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« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 02:39:58 AM »
Considering that some statistics say 50% of men over 50 will have some degree of gynecomastia, it would be widely accepted and not noticed.
And then again, perhaps the only one really paying attention is ourselves.
Juvenile gynecomastia is always noticed because kids are mean. They look for reasons to ridicule. As we get older that goes away. It's more of a personal self-confidence issue.
I was still in boy-mode for 45 years hiding behind baggy shirts and bib overalls. Did I fool anyone, doubtful.
Did most people even care, again doubtful. No one that noticed thought any less of me as a person because of boobs and wide hips. I was the only one devastated by it, all in foolish vanity.
Accepting one's self is pivotal in personal growth. No one can do it for you.
Today I proudly wear and dress the part of an intersex individual that has accepted herself against all odds in a not so friendly environment of the Texas Bible belt. I could care less what those around me think.
In actuality, all the CNAs that help with showers acknowledge that I'm built different and can pretty much chose my preferred gender. Strangers just automatically assume female. It's the upper management at the day-centre that are the only people that have a problem with me. They would love to see me back in bib overalls and baggy shirts.
Even my apartment complex's gossip Channel has spread the news of me being intersex, and I'm pretty much accepted by everyone now.
Boobs are no big deal. A complete gender change in the bible belt is actually difficult. I wouldn't worry at all about simple widely accepted gynecomastia. You see it all the time if you look for it.
Birdie