfortable. I got two pairs so these are what I wear all the time around the house. When out grocery shopping, I just pull a pair of pants over them. My oldest daughter has dropped by, unannounced, and hasn't said anything. While I'm on shopping, I can't believe that women wear these while shopping and leave nothing to the imagination. Even around the house, I wear a long sweatshirt that goes below my bottom or a pair of track shorts.
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I've noticed more changes than just breast development (which has been fairly 'stable' for the last several years) - among them are some pretty drastic changes to my legs. My gyno is fairly obvious (see pic in dark shirt), but no one (= 0 people) has seemed to notice / pay attention, much less comment. Which has led me to be more 'accepting' of how I now appear. Also, my experience with MDs, RNs and pharmacists - all of whom have 'seen' my developed breasts - has been perfectly comfortable (they've 'seen it all' with other patients anyway!). As many here have discovered and posted, the biggest problem is usually in our own minds.
I am obviously male, and 'present' as a man, and have encountered no (= 0) negativity about my obviously developed breasts. One friend light-heartedly commented on my legs (last summer) when I was in shorts on a hot day, but NOT about my more obvious boobs!
So...my clothing 'fit' has changed - I now go more for comfort, which means items more from the women's sections.
May i ask what has changed about your legs
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My legs have become way less defined muscularly, softer, and smoother skin.
I have worn size 10-12 jeans - not because of my legs, but because after major surgery my waist-to-hip measurement changed to 30"-32" waist and 40"-41" hip. Thus, mens' size 32 won't go over my hips, while a mens' size that does will be way to big around my waist. This occurred before major gynecomastia.
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I will reinforce the better fit and comfort of womens clothing.
These days the mens dept. only gets visited out of desperation. Increasingly I find that if I can't get sorted in the women's aisles the mens aisle doesn't help!!
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Something that I wanted to speak on for a moment.
Not every male with Gyn. will start to develop hips very much.
I have some happening along with a somewhat noticeable change in leg shape.
The aspect of unisex or androgynous clothing IMO only is kind of folly.
Remember that the Q angle of the femur going into the pelvis is approx. 90 degrees on a male and approx. 120 degrees for a female.
(for baby).
This means that women's hips and actual physical shape is different than a typ. male.
Because of this, men's pants start to look weird on myself and other men in a similar situation.
Ergo: reg. men's pants look "scrunched" around the waist.
Women's pants are typically cut to allow the wider hip and shape of a woman, and because it varies wildly on women, spandex is our friend!
IMO, I like to look at hips ad the hourglass shape of a female and not try to mimic that of a male.
But that's just me.
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i remember those nylon string briefs. I wore them under my nylon track shorts when running 5 miles a day. Worked great until I needed to go to the doctor for a knee issue. He asked me to take off my pants to examine the leg. We were friends before and he didn't say a thing. It was just sprain. The running is why I just had knee replacement surgery. I loved the endorphins while running.
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I recently had knee replacement surgery. As part of recovery, I was prescribed thigh-high TED hose to reduce swelling and prevent blood clots. After about 3 weeks, they weren't staying up and bunching which caused construction and the leg to swell in other areas. I purchased ladies leggings that were 80% nylon and 20% spandex. They do a much better job of keeping the swelling down and are much more comfortable. I got two pairs so these are what I wear all the time around the house. When out grocery shopping, I just pull a pair of pants over them. My oldest daughter has dropped by, unannounced, and hasn't said anything. While I'm on shopping, I can't believe that women wear these while shopping and leave nothing to the imagination. Even around the house, I wear a long sweatshirt that goes below my bottom or a pair of track shorts.
I bought a couple pair of leggings about a year ago out of curiosity. Being in touch with my feminine side extends into some of my clothing selections as well. I remember putting them on and it felt right wearing them. While my wife is not a big fan of seeing me wear them, but I like them. I’ve worn them out of the house, to the stores and at the mall. No one has say a word, but I felt a couple of looks. That hasn’t stopped me for wearing them. I feel that are more comfortable than wearing a baggy pair of sweatpants. Honestly, I’m not that big so there’s not much to expose…lol. I think that women shouldn’t be the only ones to enjoy this comfortable piece of clothing.
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Why I have to buy the next size up. Flannel does help but this summer? ::)
I understand that. I have a hoodie that I wear at work that looks the same way. It doesn’t hide anything and you clearly see well developed breasts under the hoodie. As the weather warms up and I’ll be wearing a dri fit shirt, I’ll be exposed more. I’ve given up trying to hide my breasts for the most part. I’m beginning to wear more women’s tops because they are made to accommodate breasts, which is more comfortable.
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I recently had knee replacement surgery. As part of recovery, I was prescribed thigh-high TED hose to reduce swelling and prevent blood clots. After about 3 weeks, they weren't staying up and bunching which caused construction and the leg to swell in other areas. I purchased ladies leggings that were 80% nylon and 20% spandex. They do a much better job of keeping the swelling down and are much more comfortable. I got two pairs so these are what I wear all the time around the house. When out grocery shopping, I just pull a pair of pants over them. My oldest daughter has dropped by, unannounced, and hasn't said anything. While I'm on shopping, I can't believe that women wear these while shopping and leave nothing to the imagination. Even around the house, I wear a long sweatshirt that goes below my bottom or a pair of track shorts.
I bought a couple pair of leggings about a year ago out of curiosity. Being in touch with my feminine side extends into some of my clothing selections as well. I remember putting them on and it felt right wearing them. While my wife is not a big fan of seeing me wear them, but I like them. I’ve worn them out of the house, to the stores and at the mall. No one has say a word, but I felt a couple of looks. That hasn’t stopped me for wearing them. I feel that are more comfortable than wearing a baggy pair of sweatpants. Honestly, I’m not that big so there’s not much to expose…lol. I think that women shouldn’t be the only ones to enjoy this comfortable piece of clothing.
I have leggings also that i wear but not out in public. I bought them maybe 2 yrs ago to wear in the winter when cold under my pants. I looked for thermals and could not find any. I looked at leggings and got them for that and have worn them around my apartment summer fall when it was a little cool for shorts or to sleep in
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I recently had knee replacement surgery. As part of recovery, I was prescribed thigh-high TED hose to reduce swelling and prevent blood clots. After about 3 weeks, they weren't staying up and bunching which caused construction and the leg to swell in other areas. I purchased ladies leggings that were 80% nylon and 20% spandex. They do a much better job of keeping the swelling down and are much more comfortable. I got two pairs so these are what I wear all the time around the house. When out grocery shopping, I just pull a pair of pants over them. My oldest daughter has dropped by, unannounced, and hasn't said anything. While I'm on shopping, I can't believe that women wear these while shopping and leave nothing to the imagination. Even around the house, I wear a long sweatshirt that goes below my bottom or a pair of track shorts.
I bought a couple pair of leggings about a year ago out of curiosity. Being in touch with my feminine side extends into some of my clothing selections as well. I remember putting them on and it felt right wearing them. While my wife is not a big fan of seeing me wear them, but I like them. I’ve worn them out of the house, to the stores and at the mall. No one has say a word, but I felt a couple of looks. That hasn’t stopped me for wearing them. I feel that are more comfortable than wearing a baggy pair of sweatpants. Honestly, I’m not that big so there’s not much to expose…lol. I think that women shouldn’t be the only ones to enjoy this comfortable piece of clothing.
I have leggings also that i wear but not out in public. I bought them maybe 2 yrs ago to wear in the winter when cold under my pants. I looked for thermals and could not find any. I looked at leggings and got them for that and have worn them around my apartment summer fall when it was a little cool for shorts or to sleep in
I spend a month in Alaska, in September, at our lodge. It's cold and wet, but that is the Coho season. I am 72, so wear two layers of thermal underwear under my pants and waders. Thermal underwear is like leggings. I have been doing this for 10 years. Most of the guys use the same thermals. Not an issue wandering around the house, but not in town. I also wear a sports bra because the top layers are also very form fitting. And use a thick vest to hide everything. It works.
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I have leggings also that i wear but not out in public. I bought them maybe 2 yrs ago to wear in the winter when cold under my pants. I looked for thermals and could not find any. I looked at leggings and got them for that and have worn them around my apartment summer fall when it was a little cool for shorts or to sleep in
I too have several pair of leggings I wear in the winter around the house or under jeans. If more men discovered leggings, they would stock them in the men's section.
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I have leggings also that i wear but not out in public. I bought them maybe 2 yrs ago to wear in the winter when cold under my pants. I looked for thermals and could not find any. I looked at leggings and got them for that and have worn them around my apartment summer fall when it was a little cool for shorts or to sleep in
I too have several pair of leggings I wear in the winter around the house or under jeans. If more men discovered leggings, they would stock them in the men's section.
I think that leggings aren’t just women anymore and one day guys will wear them out in public without fear. I think they are super comfortable.
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How timely, I recently purchased some leggings myself.
I tried men's leggings first and found them to have terrible waistbands and were made of cheap material (even relatively expensive ones). The ones I tried also seemed to be mostly about compression. I tried women's leggings and found them to breath more, were softer, and much thoroughly more comfortable. I'd never felt their like when on, so I bought two more pairs. ;)
There were almost no differences as it pertains to the cut between them otherwise. In fact a lot men's leggings have unnecessary seams around the crotch which appear to be there only for a "looky here!" than for any fit reason.
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I have found the benefits and comfort from them years ago. I wear around the house with a long shirt or out with gym shorts or when lounging around with a caftan over. Everyone in the Middle East wears something like them or a pant under the caftan.
And yes, many "woman's" are more comfortable then men's.
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I own 2 hoodies, and both of them show the bumps gleaming through when I wear them.
Sometimes you just need your hoodie because of the weather outside, and I try not too think about it.
I think I have only had one lady comment about my breasts showing, and she is a friend of mine.
There comes a time that 100% Containment is not possible.
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I think that I had mentioned before, on the forum that I had worn mostly clothing from women's clothing stores and the ladies department at department stores for almost 20 years before I fully embarrassed womanhood. It was only in the past few years since transitioning that I added skirts, dresses and heels for my outerwear.
I did get occasional questions about my wardrobe or why I carried a purse but nothing was ever mean or embarrassing, not even wearing my bra. I was able to wear clothing that fit and flattered my figure while still presenting male with an androgynous style.
When I did finally come out as Sophie to the world and my work, I was able to wear more feminine styles, colors and patterns and a whole new world of shoes 👠.
❤️Sophie ❤️
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I find as my breasts grew the clothes fitting were more annoying. I’d put a shirt on and pull it down and feel my chest pressing against my shirts. Some worse than others and others no issue at all but when I became a mild b cup it felt as though all my shirts were just annoying. I think it gets to a point where one either accepts it is what it is and works around it. Or finds alternatives such as women’s tops or fabrics that fit better than others in men’s wear.
There’s no denying your breasts in the hoodie. Whether bra or braless it seems apparent they are there. I agree depending on body type and bust size they get to a point of well why bother trying when even if I try they are noticeable. I think your clothes look good and if they fit comfortable then just go about daily business.
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Why I have to buy the next size up. Flannel does help but this summer? ::)
I think I am going to make a couple shirts this weekend with "breast pleats" sewn in to accommodate my chest.
That way I can have good fitting men's shirts for summer that actually fit. 🤔
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I think that I had mentioned before, on the forum that I had worn mostly clothing from women's clothing stores and the ladies department at department stores for almost 20 years before I fully embarrassed womanhood. It was only in the past few years since transitioning that I added skirts, dresses and heels for my outerwear.
I did get occasional questions about my wardrobe or why I carried a purse but nothing was ever mean or embarrassing, not even wearing my bra. I was able to wear clothing that fit and flattered my figure while still presenting male with an androgynous style.
When I did finally come out as Sophie to the world and my work, I was able to wear more feminine styles, colors and patterns and a whole new world of shoes 👠.
❤️Sophie ❤️
I have not been brave enough to shop across the isle yet, but I do make most of my own pants to fit my measurements. I will however wear some sweatpants in the winter.
I am quite curvy so men's pants don't fit at all. You can't find anything in men's besides sweatpants for 72" hips. Women's 6x will work, but I can sew myself up a pair easy enough. Maybe when I lose weight I will have more options.
I also carry a small purse, and when asked about it I tell them I'm in a wheelchair so my pockets are worthless to me. My purse IS rather "Man-ish" looking.
Today I'm going to make a new top with a pleated chest area for my breasts and a tapered cut to keep it from "riding up" on me like men's shirts do.
Even when I was thinner men's pants never seemed to fit. If the waist size was right, they wouldn't pull over my hips. If the hips fit, I needed to cinch the heck out of them at the waist. But back then I had a 29" waist too.
I would sure like to get back to 29" waist again 🤔
I'm a 54" now 😳
Photo of my "man-purse" below.
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Denim shorts that fit my hips is impossible without crossing the isle.
I think I'll make a few of my own instead.
I'm still not brave enough to go try on women's clothes it the mall.
Maybe someday soon 🤔
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I finished my denim shorts I was making. They are designed right off my measurements.
The CNA wanted to see them. She laughed and said "You made bootie shorts".
Well, I had to make them fit my hips and my waist. I didn't want to have to cinch them up with a belt or draw string. I cut the waist smaller and added elastic.
They should be comfortable all day.
They are what they are. I'm going to wear them today 🙄
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I think that I had mentioned before, on the forum that I had worn mostly clothing from women's clothing stores and the ladies department at department stores for almost 20 years before I fully embarrassed womanhood. It was only in the past few years since transitioning that I added skirts, dresses and heels for my outerwear.
I did get occasional questions about my wardrobe or why I carried a purse but nothing was ever mean or embarrassing, not even wearing my bra. I was able to wear clothing that fit and flattered my figure while still presenting male with an androgynous style.
When I did finally come out as Sophie to the world and my work, I was able to wear more feminine styles, colors and patterns and a whole new world of shoes 👠.
❤️Sophie ❤️
I have not been brave enough to shop across the isle yet, but I do make most of my own pants to fit my measurements. I will however wear some sweatpants in the winter.
I am quite curvy so men's pants don't fit at all. You can't find anything in men's besides sweatpants for 72" hips. Women's 6x will work, but I can sew myself up a pair easy enough. Maybe when I lose weight I will have more options.
I also carry a small purse, and when asked about it I tell them I'm in a wheelchair so my pockets are worthless to me. My purse IS rather "Man-ish" looking.
Today I'm going to make a new top with a pleated chest area for my breasts and a tapered cut to keep it from "riding up" on me like men's shirts do.
Even when I was thinner men's pants never seemed to fit. If the waist size was right, they wouldn't pull over my hips. If the hips fit, I needed to cinch the heck out of them at the waist. But back then I had a 29" waist too.
I would sure like to get back to 29" waist again 🤔
I'm a 54" now 😳
Photo of my "man-purse" below.
Having worked leather for most of my life, a 'purse" (for me carry all) is not unusual.
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Cool, I just keep mine rather masculine looking. I actually have carried one since my 30's.
I used to keep my calculator and things in it, then cell phone too later on. I told everyone a surveyor needed one, next thing I know we ALL started carrying "purses".
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Denim shorts that fit my hips is impossible without crossing the isle.
I think I'll make a few of my own instead.
I'm still not brave enough to go try on women's clothes it the mall.
Maybe someday soon 🤔
you can always go online like I do
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Denim shorts that fit my hips is impossible without crossing the isle.
I think I'll make a few of my own instead.
I'm still not brave enough to go try on women's clothes it the mall.
Maybe someday soon 🤔
you can always go online like I do
Yeah, thought about that.
But I had a bad experience doing that bra shopping. 🤔
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Denim shorts that fit my hips is impossible without crossing the isle.
I think I'll make a few of my own instead.
I'm still not brave enough to go try on women's clothes it the mall.
Maybe someday soon 🤔
you can always go online like I do
Yeah, thought about that.
But I had a bad experience doing that bra shopping. 🤔
I never had that problem bea=cause my first wife and I were the same size it wasnt till I got remarried and got bigger in my chest size and boob size that It was trial and error but fortunatly i made out ok
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Today as my wife and I were headed oout the door I asked the same question I always ask, how do I look? She said you look fine. I said do you realise not one piece of clothing is made for men? She laughed and said she didn't notice because I just mostly wear women's clothes. Even a one piece woman's bathing suit.
But today she just said quit worrying about what others think and just be you, now grab your purse and lets go! Great lady my wife...
You are a lucky man 😉