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Acceptance Garments / Re: Do you wear prostheses?

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 01:53:20 PM »

I've posted this elsewhere before but it works here as well.  I was visiting a crossdressing website and the question was asked, "Why to you wear a brassiere?"  There were a few men speaking about their breast development but that laughs came from the person who responded to the question saying "If I didn't, my breast forms would fall to the floor."

With this crowd we have legitimate reasons to wear a well-designed brassiere.  And for many of us it will need to be an attractive brassiere as well.

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Acceptance Garments / Do you wear prostheses?

« Last post by AlfaQ on Today at 12:10:38 PM »

Last week I visited a small independent bra shop in an affluent neighbourhood.  Rather than ask directly for a fitting l usually first engage the staff in chat about the brands they sell. This way I demonstrate my product knowledge.  Invariably they eventually ask what size I am looking for.  At this point I  usually answer that I normally wear a 34D but that it varies by brand and style. Depending on their reaction I  follow up and ask about the possibility of a fitting. This strategy usually yields a positive result and on this occasion it did.  The assistant asked me what syles and colours I  liked  which I answered.  She then asked whether I wore prostheses. Now I was wearing a  loose fitting patterned top so my boobs weren't that obvious. I just said no and she asked whether I was wearing a bra and I said yes. She then invited me into the fitting room to assess my current bra for fit and to see what maybe suitable.  When I took off my shirt I  could tell she was a bit shocked at what she saw by the way she hesitated and said "err, ok right" but she went to actually compliment me on the fit of the bra I was wearing.  I guess she had never encountered a man with breasts before so assumed that I  would wear fake boobs.  I went on to have a really great experience, she  offered me 3 lovely options and I chose the Wacoal Halo Lace bra in a practical nude colour.  It's lovely to wear. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Cancer: The why you really need to be screened.

« Last post by Parity on Today at 10:37:22 AM »

Taxmapper,

  Sorry to hear about your sister.  I do hope and pray for a good outcome for her and also for comfort in your family.  

A good reminder for all to seek medical help whenever something you think is out of the normal.

Wishing you peace also Tax.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 10:05:43 AM »

I can't emphasize enough that a fitting at least once if not twice per year is optimal. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Cancer: The why you really need to be screened.

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 10:03:46 AM »

I noticed a lump on my left breast in 1989. I saw my doctor about it and he wasn't concerned,  calling it a cyst. He did schedule surgery to have it removed.  
After surgery (4 hours of it), they informed me it wasn't a cyst and needed a biopsy.  It was completely removed in a lumpectomy. 
Biopsy came back positive,  so chemotherapy was scheduled right afterwards. 
Aga8n I state, my doctor wasn't the least bit concerned,  and it turned out to be cancer.  

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Gynecomastia Talk / Cancer: The why you really need to be screened.

« Last post by taxmapper on Today at 09:46:05 AM »

So Ill avoid the large part of the story, but my sister has a 4x6 cm mass in her upper lymph node area on her right side. It is a cancer and she ignored it for about 4 years.  She will have a radical mastectomy and they do not know yet if it has spread. 

She dropped this bomb on me Saturday, and yes I know what can come of it. 

Now, her doctor told her to let any daughters know and have them screened, and she brought up me with my boobs, and the doctor without missing a beat said: then he needs to let his doctor know and he will need to be screened. 

Two things come of this for me, one, screening, two that (especially female) doctors do not dismiss or take it lightly that men can have breasts and are just as susceptible to breast cancer as women are. 

Emotions still high obviously, but life does go on. 

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews

« Last post by Parity on Today at 08:59:26 AM »

Birdie,  That  looks like a very nice bra.  May have to check that one out.

Your notes on bra band tightness is also very important.  I think most peoples complaints on bra discomfort and the underwire digging in is a result of the improper fit as you have just noted.  Our bodies do change all the time and our bras must also.  I don't toss out a bra that may not fit just right this week because chances are it will next week.  

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 08:26:29 AM »

BRA BAND TIGHTNESS

A bra band should be snug enough to provide support but loose enough to allow two fingers to fit comfortably underneath.
Key Guidelines for Bra Band Fit
Snug Fit: The band should feel snug against your body without digging into your skin or causing discomfort. It provides the majority of support for your breasts, not the straps, which only contribute about 10–20% of support.


Two-Finger Test: You should be able to slide two fingers comfortably under the band at the back. If you can’t, the band is too tight; if you can slide more than two fingers easily, it may be too loose.

Level Positioning: The band should sit horizontally across your back and remain parallel to the ground. If it rides up, it is too loose and not providing adequate support.

No Digging: There should be no indentations or red marks on your skin after removing the bra. Persistent marks indicate the band is too tight.

Hook Adjustment: A new bra should fit on the loosest hook, allowing you to tighten it as the elastic stretches over time.
Inner Secrets Lingerie
Measuring and Choosing the Right Band Size
Measure Under bust: Use a measuring tape around your ribcage just under your bust. The tape should be snug but not compressing your skin.

Determine Band Size: Round up odd numbers to the next whole number or add 4 inches to even numbers to find your band size. Typical band sizes range from 28 to 50 inches.

Consider Body Type: Muscular or firm ribcages may require a slightly larger band for comfort, while softer ribcages may need a smaller band to achieve a snug fit.



Additional Tips
Style Matters: Sports bras or high-support bras may feel tighter for stability, while everyday bras may have moderate snugness.

Material Impact: Cotton offers moderate stretch, Lycra/Spandex blends maintain shape, and mesh may provide less structure.

Regular Re-Fitting: Bra size can change due to weight fluctuations, hormones, or age, so check your fit regularly. Torrid can give you a free measuring/fitting.


A properly fitted bra band ensures comfort, reduces strain on shoulders, and prevents back or neck pain while keeping the cups and wires in the correct position for optimal support.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on Yesterday at 11:02:15 PM »

Looks good on you and comfortable.  

Wish I could get by with something like that, but I have to wear something long sleeve at night that covers my arms, even on summer nights.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on Yesterday at 10:49:12 PM »

I’m just going to have to stop in Torrid this week or next and give it a try.  Thanks for the review Birdie!

Then it will be only 458,734,543,623 more bras to try on!