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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 12:36:43 PM »

I'm right there with ya'll.  I am actually quite fond of my breasts and like the shape they have taken.  Finding a nice bra that fits well, looks attractive and makes me feel good is a bonus.  I feel we're all in the same camp here.  We don't mind what we have and enjoy dressing them up and down as do all women.  I don't feel I'm all that big at 40C so can tone down for the public without a problem.  When home working I don't mind a nice shaping bra that lifts, separates and defines each breast.  I'm amazed at times at just what I have and quite like it.

Well said.  I've little doubt that this adventure has unfolded as it has in large measure because I'm not in an intimate relationship and live alone.  The pleasure i take in the voluptuous breasts Mother Nature has bestowed on me comes largely from being in my home dressing as I wish.  That invariably involves my favorite brassieres and clothes that show them off.  Though I typically wear a brassiere when I'm out and about it will usually be a more modest minimizing brassiere and I will dress in layers.  I know my breasts are there beneath the open shirt I'm wearing but I've no interest in revealing them to folks I encounter.  Home is a different thing all together.  At the moment I'm wearing a nylon top that clings to every curve.  It is very reminiscent of the photo with which I started the "What I'm Wearing Today" thread I started.  I'm content with my life exactly as I live it in this moment.

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by Parity on Today at 09:03:02 AM »

I'm right there with ya'll.  I am actually quite fond of my breast and like the shape they have taken.  Finding a nice bra that fits well, looks attractive and makes me feel good is a bonus.  I feel we're all in the same camp here.  We don't mind what we have and enjoy dressing them up and down as do all women.  I don't feel I'm all that big at 40C so can tone down for the public without a problem.  When home working I don't mind a nice shaping bra that lifts, separates and defines each breast.  I'm amazed at times at just what I have and quite like it.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Parity on Today at 06:45:35 AM »

looks like a great fit, very comfortable and cool.  It's very nice looking as well.  What brand is it?

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by curiousk on Yesterday at 08:10:07 PM »

Here’s one of my favorite bras to wear in the summer.   Comfortable and supportive.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 08:22:14 AM »

A pink Torrid plunge push-up bra this morning 

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by Johndoe1 on Yesterday at 06:25:18 AM »

I know for myself, I don't try to hide anymore. I am not flaunting either. I do dress for the occasion as something many women do. At 40DD, you can't really hide anyway but you can reduce attention and that's what I do. There's never a flat chest, but there's not an in your face chest either. My chest is feminine in appearance whether braless or not. I dress accordingly. 

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by WPW717 on June 10, 2026, 08:47:26 PM »

Lots of medical activity this week Cranial MRI with contrast, IV in the intake, CAT scan with contrast, PFTs, (EKG monitoring, Carotid ultrasound,& cardiac stress test. 

Not one word said through any of it. All tests say everything is ok except the Cranial MRI, still waiting for the report. 
 I think the last two posts say it all, yes, I am old and would laugh at anyone who would try and make a demeaning comment.

Hope the newbies can move through the process of shame & embarrassment quickly from what is available to learn here.

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by oldguy on June 10, 2026, 06:25:27 PM »

Isn't it amazing the evolution of sorts in accepting things? I assume its the same with everything. Over time you just learn to adjust and acclimate and what comes to bother us before doesn't at all later.

Another dentist cleaning.  All good.  No issues with the hygienist and my chest.  Getting hotter here.  Need to find a way to conceal when it gets to 97.  There is a 5 mile trail that I can walk.  Not many people, but plenty of off leash dogs.  I carry mace when out there.  Haven't used it, but just showing it stops them from aggressive behavior and jumping on me.  Former paperboy at 11.  Still have the scares.  

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Acceptance / Re: Gynecomastia Acceptance Poll

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on June 10, 2026, 11:32:07 AM »

As self-acceptance deepens it is quite natural for appreciation to develop, especially as we become serious about finding brassieres that not only provide comfort but have the capacity to enhance the appearance of our breasts.  Yes, as cup size increases the game changes,  unless of course we don't feel a need to hide our development which I sense most of us do.  But now we have real breasts held in what might be attractive brassieres.  We appreciate how our breasts look AND feel in the cups cradling them.  It might even turn us on...

I'll have a blood draw later today and I'll be asked to remove the shirt I wear to camouflage my bosom.  I'll be wearing a thin cotton tee shirt and whether I wear a brassiere or not my breasts will be evident.  I will likely wear a brassiere because honestly I'm fond of my breasts.  I don't imagine the women drawing my blood will even notice but if she does it is really no big deal... old men often have breasts... even if they don't hang out with other men and talk about our latest brassiere purchase.

I know men come here who are often confused and filled with shame.  The conversations we have are important.  Having found kindred spirits it isn't surprising that we will hang around after we've come to acceptance simply because we are enjoying the experience of having breasts and talking about them.  I know that is true for me.  Thanks everyone for being so open about your experiences.  And thanks for showing off from time to time.  I love seeing those photos... knowing I'm not alone.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on June 09, 2026, 03:31:47 PM »

Absolutely welcome. You have a great fashion sense when it comes to support I hope they are as comfortable as they are lovely

All the Torrid bras are exceptional in comfort.  And they have so my different styles to choose from. I have about 15 of them.