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Gynecomastia Talk / Teenage breast development

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 07:57:00 PM »

I really started not8cing somewhere about 12 years of age.  My cousin brought it to my attention and had me try on her bra. 

Many of us here have a similar experience,  including endless "titty-twisters " in school. Funny how many women also endured the titty-twisters too. 

What's your story?

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Other people's perspectives

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Yesterday at 06:34:38 PM »

Perspective can be shifting when you see it from the outside lens. Often we are so acclimated to our profile that even if we don't see it, we've accepted, adjusted and moved on that our brains just respond with this is normal we're ok, not that bad. Then we see a picture and instantly see a womans shelf line in the chest. But a few things:

1) We are looking for it, so when we see it from someone's angle we assume they see it also. Maybe they do, probably they don't. Your breasts are not jutting out and you look like you have more of a polished softer chest, I wouldn't rank the image here as a guy with a feminine bustline 

2) I see a chest but i don't see lines, again just makes it seem you have a possibly larger than some men your body type may have but nothing alarming to whisper about

I think we often get in our own heads about whats in our own shirts and it can be tough sometimes but i think you look great

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Photos / Re: Bare breasted images:

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Yesterday at 06:30:47 PM »

Matching is key, i find even when they are slightly off color it can create an issue I'd rather not have. Used to sit longer in the mirror than usual enjoying how workouts were paying off, now it's to make sure my bras aren't showing lol being a guy can be tough lol

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by Houston7449 on Yesterday at 05:34:11 PM »

Good idea I will try that.

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by JKing on Yesterday at 01:12:21 PM »

If you don't want to go through the troubles of shaving and are concerned with your spouses thought, I can suggest just trimming.  I trim things down and it helps with comfort in a sports bra (or any other type for that matter) without giving you the shaved look. I find a 3 MM guard works well. 

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 10:36:00 AM »

Idk how anyone doesn’t notice especially if unzipped. Your breasts look quite huge and understandably why as to the support needed. Great shape

Thank you! I think that people assume lm just a little “chesty” and can’t fathom that I’m an anomaly, a guy with sizable breasts, who will not accentuate but doesn’t want to be uncomfortable by going braless.

The words have been said to me before so I won't hesitate to say them to you Traveler... "you're stacked!"  

With a bit of encouragements some time ago you shared a photo of yourself in a brassiere, which spoke the absolute truth of your lovely, voluptuous bosom.  Clearly, mother nature is having her way with all of us who spend time on this side of the website.  Birdie posted a list of things that contribute to men growing breasts and I expect we each have had our own path to abundance.  At least, as Dude says, we're not fighting with mother nature.  We are simply adding brassieres to our wardrobe.  It is amazing watching my breasts fill the cups of my brassieres.  I may be ready for a 42D but for the moment I'll simply enjoy what I have.  Glad I can share this with other men who have found acceptance along the way.  

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 07:56:56 AM »

Traveler, yeah you certainly have an amazing chest there, and look good.  We know and see it and know what is there.  Others as you state will notice but will not know the full extent of whats there and just go about their business and carry on with the task at hand.  Be it at our work or the daily activity that we are engaged in at the moment.   How we carry ourselves is key.  You look great and others see you for who you are.  I agree, we are seen for who we are not so much our bodies shape.  

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Other people's perspectives

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 07:41:44 AM »

Evolver,

  Thanks for sharing.  I think your so right in that most people that look don't see what we feel they see.  I'm sure that photo was take without a thought of your chest.  They wanted to remember the two of you for who you are and where you are.  We as a society are so concerned at our outer appearance where while doing our daily activities no one cares.  On the same hand people see how we feel only if we display it.  Live as if nothing is there or wrong and others won't see it.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Other people's perspectives

« Last post by Evolver on Yesterday at 02:30:26 AM »

Tax, yeah, I was just surprised that's all. And thanks, I know I can get away with it without caring.

Birdie, I'm definitely not fretting!

Trav, I never actually try to hide them, but that said I never wear tight outerwear either. I actually like what I see in the pic though!

The whole perspective thing is weird. Sometimes at home I'll puff out my chest and try to look sideways in the mirror and decide that there's actually very little there. But to me, that pic shows me as way bigger than what I thought I was, even if they are barely noticeable to most people. Weird.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by oldguy on May 19, 2026, 06:46:01 PM »

Baggy hoodie and no one notices. It’s easy to hide with practice.

Really?  Mine are half that size and I can't.  If course, it's getting warmer here and I can't wear three layers of clothing to cover 42C's.  This summer will be challenging.