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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 08:01:44 PM »

...And the love we share is so powerful she is gracefully accepting of my gynecomastia as well. Truth being.
Quote:(Love's the only engine of survival).

You are definitely a fortunate man with a wonderful wife.  Having a partner with whom to share deeply can make this journey much happier. much richer. I have that now but it is with my former wife and we don't live together.  Though she knows my history, I haven't shared my adventures wearing a brassiere or of my affection for my breasts.  I'm fine with that... this is my journey and she never signed up for that.  I sense that for those of us not in romantic relationships, the relationship with breasts and brassieres can take on added significance.  I recall a member here whom we haven't seen for a long time, Side Set, who spoke about being his own girl friend.  That could be interpreted as evidence of autogynephilia but no matter.  I'm ever reminded of the voluptuous women I've encountered along the way when I ponder my own voluptuous breasts.  But I'm no longer a teen or in my early twenties so the back seat of a car holds little appeal for me...  

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Acceptance Garments / Re: New to Wearing Bras Daily

« Last post by WPW717 on Yesterday at 05:29:10 PM »

Ah, yes , a Wacoal underwire. It is my favorite at 44D I do become fairly judicious when anticipating a social interaction and will don a pullover sans hardware.
The Wacoal leaves little to speculate about. Even with a good fabric & shirt to camouflage them.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: New to Wearing Bras Daily

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 04:53:04 PM »

  Well I know I responded this morning but wanted to add a few thoughts after the day.  Today was like most days. I did my thing, had a meeting with a friend for lunch and the rest of the day was filled with various tasks work done and interactions made.  I did wear my Wacoal 40C underwire all day and having arrived home am glad I did.  I felt comfortable and confident all day.  No one knew or cared.  I was the only one who knew and honestly I never thought about it.  

  If they continue to grow I wouldn't care.  May even welcome some more.  

Life is good.  I'm a blessed man and will let nothing hold me back.

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by Gyno64 on Yesterday at 04:05:35 PM »

As far as my breast fetish goes.  I have pretty much had that fetish for boobs my entire life.
 
Now that I'm developing a pair of my own I'm feeling how women deal with breasts. I admit I enjoying the sensual sensation that can come from having breasts. And I can share what I'm experiencing with my wife. Heck, we even went bra shopping together the other day. We both bought something for ourselves. She's golden!
 
I have always been infatuated with her boobs since the first time we met.

She was 13 at the time and was a full C cup then. She told me she had to start wearing a bra when she was 9 years old. She had gotten teased alot about the size of her breasts in Elementary and junior high because her development was much beyond other girls her age. Through all the nonsense ridicule she became a shy broken spirit introverted young lady. So IMO, it may not really mater weather or not you are a boy or a girl in some instances. Kids can be cruel. Simple as that. I'm very thankful I didn't have gyno in my teens. I can sympathize with all individuals that had to go through all the adolescent torture.   
 
We dated when we were young and married later here in life. I had the pleasure of witnessing he breast develop and grow throughout her life. Sweet!

By the time we married she was a Huge full G cup with with 3 1/2'' dia. areolas and thick 1'' long sexually sensitive nipples. And just guess what that dose for the both of us. Lol.
  Through my breast fetish my wife has learned to embraced her assets and became very proud of them since we've married. And the love we share is so powerful she is gracefully accepting of my gynecomastia as well. Truth being.
Quote:(Love's the only engine of survival).

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 01:43:18 PM »

Glad some of the usual suspects are chiming in on this topic.  Thanks for your comments.  Clearly, we each have our own unique relationship with our breasts and we each have our own history that contributes to our feelings about them.

I know you spend time on the other website Blad and your avatar shows the truth of what you're talking about.  I don't recall you sharing a photo on this website.  You are one of the men who is very well endowed and who has contended with this reality for your whole adult life.  Since teen boys are at the height of the sexual energy at around age 16 it is not surprising that women's lingerie, including brassieres would stir the juices.  From age 13 to 15 I was breaking into homes to steal lingerie.  I stopped when my mother found a bag filled with lingerie under my bed.  I was a very troubled boy and no one knew what to make of it all.  It was the products of the sexual abuse but no one seemed to be aware of that.  Those experiences shaped my relationship with lingerie, gender and eventually brassieres. As you say Blad, wearing a brassiere regularly takes some of the sexual charge out of it... but not ALL of it.  I'm wearing one at the moment and my breasts still thrill me... 

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by blad on Yesterday at 12:56:55 PM »

Developing breasts as a teen was a complicated time. I was constantly taunted about my breasts and need for wearing a bra which was obviously very embarrassing. Having to show my bare breasts during gym "skins" teams was mortifying, they were on full display for all to see as they bounced around during gym activities. 

All the comments of needing a bra did lead to a curiosity to try one on, one of my older sister's cast off bras. Unexpectedly, the experience of trying on a bra was very positive and even erotic for a teen. Here I was a boy but was looking down at my own breasts filling the bra cups complete with cleavage. The sensations of the bra straps and cups holding things in place was erotic at the time and feeling the boobs through the bra cups even more so. Seeing how I looked in a bra in the mirror was fantastic. 

If not for the complex social pressures of trying to fit in as a teen I was resigned right there and then to accept my breasts if I could wear a bra for them daily. It became tortuous to know how well I fit a bra and enjoyed wearing one but to not be able to for much of the time as a teen in school.

I also came to realize that wearing bra actually had a function other than to present the breasts in an erotic way for a teen boy; it gave a feeling of support and containment. After experiencing the support of a bra I became acutely aware of the negative sensations of being braless throughout the day. I hated the feeling of being braless and was envious of all the girls being able to openly wear their bras.

As time went on I was able to wear my bras more consistently and finally daily. I am very happy with the support a bra gives me and often forget I have one on as it is so comfortable to be supported. But that teen age feeling of the erotic nature of wearing a bra is still there from time to time. In the end it is a combination of the comfortable function of wearing a bra combined with some pleasure to have one on and to know it is my little secret when I go out and about. 

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 12:32:21 PM »

 


...But I DO want them larger, and I DO want them to be noticed now. In some instances i see that some men DO see them and have a look of disgust, and some women looking at me with either sympathy or "har har now you know..." 

I can say for me growth is happening.  I take what comes.  What I do want is, as they grow for them to keep filling out and having the shape of nice breast. Proper care and good bra fit helps with that I feel.

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by taxmapper on Yesterday at 09:37:26 AM »

My other half is a Red headed Southern Texas girl who has F cups of her own.   

She wanted (as I pointed out before) a Viking God, and got an ugly shield maiden looking thingy..  

Having tried to bulk up before not that I dont want to, but it doesn't feel "right" in my case.   My "fixation" on my breasts are clear, and as they are in slow motion growth right now (as I type this I am feeling the pressure and micro-poprocks again) and actually want them larger. Those around me have said basically nothing and I think its a natural part of my persona. For me, having the sensations that breasts brings can now be related to how women feel in the chest and I not only get it, but sympathize with many of the woes they go through. 

But I DO want them larger, and I DO want them to be noticed now. In some instances i see that some men DO see them and have a look of disgust, and some women looking at me with either sympathy or "har har now you know..."  

And with the body changes I have been experiencing, my waist is into the 39" range now from 42".  That has in turned brought out a light femm shape, I just dont have the matching hips.     The other half and a few others have noticed this and give me this look like..."i dont know...". 

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Acceptance Garments / Re: New to Wearing Bras Daily

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 09:30:01 AM »

I does make sense.  I wear and enjoy a well fitting bra.  I do however have to a times wear something for others.  What I mean by that is there are occasions where I wear a none wired, without back adjusters pull over just to keep others eyes and thoughts on the topic at hand.  Not needing minds to question.  This I feel is not a cop out.  Women do the same thing all the time.  I must say during those times I do miss my other bras and  there are times I do regret it.

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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by Parity on Yesterday at 09:19:22 AM »

You know 42C I never really gave it much thought.  As I have developed so has my wonder if you will of them.  On me mostly but do take notice of those around me of their shape and how they "Dress" them.  I look to learn how to not show off and learn ways to tone down.  

  That said, I do like to find and wear a nice bra.  Some are for every day and have a couple that I have learned must be for my own enjoyment at home.  Just seems to put them to much on display.  I am amazed at how mine have developed and do enjoy them.  I can't lie.  42C, I think you and I do share the same wonder, amazement and delight in our beautiful breast.  They are mine and I do accept, and take delight in them.