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Exposure / Re: Ok I think I got groped.
« Last post by Johndoe1 on Today at 11:02:19 AM »
He felt you up. If you have ask, it happened. 

So sorry that happened to you. It's happened to me a "few" times. It's how women feel when it happens to them.
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Exposure / Ok I think I got groped.
« Last post by JJ_Gyne on Today at 10:33:46 AM »
So this happened a few weeks ago. To set it up... I participate in community league bowling mens/womens mixed league.

Anyway after the nights games concluded, a guy I know came up and congratulated me on a nice series.
Well, that was all well and fine but as he came up to me he did the typical backhand swat attention getter approach. I used this myself usually on a shoulder but in this case it landed across my left pect/breast/boob. Well fortunately or unfortunately I don't know which I chose not to wear anything for support. Sometimes I go loose, no bras straps visible tells etc.  I sometimes do this when I am in a very public place with people I mingle with frequently. (bowling, family reunions etc.)

Anyway..so the back hand brush smack got all boob (hard to miss). Now that would have been good/bad enough but here is where it gets creepy questionable.

I mean, I don't know if the guy wanted confirmation but he proceeded to immediately go back in for a thumb and four finger 1 millisecond grope/squeeze before we concluded the exchange about the played game and said goodbyes.

It was quick, like....
1) backhand swat..."hey man, great games..", 
2) inner monologue "what was that, was that boob",
3) "how'd you pull that score"
4) investigative reflex.. flip hand light grope squeeze
5) inner monologue "yup that's breast"
5) continued conversation "well nice series"...
6) end of conversation.

Think Haley Atwell reaction to Chris Evans pecs in Captain America: The First Avenger. if you have seen that clip.
Maybe he just couldn't help himself??

Anyway.. nothing further came of it. But damn awkward.
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I find it great that more people are noticing a need for men to be wearing a bra and trying to provide resources. In the long run this provides incremental steps to normalize the need of many men to consider wearing a bra.

In a perfect world, more school student councilors and gym instructors should be made aware that students can develop breasts and need a sensitive and constructive support system and guidance. This may even include the school nurse to sit down and discuss options such as a bra to the student and parents. This would help "break the ice" on a sensitive topic that most just try to ignore. It is awkward to address these things but likely helpful in the long run. 
I agree with you and I think that such information should be more visible and more people should become aware of our problem and that we need a bra or any kind of support for our breasts. And that this is not something that should be pointed at us with a finger, most people do not know that such a problem even exists in some men. Just like people who cannot see need glasses or people who cannot walk need crutches, so we men with breasts need support. But according to me, society should become aware that such a condition exists in men and that there is another solution besides surgery and then maybe we will be more accepted by society that there are men who need a bra or other kind of support.
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Excellent.  She even pointed out that mens' breasts tend to be full on the bottom but not so much on the top.  This is precisely why I can't wear bras with molded cups, which is pretty much all there is in larger band sizes.  I was in a Torrid store and didn't see anything but molded cups.

I am currently wearing soft cup 42B underwires and I can wear some of my wife's 42Cs.  According to her, I should probably be in a 44B.  What she did not touch on was that, once you get past a 40 band, smaller cups are non existent, simply because women with large chests tend to have large breasts and there is no market for them, except for us.  I have a Bali Lace Desire in a 42B, but they only come in black because they don't expect to sell a lot of them.  Ideally, I should probably be in a 44B but I don't think anybody makes them in a soft cup.  I am going to try an extender and see if everything stays in place.  If somebody wants to get into the men's market, we need larger bands with smaller cups.  I am a little overweight, but I am not what anybody would consider a large man.
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by JJ_Gyne on Today at 10:09:23 AM »

It looks great on you!
Thanks!

Been experimenting with the tank & self contained bra over a spots bra and an underwire bra too. Liking the extra support. But uh oh, summer’s coming.
Yeah, kind of hard to pull off a hoody in summer. Even though the view maybe doesn't look so bad, and it is extremely comfortable. I tend to go with more compression and a baggy t-shirt so as not to overly flaunt what becoming more and more challenging to hide.

It probably would do me good if someone I knew just came up to me and said why don't you just wear something comfortable.. you are not fooling anyone with your hunched shoulders, crossed arms, baggy shirts and overly tight sports bra. 

Rock a bikini top in the pool and no one give two $h!t$ about it. 
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Exposure / Re: Doctors Visit
« Last post by tryingtoaccept on Today at 10:02:56 AM »
I told her to grab whatever is necessary if it means I don't fall.
Yes, grab any body part within reach. 😃
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Ok so I don't know about anyone else but I go through the table and can relate to almost everyone that has a E by it.
Guess I should be taking a regimen of E.

Weight gain (E)
Gynecomastia (T & E)
Hot flashes & sweating (E)
Arthralgia (joint pain); (E)
Loss of bone, decreased BMD and increased fracture risk (E)
Metabolic syndrome (E)
Increased cardiovascular risk (loss of E)
Fatigue (T & E)
Sleeping problems (T & E)
Loss of energy (T & E)
Apathy (T & E)
Mood changes and depression (E)
Cognition and memory problems (E)
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Acceptance / Re: This is me
« Last post by WPW717 on Today at 09:51:37 AM »
Been experimenting with the tank & self contained bra over a spots bra and an underwire bra too. Liking the extra support. But uh oh, summer’s coming.
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I reached out to Sheri thanking her for her thoughtful, helpful and normalizing video. I was pleasantly surprised to receive a wonderful reply. She is very much Team Gynecomastia and while mastectomy is her specialty, she serves all who are in need of chest help. She's very open and accepting. A very nice lady. She's in the Toronto, Canada area (Etobicoke, ON) if we have anyone in that area as well as on line orders. I think she's deserving of a look if you are so inclined. 

And thank you gotgyne for sharing!
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Exposure / Re: Doctors Visit
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 09:14:23 AM »
Not a doctors appointment, but the CNA helped transfer me into the shower from my wheelchair. I almost lost my balance and she quickly grabbed for me hesitating only for a moment. She then exclaimed, "OMG, I almost grabbed your boob to keep you from falling!"

I told her to grab whatever is necessary if it means I don't fall.
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