Reading your comment Birdie the thought crossed my mind that it would be interesting to graph our breast development in relationship to our age. There are a large number of us who had serious breast development during adolescence and teen years. We've heard about Sophie's journey with support from her mother to begin wearing a brassiere as a teen. Blad has mentioned that as well. Perhaps you weren't wearing brassieres but your development really began when you were very young. I had a soft chest with perhaps something that looked like they
could become breasts but really never did as a teen or young adult. My development came later, unaided by medications of any sort but definitely a reality as I aged. Clearly, a number of us have had significant development in middle years. JJ's beautiful breasts appear to have come that way.
I imagine the thought comes to mind as I reflect on the reality that for each of us our journey has been unique and our relationship to changes in our bodies have been uniquely our own as well. This is not one size fits all. It is easy to feel shame and confusion about it all, but it honestly is the most natural thing in OUR world. I didn't ask for this and I did nothing explicit to invite these breasts I am now appreciating and enjoying. Sadly, the world does not do well with differences, regardless of what those differences may be. Prejudices are alive and well. I have no delusion that the world will celebrate my voluptuous breasts, though I am delighted we can enjoy the experience here with other men who are discovering the territory for themselves. Finding and wearing beautiful brassieres is a side benefit.
I'm delighted you so enjoy being a woman with an abundant bosom Birdie. This is who you are and you deserve our respect. Thanks for being such a wonderful advocate foro self-acceptance.
I feel the impulse to share a photo of what I am wearing at the moment. This is an old photo but it makes the point. The brassiere, as I've said before is not comfortable enough to wear all day but what it does with my breasts is delicious.
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