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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Gyno64 on Today at 03:59:08 PM »

42CSurprise!


That's a very open frame of mind.  I have pretty much my whole life had a breast fetish. The woman I married is a GG cup and I'm in total aww and mmm with her.
  Since my initial onset later in life. that would be seven months ago. I have progressed my fetish now to enjoy having my own breasts. 
It's to the point now that I'm finding weather or not the breasts are on a man or a woman I find them appealing. My wife picked me up a couple of bras to do a cup check. I would have never thought I would enjoy the capsulizing embrace and comfort of a bra. But I am. 
  I guess I'm on the spectrum of being a man, staying a man but enjoying having breasts too. It seemed a little confusing to me. But reading what you wrote about there being men out there that like to remain manly but wanting breasts helps me understand myself a bit more when it comes to that self breasts fetish.
  My wife knows that I have a deep fetish for breasts. And sometime back I had remarked, I wonder what it's like having boobs. After my Gynecomastia took over she laughed and said to me. Be careful what you wish for. Lol. She did warn me that if i decide to start wearing a bra as part of my daily wear I may find my masculinity scrutinized by many of my peers and will never be able to live that down. And I thought that might even embarrass her. So I will walk carefully with my decisions. But I still have to live with the possibility I may develop very large boobs that cannot go unnoticed. Yikes!  
 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 01:38:18 PM »

These conversations are really important.  For whatever reason, our bodies are going through changes.  We know that testosterone diminishes as we age and the estrogen already in our body will have more freedom to express herself.  Not every man develops breasts through that normal process but some of us do.  What we do about that is really up to us.  I first put on a brassiere when I was 12 years old... five feet tall without breasts, though I had a soft body.  It was an erotic experience that stayed with me my whole life.  I'd been sexually abused as a boy and doubtless what happened in those instances affected my sexuality and my relationship with my body.  Crossdressing and fascination with lingerie and women's undergarments stayed with me my entire life.

Things changed as I got older and my breasts began developing more fully.  As I said, I've always had a soft body which probably indicates estrogen has always been more active. As I put it, I've been on the feminine side of a gender continuum, still a man, but a feminine man.  Because of my history and affection for brassieres my growing breasts motivated me to explore.  I eventually found men wearing brassieres which led to this site.  I also explored those men who are fully committed to crossdressing, to presenting themselves as women... whether they have breasts or not.  I remember the joking answer to the question "Why do you wear a brassiere" from a fellow who said because without it his breast forms would fall to the ground.  I also spent time on website where men want to remain men but desperately want to have breasts. Many actively pursue breast growth through herbs and pumps.  Some have breast enhancement surgery.  I've seen the photos.  The breasts were beautiful, even on a man's body.

Folks here certainly discuss gender related matters and often buy clothes from the women's side of the store but few are actually intent of transitioning surgically.  Sophie made that choice and she is much loved by men here for her honesty in sharing her experience.  The rest of us are exploring how to take our own journey with the breasts on our chest.  I am content with wearing an unlined, underwire brassiere most of the day.  I'm very fond of my breasts.  There still is a touch of eroticism in the experience though my libido has pretty much departed.  I can't really say what it is that gives me so much pleasure in having breasts... seeing them in the mirror or touching them as I often do.  But as others here are saying, it doesn't matter why I do this life the way I do.  I simply have no wish in shaming myself for anything.  Isn't that cause for celebration?  I wish us all well.  I'm really glad we can have these conversations with one another.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by bobb on Today at 01:00:39 PM »

i thought they were talking about under aged people not adults.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by AlfaQ on Today at 12:20:46 PM »

After reading a lot of positive comments here about wearing panties I have finally taken the plunge and I am seriously impressed. I hope that this photo is acceptable  as these high waisted so called "granny pants" are really comfortable.  I love the high waist which slims and  supports a stomach damaged by surgery and they have just enough stretch to keep my tena pad firmly in place. A slightly wider gusset would be nice but  I love them and will be buying more. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by taxmapper on Today at 12:03:53 PM »

This is where I see something that Ill try to keep uber simple. 

The gatekeeping is a remnant of older times when the "establishment" saw things from a purely bipolar system.  This is a remnant of Victorian times.  

The nuance is nothing new. The fact still remains that a long history of "third, forth, fifth" genders have been recognized throughout history.   

Having had to be "learned" on this point especially after my own breasts started to grow, tell you that we still have alot of social adjustment to take place.  

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by Traveler on Today at 11:31:14 AM »

How is putting out there that up to 30% regret having the surgery torturing the 70% left?

It’s called gatekeeping, forcing everyone with gender dysphoria to jump through extra hoops because the gatekeepers think they know better. It’s like if you’ve never had depression, telling people to just be happy. If you’ve never had anxiety, telling people to just get over it. If you’re not a medical professional, telling them they’re wrong for following studies and best practices. Like telling people who are immunocompromised to stop wearing masks. It’s those people who think they know better based on their personal bias.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by JKing on Today at 10:44:21 AM »

Again, your opinion. Again, Epoch Times. Again, less than 1% percent regret surgery. Guys, when an article says “
“many” and not actual numbers it is immediately suspect. I’d suggest going to actual medical sites on transgender information and not relying on a site that has a religious bias.

The 1% number is coming from DEEPLY flawed studies.  Evidence suggests that it is closer to 30%
https://segm.org/regret-detransition-rate-unknown

YOU say deeply flawed. Please provide evidence that multiple peer reviewed studies are “deeply” flawed. Even if it’s close to true, it’s not, please explain how torturing the 70+% is good for you.

"... torturing the 70+%..."  let's not be hyperbolic.  No one is suggesting torturing the 70%. They still deserve help and support through difficult times. But medical and surgical intervention delayed while being cared for is far less damaging than medical intervention on a confused and questioning teenager. 
And to point to earlier studies that were better that state only 1-2% regret fails to identify the changes in policy in the intervening years.  Medical and surgical intervention was only given after extensive psychological support. These individuals were not pressured by gender ideology, nor given tacit affirmation to their statement that they were transgendered.  So we don't know how many through realistic analysis about their life and other potential causes for mental health concerns decided they weren't transgendered and just gay, or depressed, or *insert some other mental health issue*.  So with strong gate keepers ensuring the patient was truly suffering from permanent gender dysphoria before being given medical and surgical processes to support them would ensure a much higher satisfaction rate than we are starting to see now. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by WPW717 on Today at 09:58:03 AM »

Understand it’s real, saw it in my practice long before retirement.

My readings have shown most outgrow it by late teens/ early 20’s.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Opposite End ? hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 03:14:06 AM »

Gender dysphoria  ? ? ?

Never had it until recently. Born male lived male, grew boobs and now a eunuch.  What am I ? Not male, not female, thankfully there’s a contingent that says a eunuch is the third gender / sex.
All I can say is it’s not a bit of concern for me now. And to put the question to rest,  yes, there is a ‘eunuch calm’.

Not wanting to open a worm can, this should be taken as mild humor & sarcasm.

Yes, regardless of who we are or individual circumstances, we all must come to terms with 'who we are' somewhere on the spectrum.  
That can be anywhere on the gender spectrum, varying by individuals.  

"Gender dysphoria" is real, and not just another mental disorder that needs curing. Everyone on this side of the website I'm sure has looked down at those breasts and thought, "what am I?"

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Gyno64 on Yesterday at 08:32:32 PM »

Gyne73,
 You have what it takes to look good in that bra, IMO. I understand about being male and simply enjoy the comfort of wearing a bra. I have a breast fetish so I think you get what I mean.