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« Last post by 42CSurprise! on January 28, 2026, 12:49:08 PM »
Thanks for the update. For all of us this is a journey, both our relationship with our bodies and our relationship with wearing a brassiere. I'm now wearing a bralette when I sleep which, much like the brassiere you show us has no wire shaping my breasts. Though a bit larger, they look much like yours when I'm wearing that piece. It is when I wear an underwire brassiere without padding that my breasts take the shape that pleases me most. I'm now wearing one or another of those brassieres every day. I really like both the look and the feel.
But the part of your post that I most want to address is the fundamental change in the shape of my body. I weigh much less than I did at my highest weight but I've become much rounder in the middle, butt and thighs. This has been happening over the last five or six years as my breasts have gotten larger. We often talk about how diminished testosterone allows estrogen to have its way with our bodies... feminizing us. Skin is soften, hair is diminishing, mood becomes more calm, penis shrinks and body becomes rounder with fat moving. I've always had a soft body so the changes are perhaps more pronounced for me than they would for a more lean, muscular body. Those men probably won't find themselves on this website. But who we are is simply who we are. Nothing is to be gained by denying that. I won't be battling Mother Nature since I know it is a losing proposition.
Glad you're finding acceptance with who you are and enjoying the journey. I know shopping for brassieres is always a source of pleasure for me, even though I no longer need to buy more. But perhaps I will. Who knows?
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