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User Photos / Re: Interesting - sports MD with gyno?
« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 04:37:04 PM »
It is through conversations like this that those of us who have experienced breast development finally come to acceptance.  The word "gynecomastia" is intended as a description for a physical condition but for those of us who have experienced these changes in our body we need something more than a diagnostic label.  That is one of the reasons so many of us have explored how these changes come into being.  It has everything to do with the balance of hormones in our bodies.  We learned that every body goes through a process in adolescence in which hormonal changes leading to adulthood occur.  How this happens and what results from this process is completely beyond our control and comprehension.  It is simply happening, no doubt affected by heredity.  The apples does not fall far from the tree.

Some of us developed breasts as teens and concluded we needed to wear a brassiere.  We were still boys growing into men but we had breasts.  Some of us had soft chests and rounder bodies.  When I put on a brassiere as a teen it wasn't because I had breasts that required I do so.  But the breast development eventually happened and without the aid of medications prescribed for this or that ailment.  My soft body continued to become round and very real breasts developed on my chest.  I wasn't trying to "grow" breasts but nature gave them to me anyway.  They came into being simply because as I aged testosterone diminished as it does for every man, thereby allowing the estrogen that likely contributed to my soft chest and round body to work its magic by creating those breasts.  There is nothing in this process that is other than normal.  We each have the bodies given to us by our parents and those bodies have developed as the years have passed.  There is nothing wrong with us... we simply have breasts growing on our chests.

The term gynecomastia means nothing to me.  Yes, I appreciate talking with other men who have developed or are developing breasts simply because it is comforting to know I am not alone.  I'm working with self-acceptance and as I do that I can find a healthy relationship with my body and with having breasts.  It can be fun talking about buying brassieres whether sexy or not.  Being with men who are not ashamed about having breasts is a relief.  If enjoyment comes along the way, so be it.  I certainly am not celebrating my unique reality with others in my life, but I can and do that with men here.  Thank you all for being so honest about your experiences.  There is nothing wrong with a man being stacked! 
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by Gyno64 on Yesterday at 03:06:04 PM »
JJ,
 Oh I hear you. I've only been dealing with my gyno for almost a year now.
 I'm not quite as large as you still at this point and time.
 I don't know how long you have been dealing with it?  But the shape and fullness you have going on may be much more prominent after dropping some weight than I might experience myself. And from what you were describing what's going on lately. It truly sounds like you may have entered a new growth spurt. Hope your ready for that possibility?
 And I don't mind saying. Even though you're not as large as some of the others the shape and contour along with your nipples is actually nicer than some women I've seen. 
 I've read a few others compliment your breasts as well. 
 My wife told me to accept and enjoy it as a gift. For not all that many men get to experience breast development. That helps me with the stress I could experience. I'm not stressed out over it anymore. 
 So if I can get my weight down a little. So what if my boobs stick out a bit more. I just know I will feel better physically.
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User Photos / Re: Interesting - sports MD with gyno?
« Last post by WPW717 on June 16, 2026, 08:58:25 PM »
I use a rash shirt like ocean swimmers. 

It’s kind of like a compression shirt 
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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll
« Last post by 42CSurprise! on June 16, 2026, 07:03:41 PM »
As self-acceptance deepens it is quite natural for appreciation to develop.

I know men come here who are often confused and filled with shame.  The conversations we have are important.  Having found kindred spirits it isn't surprising that we will hang around after we've come to acceptance simply because we are enjoying the experience of having breasts and talking about them.  I know that is true for me.  Thanks everyone for being so open about your experiences.  And thanks for showing off from time to time.  I love seeing those photos... knowing I'm not alone.
So true 42C, that is almost exactly my experience with my breasts. If it wasn’t for this site, my acceptance journey would probably not have happened. Big thanks to all that have contributed their stories and support that help us all in our personal journeys.
I had to resize your photo my friend so folks could more easily appreciate what Mother Nature has given you.  The larger photo fills my screen.  I'm glad you have come to self-acceptance as part of your journey.  I know I have and I really chalk it up to our conversations here.  Our breasts are beautiful!

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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by JJ_Gyne on June 16, 2026, 04:41:14 PM »
@Dudewithboobs - guess good to hear not alone in the sensations

@DianeMcG - thank you 

@Gyno64 - i know i could stand to lose also. little fearful how disproportionate I would become If my breasts would become even more eye catching if I lost the little excess around my belly.




 
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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll
« Last post by Traveler on June 16, 2026, 10:21:12 AM »
As self-acceptance deepens it is quite natural for appreciation to develop.

I know men come here who are often confused and filled with shame.  The conversations we have are important.  Having found kindred spirits it isn't surprising that we will hang around after we've come to acceptance simply because we are enjoying the experience of having breasts and talking about them.  I know that is true for me.  Thanks everyone for being so open about your experiences.  And thanks for showing off from time to time.  I love seeing those photos... knowing I'm not alone.
So true 42C, that is almost exactly my experience with my breasts. If it wasn’t for this site, my acceptance journey would probably not have happened. Big thanks to all that have contributed their stories and support that help us all in our personal journeys.
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by Gyno64 on June 15, 2026, 11:05:05 PM »
Oldguy,
I had a conversation recently with my wife about weight loss.
I could stand to drop 15 to 20 lbs.
That's not really a lot of weight. But my wife said said to me. You know, your boobs will be even more prominent.
I don't feel that will bother me so much because I know I would feel better having my weight down. Even just that small amount.
I'm a small framed guy just at 5' 5" tall.
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by DianeMcG on June 15, 2026, 07:47:14 PM »
Idk what's going on and I know i am not as big as some of the others. But I am having heavy full feeling even when wearing my bra daily. Its such a pull it feels weird. I dont know how to describe it but its off feeling.
Those breasts are soooo pretty. I'm hoping I can grow a pair like that.
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User Photos / Re: Interesting - sports MD with gyno?
« Last post by Dudewithboobs on June 15, 2026, 02:27:06 PM »
Parity, same. I work in private events and dress shirts that fit me great last year now gap at the chest. I measure myself quarterly and last year was 35.75 under and 39 over. I’m now 35.5 under and 41.25 over. I tried same size different fit and retailers and nothing fit. And if it did it just didn’t look right. 

Even with sports bras or tank tops with shelf bras in them my chest but didn’t fit well. And felt too tight in things even though looked ok enough. 

Finally bit the bullet and began buying women’s tops for dress shirts and my shirts fit perfect and look very similar if not identical to men’s in style and cut. No one notices and all is good now. 

I rant about the same things and issues. It’s tough especially at 40 to feel like I’m not even supposed to be an age yet to be dealing with this. And yet it’s been an ongoing issue for some years. Thankful for the slow and steady of it all to acclimate and adjust as well for others around me. But even going to pools and stuff now last year where I was a little insecure is now a significant insecurity for me cause of my breasts at the moment. Between clothes and feeling exposed it can be tough. But we keep marching. 
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by 50/50 on June 15, 2026, 01:59:17 PM »
JJ have had that feeling in recent times as well. The pulling and tug feeling for me began in the lower to mid outer breast area and then radiated toward the underside center area. It’s where looking at past photos here shared or on our own devices for comparative purposes can help. Also general self exams.

For me I found it was a result of definitive growth and just general gravity pulling things likely more down. As well the space behind my areolas that were empty for lack of better words became a more solid mass. Developing the second mound according to the fine folks of ChatGPT.

Lastly, if you’re experiencing growth it could be the cooper ligaments trying to adjust to the growth and not quite being strong enough yet for the growth and creating a “we’re trying to hold them up best as we can” effect creating a downward pull for some time until it strengthens and or adjusts
That downward pull has won with me. Gravity has not been friendly. The pencil test…well let’s just say I think I can hold up a lot more than just pencils now. Gravity and growth have not been friendly to me😩
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