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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by Busty on Yesterday at 08:27:50 PM »That bra looks great on you and I can see why you would enjoy sleeping in it
As much as I had that same issue of fear of discovery it dissipated quickly after the first few hugs by familiars.I did have one friend give me a hug and felt my back strap I'm sure. A little smile and a little tap above the cleavage and we said good bye. Nothing was ever said or done again.
Shortly after this realization I became less inclined to go to great lengths for concealment. The gem of wisdom to draw from all here is the general public is simply not that observant. We can hide in plain sight even with our large boobs to a great extent. Viva fashion !
Many years ago my wife told me I needed a bra more than she did. I had already known that having tried bras for years on my own and finding them improved my comfort with the support and containment.I think it's great so many of you have the the support of your wife. For me I never hear approval as I am alone now and no one knows I wear one. Perhaps that's my answer. No one knows! I would like for someone to notice and just say, you look fine. In all fairness to myself I really don't need to hear it. I have validation from friends here. We're all in the same boat rowing against the same tide.
But that opened the door to wearing daily without hiding it and that was refreshing.
Has anyone been offered matching panties when having a fitting? It's an obvious sales opportunity. It did happen to me once in Marks and Spencer. The fitter was very helpful too and recommended a nice plunge bra with suitable full panties in the so called boyshort style. It was a memorable experience.Torrid usually asks if I want matching panties, but I have almost 50 pairs of all colours and styles, so I now decline.