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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by taxmapper on Yesterday at 05:41:18 PM »

In some instances the concept of "transition" seems appropriate, yet its not really a transition if you already had the hardware.  Its just now its being activated and updated. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 01:55:10 PM »

This has been spoken of before... but I don't like the word gynecomastia.  The word suggests there is a problem when a man develops breasts, but if that were so insurance companies would pay for their removal.  They don't simply because it is not a medical problem... it is simply a difference.  Yes, there are plastic surgeons prepared to remove them but honestly that is no different than having a "nose job" because one doesn't like the shape of their nose.  For men it often comes from shame at not being aligned with one's idea of masculinity.  Most of us have struggled simply because we are different and that can be the cause of great shame, whatever the difference may be.  

I've long argued that everyone of us exists on a gender continuum.  Our place on that continuum is NOT a matter of choice, it is.a matter of heredity.  It is an expression of the hormonal balance within our bodies.  Granted, breast development can occur later in life but that happens only because the hormonal balance in our bodies has changed.  That may be because of medications that have been prescribed but it can also simply be the result of aging that comes quite naturally with diminishing testosterone.

Each one of us finds our own way through this morass of feelings associated with breasts and masculinity.  We are blessed to have a place where we can talk openly about these things.  Personally, I'm content with being a more feminine man.  Transitioning is meaningless from this perspective.  I certainly have no more interest is reassignment surgery than I do in having a mastectomy.  This is my body.  I'm invited to care for it as it is.  That is what I'm doing, to the best of my ability.  I hope that is true for you as well. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by WPW717 on Yesterday at 12:14:32 PM »

Well said, Birdie 

Some need to read the posts from years ago.

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 10:25:12 AM »

this side is going from acceptance to transitioning

Sometimes, and in some instances, acceptance means transitioning.

That doesn't mean it's for everyone, but, to each their own, Live and let live my friend. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by bobb on Yesterday at 09:52:37 AM »

this side is going from acceptance to transitioning 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by DianeMcG on Yesterday at 09:14:52 AM »

Personally, I would love to have cleavage and, I would love to have it show. At 80 years old, I'm rebelling against so many ignorant beliefs. Often i have to push myself because of the conditioning pushed on me all my life, much of it my own imagination. Most young people seem to celebrate my style so that is fun. Have there been people who rejected me, sure. Does it bother me, somewhat. But the freedom I feel makes it worth it.  

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by Gyno64 on May 28, 2026, 03:45:34 PM »

Shaving off the hair is a big plus, imo. 

Kinda like one of the other members on here made the comment. It's like the bearded lady at the circus. Lol. Looks better and there's many options for coverage and support.

Hope your wife can adjust to that? And if she truly loves you, she will.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Shopping for garments

« Last post by 46bboobs on May 28, 2026, 12:42:43 PM »

I buy them on ebay. Close out Cacique bras since I know they fit. Prices are way higher than they used to be, and shipping is nuts so I look for price now over what they look like. I measure 44 under and 53 over.

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by Parity on May 28, 2026, 12:04:28 PM »

You look great shaved.  I know I like mine better that way.  Feels better wearing a bra also.

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Parity on May 28, 2026, 12:02:00 PM »

So true.  
I have have it and want them to be nicely shaped and proportioned.  When wearing a nice bra that shapes and holds them there I feel the most comfortable.  Like most here we often have to shape them so we appear to be men yet.  Shaping, wearing tight shirts exposing cleavage just isn't possible in my world.  I wish I could just dress and not worry about it but I do.  
Accept it, sure.  Want them full and shapely, absolutely.  Ready to let the world see them??  In my dreams for now.