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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Cancer: The why you really need to be screened.
« Last post by WPW717 on Today at 03:28:54 PM »
That’s a real serious history of familial cancer. 

Don’t know if you have had any genetic testing, it may be worth it. I used Invitae for mine. Especially for the HER , BRCA & CHEK genes.

The gynecomastia & the history are a red flag for you.

Stay strong my friend.
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Acceptance Garments / Re: Do you wear prostheses?
« Last post by AlfaQ on Today at 12:11:28 PM »
I believe that molded cups are cheaper to manufacture but there are limits to how much shape can be created in the cup and they often have too much volume up top for our breasts.   For best fit and  shaping  choose 3 section cups ideally with side support to centre the bust.  The vertical seam is the one that provides the lift. However seams and also nipples can show through some shirts with these styles. 
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Acceptance Garments / Re: Do you wear prostheses?
« Last post by blad on Today at 10:58:16 AM »
The vast majority of bras seemed to have moved to a molded foam cup. I had always preferred seamless unlined cups but was surprised that I liked the Warners molded foam cups and wear them often. They do not add much at all to projection but do contribute to shaping. 

For traveling, the unlined cups pack better with less bulk and handle sweat build up better during a busy day, often drying out better on their own as the day progresses. It is not as easy to change bras out during a day of travel.  
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Doctors always want to assume it's a cyst first, sometimes they find out too late it's not.

I get a mammogram every year since 1989. Many of those years I didn't have insurance and paid out of pocket.  
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The seeking help is not so easy at times.  The syndrome I have ( MEN ) is not known to have breast cancer associated with it. I do possess a CHEK 2 mutation that is known to cause cancer. I have had colon cancer already. This puts me at the forefront for suspicion of breast cancer.

It’s nearly impossible to get a doc to order a mammogram & when one did the radiologist over rode him and canceled it. To them it’s more important to not violate Medicare rules. All this despite the NCCN Guidelines that state the condition should have yearly mammos.

I have written my sister about this as there is a 50% chance of her getting the same genetic disease and included a letter to her doctor for her to carry.
She is displaying symptoms now & choosing to ignore them. I am concerned she is failing to grasp the issue.

The need to stay on these health issues is paramount.  TAX, I hope your docs are more concerned than the ones I have seen in the past. Regretable news re you sister & the emotional fires this light in your life are very draining for you. Stay strong & my prayers are with you.
Thanks:    

I know that you'll understand this, but here is the lates I sent to the doc.: 

On the Maternal side: 

One of my cousins. 

Invasive carcinoma with mixed ductal and lobular features, ER+, HER2-, lymph node 0+ Treatment consisted of lumpectomy followed by 20 sessions of radiation, no chemotherapy required, currently on an aromatase inhibitor for 5+ years.

 
My Aunt
 
Waldenström macroglobulinemia and she was diagnosed in the spring of 2001, so she would have been 72 when diagnosed. She died in Feb. 2025.
 
Grandfather had lung cancer, a smoker aggravated by Mustard gassing in WWI, he died in 1959, was born in 1887, so died at 72, no idea when diagnosed.
 
Sister diagnosed with a breast cancer March 2026. 6x4 cm, upper right lymph node area. Was felt for approx. 4 years, thought of as a cyst. (The readings from my cousin and sister are near identical. 
 
Mother: Passed in March 1996 from stroke aggravated by emphysema and decades of smoking.
 
Paternal side:
Father and grandfather passed after strokes.
Father died in 2004 at 79.
Grandfather passed in 1976, age unknown. Poss. upper 70's.
Grandmother died from renal failure also late 70's. 


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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Today at 08:28:49 AM »
There’s one part that doesn’t seem right about band size:

Determine Band Size: Round up odd numbers to the next whole number or add 4 inches to even numbers to find your band size.

As i read it, if my under bust measurement is 41, i would round up to 42. (Sounds good)  But if my under bust is 40 i would add 4 to get to 44?

Why wouldn’t I just go with 40 or add 2 to get to 42?

Thanks in advance.
That's right, I didn't catch that when I pasted the text into the site. 
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Acceptance Garments / Re: Do you wear prostheses?
« Last post by Parity on Today at 08:21:09 AM »
However you want to classify a bra with padding, there’s times I enjoy the breasts being a bit fuller and so I’ll wear a padded bra.  I also don’t have a problem with adding an enhancer on one side if it helps even out the look in some of the bras I wear since my one breast is smaller than the other.
I did that two years ago to even them out. At that time one was 1/2 to 3/4's of a cup size smaller.  They have balanced out and I no longer have the need.
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Acceptance Garments / Re: Do you wear prostheses?
« Last post by Parity on Today at 08:18:17 AM »
If you two are implying that I’m judging….Im not. Really don’t care what others do. You want to have breasts forms…go for it
Wasn't implying that at all.  It's all good. 
I just wanted to say I don't care what others need to do to feel whole.
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Acceptance Garments / Re: Bra reviews
« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on Today at 07:31:28 AM »
There’s one part that doesn’t seem right about band size:

Determine Band Size: Round up odd numbers to the next whole number or add 4 inches to even numbers to find your band size.

As i read it, if my under bust measurement is 41, i would round up to 42. (Sounds good)  But if my under bust is 40 i would add 4 to get to 44?

Why wouldn’t I just go with 40 or add 2 to get to 42?

Thanks in advance.
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Cancer: The why you really need to be screened.
« Last post by WPW717 on Today at 07:12:51 AM »
The seeking help is not so easy at times.  The syndrome I have ( MEN ) is not known to have breast cancer associated with it. I do possess a CHEK 2 mutation that is known to cause cancer. I have had colon cancer already. This puts me at the forefront for suspicion of breast cancer. 

It’s nearly impossible to get a doc to order a mammogram & when one did the radiologist over rode him and canceled it. To them it’s more important to not violate Medicare rules. All this despite the NCCN Guidelines that state the condition should have yearly mammos.

I have written my sister about this as there is a 50% chance of her getting the same genetic disease and included a letter to her doctor for her to carry. 
She is displaying symptoms now & choosing to ignore them. I am concerned she is failing to grasp the issue. 

The need to stay on these health issues is paramount.  TAX, I hope your docs are more concerned than the ones I have seen in the past. Regretable news re you sister & the emotional fires this light in your life are very draining for you. Stay strong & my prayers are with you.
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