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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 04:29:07 PM »

Thanks, yes it’s the Torrid front close. I like that there’s no clasp in the back and front adjusters make it so easy to, well, adjust.

I help out at Torrid sometimes and do fittings for some of the CNAs that come over as well. I just did a fitting Friday before last for one of the CNAs in process of losing weight. Unfortunately, Torrid is running out of bras that fit her. she has settled on Size 1 bralettes to have something other than dull nude or black bras in her size. Before long she will have to switch to Soma. 

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Traveler on Today at 02:00:16 PM »

Thanks, yes it’s the Torrid front close. I like that there’s no clasp in the back and front adjusters make it so easy to, well, adjust.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by Gyno64 on Today at 01:41:11 PM »

Very well put! Thank you Birdie.

Reason I posted that article in the first place is because I'm ADHD and was a Ritalin child. I also have dyslexia. Or I I've often said Lisdexia. Lol. I have to still to this day put so much effort into spelling and word definition. Trouble paying attention in school. 
  Thankfully I'm not in the autism spectrum. Which made me wonder if there was a connection with ADHD and autism related to gender dysphoria in some children?
I'm strongly secure in my male gender. But I do have my fetish's for I have been very sexually driven throughout my whole life. But I still I wonder if there is a bridge connection with ADHD and autism some ware there that needs to be carefully looked at upon the , well I'll say it. So called Medical professionals? No wonder it's called a practice. Lol.
Just moving forward, always Greatfull for another day.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 01:37:44 PM »

Fit check guys. Finally went to a triple D as I was overflowing my DDs and getting a bit of a fold at the bottom of my cups in this style bra.
It’s very comfortable but I’m still getting a bit of a fold at the bottom. What do you all think?

Looks like a Torrid front close bra. The fit looks really good on the cups and I can't see any folding at the bottom of the cups in the image. 

After the scoop and swoop, try shaking the bra straps slightly to settle everything in the cups. 
The scoop and swoop brings everything forward,  but the shaking is important too as it fills the cups properly.  

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Traveler on Today at 01:14:12 PM »

Fit check guys. Finally went to a triple D as I was overflowing my DDs and getting a bit of a fold at the bottom of my cups in this style bra.
It’s very comfortable but I’m still getting a bit of a fold at the bottom. What do you all think?

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by Traveler on Today at 11:56:13 AM »

Considered to be a curse in my teens, survivable in adulthood,  and my greatest asset in my golden years.

I can't imagine life without the girls.

We need a like button! 😁

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 09:33:55 AM »

i thought they were talking about under aged people not adults.

My intervention started in my teens orchestrated by my parents. The prescribed treatment was testosterone injections and drastic lifestyle changes to promote a more "acceptable" outcome. It did nothing to cure me of being intersex, nor who I was deep down inside. It only masked the problem creating years of depression and self sabotaging.

What  is decided upon by the professionals in our teens does not
always have a perfect outcome.

That's why careful consideration on individual cases is required to best fit the real needs of the child/person.

That being said, transitioning mills being set up with minimal counseling pumping out as many trans individuals as possible without careful consideration is a bad idea. It shouldn't be a fad, or the "thing to do,"

It should look for the best outcome of the child/person regardless of political agendas or beliefs. 

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Photos / Re: Photo update

« Last post by Benusa2 on Today at 01:00:54 AM »

I went to a restaurant with a friend today and opted not to wear a bra. It really surprised me looking down at how my tshirt draped over them. It seems they’re getting softer and lower on my chest. And very noticeable

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Gyno64 on Yesterday at 03:59:08 PM »

42CSurprise!


That's a very open frame of mind.  I have pretty much my whole life had a breast fetish. The woman I married is a GG cup and I'm in total aww and mmm with her.
  Since my initial onset later in life. that would be seven months ago. I have progressed my fetish now to enjoy having my own breasts. 
It's to the point now that I'm finding weather or not the breasts are on a man or a woman I find them appealing. My wife picked me up a couple of bras to do a cup check. I would have never thought I would enjoy the capsulizing embrace and comfort of a bra. But I am. 
  I guess I'm on the spectrum of being a man, staying a man but enjoying having breasts too. It seemed a little confusing to me. But reading what you wrote about there being men out there that like to remain manly but wanting breasts helps me understand myself a bit more when it comes to that self breasts fetish.
  My wife knows that I have a deep fetish for breasts. And sometime back I had remarked, I wonder what it's like having boobs. After my Gynecomastia took over she laughed and said to me. Be careful what you wish for. Lol. She did warn me that if i decide to start wearing a bra as part of my daily wear I may find my masculinity scrutinized by many of my peers and will never be able to live that down. And I thought that might even embarrass her. So I will walk carefully with my decisions. But I still have to live with the possibility I may develop very large boobs that cannot go unnoticed. Yikes!  
 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 01:38:18 PM »

These conversations are really important.  For whatever reason, our bodies are going through changes.  We know that testosterone diminishes as we age and the estrogen already in our body will have more freedom to express herself.  Not every man develops breasts through that normal process but some of us do.  What we do about that is really up to us.  I first put on a brassiere when I was 12 years old... five feet tall without breasts, though I had a soft body.  It was an erotic experience that stayed with me my whole life.  I'd been sexually abused as a boy and doubtless what happened in those instances affected my sexuality and my relationship with my body.  Crossdressing and fascination with lingerie and women's undergarments stayed with me my entire life.

Things changed as I got older and my breasts began developing more fully.  As I said, I've always had a soft body which probably indicates estrogen has always been more active. As I put it, I've been on the feminine side of a gender continuum, still a man, but a feminine man.  Because of my history and affection for brassieres my growing breasts motivated me to explore.  I eventually found men wearing brassieres which led to this site.  I also explored those men who are fully committed to crossdressing, to presenting themselves as women... whether they have breasts or not.  I remember the joking answer to the question "Why do you wear a brassiere" from a fellow who said because without it his breast forms would fall to the ground.  I also spent time on website where men want to remain men but desperately want to have breasts. Many actively pursue breast growth through herbs and pumps.  Some have breast enhancement surgery.  I've seen the photos.  The breasts were beautiful, even on a man's body.

Folks here certainly discuss gender related matters and often buy clothes from the women's side of the store but few are actually intent of transitioning surgically.  Sophie made that choice and she is much loved by men here for her honesty in sharing her experience.  The rest of us are exploring how to take our own journey with the breasts on our chest.  I am content with wearing an unlined, underwire brassiere most of the day.  I'm very fond of my breasts.  There still is a touch of eroticism in the experience though my libido has pretty much departed.  I can't really say what it is that gives me so much pleasure in having breasts... seeing them in the mirror or touching them as I often do.  But as others here are saying, it doesn't matter why I do this life the way I do.  I simply have no wish in shaming myself for anything.  Isn't that cause for celebration?  I wish us all well.  I'm really glad we can have these conversations with one another.