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Acceptance / Re: Breast Fetish?

« Last post by 34BCup on Yesterday at 04:55:14 PM »

My bra wearing is not a fetish.  My breasts have evolved and I now need to wear a bra each day.  Having said that, I do not dislike having breasts and I want my bras to look good - even if I am the only person who sees them.

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Photos / Re: Looking for a bra

« Last post by AlfaQ on Yesterday at 01:28:51 PM »

I think that's a Polish brand?  I belive that they tend to have quite narrow pointed cups so don't suit everyone.   Is there any particular reason for choosing that brand? Personally I  tend to wear bras from Panache, Fantasie and Curvy Kate and my size is 34DD. I am lucky to have a narrow chest so there are plenty of bras that fit me. 

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Photos / Re: Looking for a bra

« Last post by Midagemoobs2 on Yesterday at 11:55:27 AM »

I ran the calculator and came up with 44DD for you... but I find it to oversize (I have fairly broad shoulders and you look like you may too) and you want it start on the widest hooks, so 42DD is probably a fair starting point. It's trial and error at best IMHO in addition to what you find your fit preference (sung or loose), so if you buy something to try on at home, check out the return policy and process beforehand. I don't know that brand, but I go for features - sturdy underwire, wider from top to bottom (sometimes called smoothing), I like it where the straps can cross in the back, and minimizer design to reduce projection, so a 40DD works for me, but again it varies by design even in the same brand.  If you find a design you think you like, you might want to try it in a few sizes for example 42DD, 40DD, 42D and return as needed.

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Exposure / Re: 20 years ago: Bare Breasts Lead to Man's Arrest

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 10:42:37 AM »

I used to be very nervous browsing the lingerie section in shops but now I am not at all bothered. In one department store I  selected some bras and approached a member of staff to ask where I could try them on. Without hesitation I was directed to the nearby lingerie changing rooms. I did question this  given the recent legal issues in the UK around single sex areas, I had expected to be directed to some male facilities.  Be polite and confident we have a right to exist.  All my recent bra shopping experiences have been very positive and I don't present as female.

Texas is very strict about single sex facilities, but I am shown the dressing room at Torrid every time I go in and they know I'm intersex. In fact, we have had males come in with facial hair asking to try sometime on and they are shown the dressing rooms.

Now the bathrooms are a different story. The bathrooms at the mall are clearly marked, and they mean business. They also have an all-gender family restroom available to use, and I use it all the time. I get strange looks if I go into the men's room, and state law says I can't use the women's. I have to plan my trip around town based upon the availability of all-gender restrooms.   

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Photos / Looking for a bra

« Last post by Atala on Yesterday at 10:28:37 AM »

Hello everyone, I'm looking for a bra for my gynecomastia. 


My measurements are following : 
snug UB : 110 cm
tght UB : 108 cm
loose UB : 114 cm
standing bust : 123 cm
leaning : 128 cm
lying : 122 cm

The ABTF calculator tells me UK 42DD (AMAB). 

Here are some pictures of my gynecomastia. 

Does this size seem correct to you (I live quite far from the first "real" lingerie shop, I have visited some shops but they don't sell bras for 38+ bands) ? Do you have any suggestions for me in terms of size or shape ? I'm interested for Ewa Michalak's bras, does anyone tried this brand ?

Best regards

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Acceptance Garments / Push-up bras

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 10:13:05 AM »

In my collection of now 27 bras, over 3/4's of them are push-up bras including my strapless bras. 

In naturally 'wide set', and the underwire/pushup bra just looks so much better on me. I just bought two more on Friday, and I'll wear them this week to break them in. I just love the way my cleavage looks in a push-up bra.

How many push-up bras do you have?

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Acceptance Garments / Re: My bra pics

« Last post by WPW717 on February 28, 2026, 08:14:45 PM »

I got lucky, the cranial tumor Prolactinoma, gave me a bit more up front & at the same time it kills the hair follicular circulation . I lost all my hair ( secondary sex characteristic hair ) . Arms legs , chest & pits.  I am sure the girls would be envious as I don’t have to shave at all. It made my boobs look good as I was fairly simian in nature before it all fell out.
It really is an eye opener.

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Polls / Re: How many bras are in your collection?

« Last post by WPW717 on February 28, 2026, 07:57:30 PM »

I have a couple of Duluth tanks with built in bras, really like them. Not enough support for a full day out but very nice for lounging about the house.

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Polls / Re: How many bras are in your collection?

« Last post by Midagemoobs2 on February 28, 2026, 07:45:07 PM »

Two underwire minimizers that I'm going to get more of, two lighter weight underwires I've just about grown out of, and three sports bras that I wear in warmer weather or with tees and polos.

Non-bras: I have three good oversize compression tees that just compress enough that I wear when I need to wear a thin or light-colored polo or a tee or for some work or extended family situations. These are not comfortable if in my supposed size, but buying two sizes larger they do the job (support isn't great, but comfort isn't bad) and are completely stealth. I really should try some tanks that echo men's wide strap tanks with built in bra. 

I got rid of my first regular underwire as it had too much projection and compression tees that were unnecessarily compressing.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Parity on February 28, 2026, 03:15:38 PM »

  Yes, you clearly show your true shape there.  
I understand the feeling and the smile it brings upon us.  If only for ourselves.  

  I have done that also at times, however only when I will be wearing a button up or flannel shirt over it.  I does make me smile also.