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Acceptance Garments / Re: Underwire

« Last post by Curious-k on Today at 07:01:14 AM »

I’m not actually an official bra wearer yet but I have tried on several dozen bras. I actually had a professional bra fitting the first time I went bra shopping and the other 2 times I just went shopping on my own.

When I tried on bras with the sales associate that did my fitting she brought me all wirefree bras at first. She said an underwire would be too much like a girl bra for me. I told her my doctor suggested I wear an underwire t-shirt bra so she got several for me to try.

I really liked the underwire bras more because they grabbed ahold of my boobs and held them in place better. I put my shirt on over them and I definitely had the silhouette of a woman wearing a bra. I compared with a wire free bra and I looked more saggy and droopy with those bras.

I haven’t gotten the courage to buy any bras yet but I have gone bra shopping 3 times now and I definitely prefer underwire bras. I know it’s strange but I actually think my chest looks better with the cute rounded girly shape from the lift and separation of the underwire bras. When I do actually buy my first bras they are going to be underwire bras.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: What did your doctor recommend?

« Last post by Curious-k on Today at 06:46:24 AM »

I’m new here. 

I was diagnosed last fall. My doctor told me my insurance would not cover removal. Then she said I have a lot of breast tissue so a compression vest would probably be very uncomfortable. Then she said my best option since I don’t want hormone therapy would be to start wearing a bra everyday like a girl. 

She said I could start with a sports bra after work and on the weekends to get comfortable with wearing a bra but she said I am likely a 44D or 46C so a properly fitted underwire t-shirt bra would be perfect for me for daily use. She said with the amount of breast tissue I have I definitely need the structure and support of an underwire bra even though it would likely cause my boobs to protrude more and despite the fact that the bra would shape my boobs like a woman’s boobs.

I am still trying to comprehend this. I have looked online at bras several times. I have watched dozens of bra fitting and bra 101 videos on YouTube. I have even gone to Lane Bryant as my doctor recommended and a nice sales associate actually did a bra fitting on me and she confirmed I am a 44D bra size. She actually helped me put on a bra and let me try on 4-5 different bras. 

I was shocked when I actually filled up the cups and the bras fit me perfectly. When I looked at my boobs in the mirror I thought I was looking at a girl with her shirt off. I put my shirt on over the bra and I definitely looked like a woman with nice boobs. It was too much. I was in such disbelief that I couldn’t go through with buying any.

Since then I have gone back a few times to try them on again. I also went to Torid and JCPenney to try on some bras I saw online. I still can’t believe I actually fit a bra.

At this point I don’t have any bras yet even though it’s been 5-6 months and I have gone bra shopping 2-3 times. I do like how several of the bras fit me and I love how I feel when I am wearing one but I just am having a hard time getting used to the fact that I am a guy who needs to wear a bra everyday like a a girl. But I’m getting there. The last time I tried on bras I nearly broke down and bought 2 but I chickened out on my way to the register

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Photos / Re: Photo update

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Yesterday at 07:08:58 AM »

Just decided to post an update. Photos are about a year apart and the same bra in different sizes.

Definitely can tell a difference. 

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Yesterday at 07:06:44 AM »

Very nice. I like. 

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Photos / Re: Looking down

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Yesterday at 06:47:31 AM »

NNothing to be ashamed of there. They look wonderful. 

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Acceptance / Re: First Post

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Yesterday at 06:12:56 AM »

I have been full-time for the last 10 years. I do not regret one day. A bra is just a tool that I use for comfort and appearance. I have tried to master this tool to get full benefit from it. There's many of us who can and do make use of this tool  

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Photos / Re: Photo update

« Last post by Benusa2 on Yesterday at 01:53:52 AM »

Thanks. I am and I'm ok with it. 

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Photos / Re: Photo update

« Last post by Traveler on May 01, 2026, 08:43:14 PM »

Just decided to post an update. Photos are about a year apart and the same bra in different sizes.

Very nice! Looks like you’re filling out some.

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Acceptance / Re: First Post

« Last post by Traveler on May 01, 2026, 08:31:31 PM »

It’s been years since I started wearing full time and mostly don’t ever think about it anymore, but every once in awhile I’ll check myself out in the window or glass door when I’m out and about.

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Photos / Re: Bare breasted images:

« Last post by Benusa2 on May 01, 2026, 08:28:45 PM »

I’ll post some cleavage. I like the tanks but they get hot under shirts.