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Gynecomastia Talk / I am new here
« Last post by Ironmaiden3122 on Today at 02:59:33 PM »
Hello everybody.  I have been meaning to join this place for awhile now and finally had the courage to do so.  Maybe my story is common or maybe not, I am not sure.  This issue started when I was about 13 and had a falling out with all of my friends and ended up spending all my at home watching tv and eating bad foods because I had no friends and nothing to do.  I noticed the man boobs and then followed by the love handles.  So while I was still able to live a normal high school life and had friends and little issues, I still had to be careful of the shirts I wore and could not dress how I wanted.  this has continued throughout my life and I have learned to live with it, but looking back it has severely damaged my quality of life.  The self consiousness, the buying shirts I can't wear because of the material not being thick enough, and not being able to go swimming or the beach or do the things everybody else does.  A lifetime of low self confidence and worrying what others think and cringing when I look in the mirror.  Now that I am getting older, I feel like I can't just ignore this anymore and am thinking about surgery options.  But joining this forum is a huge step for me.  I am in tears just typing this because I have never been able to even talk about this with anybody and have felt so alone for so many years and decades.  I didn't know there were others out there like me.  Anyways, that is the basics of my story.  thanks for listening 
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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Hello; newly dealing with this
« Last post by Sarahgyne on Yesterday at 05:09:56 AM »
It sounds like you've been dealing with a lot of uncertainty. Even if the physical changes aren't severe, the sensitivity and discomfort alone can be frustrating.

Sometimes people do notice changes like this later in adulthood, and it can take time to figure out what's causing them. Since you've already been checked by your doctor, it makes sense to keep monitoring things and follow up if anything changes.

Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm sure others here can relate to how unsettling it can be when something like this develops unexpectedly.
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Acceptance / Re: To show or not to show.
« Last post by bobbly on Yesterday at 02:40:00 AM »
Being barrel chested helps me avoid people realizing how big mine are. I've walked into a few bra shops that didn't notice I was wearing a bra till I said so. Currently 40F/G but somewhat shallow/wide root as of last measurement. Lost 40lbs and went down from a 44D/DD so, now my breasts enter the room before me. Can't hid them fully, So I tend to dress to suppress their outline and full size. 
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Acceptance / Re: My realization
« Last post by bobbly on Yesterday at 02:27:46 AM »
I think most of us that started to develop in the '70's/80's felt totally alone in dealing with this. My mom thought it was a punishment from god if anything. Never got any medical support/intervention. The era where if you had moobs your were suspected of being gay to have them.....as If you had any control at all. I developed male secondary attributes late....voice finally broke in jr yr of hs. Had a few years of "are you a girl or a boy questions" And got felt up more than any girl did in jr. high...
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by curiousk on July 16, 2026, 01:37:47 PM »
curiousk

That looks good.  There is enough going on with the pattern to make anyone looking not see the bust that is behind the paws.


People were looking at the bust behind the paws as well as when I turned to the side.   The paws don’t hid the profile 😂
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by Parity on July 16, 2026, 09:57:52 AM »
curiousk

That looks good.  There is enough going on with the pattern to make anyone looking not see the bust that is behind the paws.

Birdie... looking good.
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Acceptance / Re: My realization
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on July 16, 2026, 08:17:27 AM »
Growing up with breasts in my teens I was in a vacuum trying to figure everything out on my own, like most of us early developers here.
Ditto
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by Justagirl💃 on July 16, 2026, 08:15:51 AM »
I've shown this bra before, but couldn't resist showing it again. 
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by curiousk on July 16, 2026, 06:24:38 AM »
I work as an ultrasound tech and this is what I wore to work today.  I’m a dog lover so it fits me.
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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today
« Last post by oldguy on July 15, 2026, 09:14:38 PM »
In Alaska.  Wearing a bra under three layers of winter underwear.  No chance of anyone seeing anything under a rain jacket of that.
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