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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by oldguy on Today at 04:14:58 PM »

We can't really hide our bumps, particularly in the summer. But I do want to hide obvious signs of a bra. To that end I have been comfortable in a pattern button down shirt where I do not even think about it when out in public. Even in summer with a light weight pattern short sleeve I feel completely confident. I have never understood those who try to wear a t-shirt. Even if it is not overly tight or semi see through, the bra strap pattern is gong to show through at times as one moves about. Just observe any woman.

It is only the hug or pat on the back that I feel is more of a give away for me. When I will be in close contact with family or friends I put on a pull over racer back that I feel will be least obvious to touch.

Blad,

Summers are tough, especially when it's the best time to get in walks.  Spaghetti strap jog bra works best for me.  I match with a muscle shirt and looks like pecks with small biceps.  

We have a lot of family for the holidays, and I rely on the same concealment bra.  There are lot's of hugs, layers work.  Most comment on how good I am looking.  Tempted to say that my waist moved up.  My wife would have crushed me with a cast iron skillet.

Racer backs are great when I am on my e-bike.  No bounce and minimal showing under my gear.  I am into my non-wired bra season, as I let them get comfortable.  Still getting 3 miles every day.

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by blad on Yesterday at 11:38:30 AM »

We can't really hide our bumps, particularly in the summer. But I do want to hide obvious signs of a bra. To that end I have been comfortable in a pattern button down shirt where I do not even think about it when out in public. Even in summer with a light weight pattern short sleeve I feel completely confident. I have never understood those who try to wear a t-shirt. Even if it is not overly tight or semi see through, the bra strap pattern is gong to show through at times as one moves about. Just observe any woman. 

It is only the hug or pat on the back that I feel is more of a give away for me. When I will be in close contact with family or friends I put on a pull over racer back that I feel will be least obvious to touch.

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by Traveler on January 10, 2026, 04:36:20 PM »

I’ll wear a bralette most days to work without having a problem. Winter lets me wear my underwired bras more often.

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by Gyno64 on January 10, 2026, 11:50:42 AM »

The fact that it's winter time now around here really helps with conditioning my self with accepting. I can wear this little bralette you see me in here and throw on a top shirt and or a coat when I go out in public and nobody is the wiser. I'll just have see how I'll feel when warm weather comes around. I'm just not sure yet. This bralette is sure much more comfortable than a smashing compression top. And better for my breast tissue health too I'm sure.

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on January 10, 2026, 04:32:16 AM »

I was on the bus once and looked over to see a well tanned gentleman with very large breasts enjoying a beer on his porch shirtless. Apparently not a care in the world. Not exactly the 'GI Joe' figure that society likes to portray.  

Comfort levels are based off our own perception of ourselves related to societal norms.  If we disregard the societal norms,  we have ever increasing comfort zones. 

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on January 09, 2026, 04:35:38 PM »

Conforming can be tough. It took me awhile to realize a bra was needed most days to all days if I wanted to be comfortable. Once I reached a full C the upper outer areas of my breasts would just be sore from tugging and gravity of the lower breasts. And once under bust developed more the movement became more annoying than not and projection more visible than not. Pullovers have been the go to for comfort support and concealing allowing me to maintain confidence and support and compression without smashing to not worry much about public settings. 

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Acceptance Garments / Re: New to Wearing Bras Daily

« Last post by AlfaQ on January 09, 2026, 03:59:41 PM »

An underwire is definitely better at keeping breast tissue in the cups but you must ensure it sits directly in the breast fold.

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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.

« Last post by Gyno64 on January 09, 2026, 03:51:55 PM »

tryingtoaccept:
I'm pretty much in the same boat now.
  It's now not hard for my breasts be noticed. But yet still small enough to be manageable depending on how I dress. Going out in public areas without a shirt sadly is over for me! At this point in time. My breast growth has stabilized at a full B cup. I'm not very interested in surgery at this point. So If I continue to go into more growth spurts I'm willing to accept the fact I will probably will need to start wearing a bra on a daily basis. Just will take me some tine to conform to is all.      

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Photos / Re: Five years ago!

« Last post by Parity on January 09, 2026, 03:14:24 PM »

I hope your visit went well.  It's cold by me also so the added coverage of my bra is welcome.  Have a good weekend all.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: New to Wearing Bras Daily

« Last post by Parity on January 09, 2026, 03:12:08 PM »

  I have done a fair amount of reading on tissue migration.  It is a thing.  Tissue migrating to the back form poorly fitting bras to not wearing all together.  I have found to keep my breast looking their best, feeling their best, I'm best off wearing a properly fitting  underwire.  I can and do at times go without but as stated much prefer wearing.  And most of mine are 40C, a couple 38D or 40D depending on style or company's variance in styles.