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Photos / Re: Bare breasted images:
« Last post by blad on Today at 12:45:37 PM »To that point, knowing that I felt better wearing a bra I decided to just wear one full time many years ago. Never looked back.
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Smash and grab!
« Last post by blad on Today at 12:38:12 PM »Whacking any part of the body is usually not fun.
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Discrimination
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 12:04:41 PM »Absolutely, and I don't judge them for their imperfections I don't expect to be judged for mine being born intersex.The CNA came by this morning and told me about “talk” at the day-centre.Live and let live goes both ways.For those that don’t know, I must dress androgynous whilst attending per the revised dress code. Revised because of me.She overheard participants talking about me. “Guy or girl:, “what bathroom does IT use” “disgusting they let IT take hormones, look what it did to IT’S body”.She quickly let them know I’m a nice person, and they should get to know me before casting judgements.I get discrimination from both management and participants on a daily basis.What ever happened to “live and let live”?
Juse like it would be wrong for them to discriminate against those with just gyno as well.
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Discrimination
« Last post by Gino on Today at 11:45:35 AM »The CNA came by this morning and told me about “talk” at the day-centre.Live and let live goes both ways.For those that don’t know, I must dress androgynous whilst attending per the revised dress code. Revised because of me.She overheard participants talking about me. “Guy or girl:, “what bathroom does IT use” “disgusting they let IT take hormones, look what it did to IT’S body”.She quickly let them know I’m a nice person, and they should get to know me before casting judgements.I get discrimination from both management and participants on a daily basis.What ever happened to “live and let live”?
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Smash and grab!
« Last post by Gino on Today at 11:36:56 AM »Padding is our friend!I'm trying to be discreet and padding generally makes it worse, though a few I've found actually work like a minimizer but unfortunately they are or were not not popular.
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 09:13:58 AM »Leopard print Torrid 44 DDD bra this morning. Just a quick snapshot.
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Photos / Re: Bare breasted images:
« Last post by Parity on Today at 07:13:51 AM »Well said Birdie.
I have to agree with Birdie that self acceptance is most important. I have said in other post that I have learn that what is in you is what can come out. To love others you have to first love yourself. You can't have a inner battle going on with yourself and show love and compassion to others. If your happy you show and give happiness.
If you have Self love, inner peace, a joy filled heart, not only will you have contentment but others will see it in you and feel your peace. If its in you only then can you share that with others. Be true to self, others will see it and find it harder to dislike you because they are then walking with that peace and love.
I have to agree with Birdie that self acceptance is most important. I have said in other post that I have learn that what is in you is what can come out. To love others you have to first love yourself. You can't have a inner battle going on with yourself and show love and compassion to others. If your happy you show and give happiness.
If you have Self love, inner peace, a joy filled heart, not only will you have contentment but others will see it in you and feel your peace. If its in you only then can you share that with others. Be true to self, others will see it and find it harder to dislike you because they are then walking with that peace and love.
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Lounge Area / Re: Funny memes posts
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 03:21:32 AM »Inplants anyone?
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Photos / Re: Bare breasted images:
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 02:39:58 AM »Considering that some statistics say 50% of men over 50 will have some degree of gynecomastia, it would be widely accepted and not noticed.
And then again, perhaps the only one really paying attention is ourselves.
Juvenile gynecomastia is always noticed because kids are mean. They look for reasons to ridicule. As we get older that goes away. It's more of a personal self-confidence issue.
I was still in boy-mode for 45 years hiding behind baggy shirts and bib overalls. Did I fool anyone, doubtful.
Did most people even care, again doubtful. No one that noticed thought any less of me as a person because of boobs and wide hips. I was the only one devastated by it, all in foolish vanity.
Accepting one's self is pivotal in personal growth. No one can do it for you.
Today I proudly wear and dress the part of an intersex individual that has accepted herself against all odds in a not so friendly environment of the Texas Bible belt. I could care less what those around me think.
In actuality, all the CNAs that help with showers acknowledge that I'm built different and can pretty much chose my preferred gender. Strangers just automatically assume female. It's the upper management at the day-centre that are the only people that have a problem with me. They would love to see me back in bib overalls and baggy shirts.
Even my apartment complex's gossip Channel has spread the news of me being intersex, and I'm pretty much accepted by everyone now.
Boobs are no big deal. A complete gender change in the bible belt is actually difficult. I wouldn't worry at all about simple widely accepted gynecomastia. You see it all the time if you look for it.
Birdie
And then again, perhaps the only one really paying attention is ourselves.
Juvenile gynecomastia is always noticed because kids are mean. They look for reasons to ridicule. As we get older that goes away. It's more of a personal self-confidence issue.
I was still in boy-mode for 45 years hiding behind baggy shirts and bib overalls. Did I fool anyone, doubtful.
Did most people even care, again doubtful. No one that noticed thought any less of me as a person because of boobs and wide hips. I was the only one devastated by it, all in foolish vanity.
Accepting one's self is pivotal in personal growth. No one can do it for you.
Today I proudly wear and dress the part of an intersex individual that has accepted herself against all odds in a not so friendly environment of the Texas Bible belt. I could care less what those around me think.
In actuality, all the CNAs that help with showers acknowledge that I'm built different and can pretty much chose my preferred gender. Strangers just automatically assume female. It's the upper management at the day-centre that are the only people that have a problem with me. They would love to see me back in bib overalls and baggy shirts.
Even my apartment complex's gossip Channel has spread the news of me being intersex, and I'm pretty much accepted by everyone now.
Boobs are no big deal. A complete gender change in the bible belt is actually difficult. I wouldn't worry at all about simple widely accepted gynecomastia. You see it all the time if you look for it.
Birdie
