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Sex / Re: Finding what works

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 08:37:28 AM »

JJ same boat and scenario. With a kid intimacy has found a backseat often due to by the time we’re able to just too tired or need to focus on other things as we both have a business so down time is unfortunately catch up time. But when we do, natural way of things seems to work most of the time. 
I do have strong bouts of ED and it sucks when I can’t perform. But I try to make sure I can before I attempt to initiate things to mitigate any disappointment. 
Having breasts has been a concern for me for years. Her ex husband had breasts and she’s often mentioned how gross it was. But his was due to steroids and she notes it was boxy man boob deflated pecs and just weird. And assures me mine are much different than that. And because I didn’t do anything to “deserve this” it’s not a big deal. She’s very body positive and I’m very thankful for that cause it is tough at times to feel her feel my chest and myself body go omg yes and my brain go omg what is she thinking cause these have grown since last time. But she seems to gravitate toward them more than anything else on me and when intimate is quite aggressive and it makes me feel thankful to have a wife who is accepting of a husband who brings breasts in the bedroom as you say it. 

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Your Stories / Hello again

« Last post by Dudewithboobs on Today at 08:28:31 AM »

How’s everyone doing? I’ve been here a few times over the 7 years of my breasts developing and as I’ve left and come back one thing remains the same. Community matters. I’m embarrassed in the times I’ve come and gone and come back again. And hope it’s ok to be back here. 

Over the course of the years from wondering wtf is going on with my chest, to understanding to finding the forum here due to a Dr at the time telling me it may be best to connect with others dealing with it and sent me here. And growing and making friends and seeing some of those friends leave and such. It’s been just great to know this is a you’re not alone issue. 

Along that road I found comfort and connection to the option of wearing a bra. As the path would go, the option moved more toward need and need more toward required if I wanted to be comfortable. But that of course comes with the discomfort of being seen as a man in a bra not just a man with breasts. 

This forum and wewearbras has been such a cornerstone in adapting, accepting and applying to being more comfortable and secure with myself. 
Even when I felt immensely secure there’d be times I’d feel so small or ashamed or embarrassed or anxiety ridden that I had a bra on. Especially in the gym or other settings that made it hyper aware it was there. Feeling like everyone is staring at you is difficult. 

But this forum continued to be a place I could join in before going to the gym or elsewhere and afterward and be reminded how ok it is. And I don’t need to be embarrassed by it. 
As social settings and marriage would be impossible to wear a bra openly I’d find other options like body suits or tank tops with shelf bras that made it all the more possible and comfortable without detailing a bra was being worn. I probably wouldn’t have known those existed without this forum. 

Over the years when I’d leave here it was due to feeling I had nothing more to say or feeling like much of what is said here has been covered and is just being repeated in other ways. I felt I didn’t have anything of value had no more worthy input. So I’d leave. I’d visit as a guest and see intriguing topics and feel omg I miss this place and join again for some time and leave again when I felt I had no value again. Rinse and repeat. 

The other week a good friend of mine was talking about how some of the best conversations and friendships are those that don’t always have something new to say but have something new to add to something that’s already been said. Or the deepest connections and friendships come from those you trust and can be open with about the deeper things in life. And i felt that hit home for here. 

I don’t know anyone else in my life who is my body type who has my body type. In the last year hypogonadism has had its way with me and contrary to my np advising going on therapy’s to correct the course. I simply just have let things be what they’ll be. I had holistic approaches that worked better than medical approaches and over time those plateau and stall and I’m back to square one with an imbalance on the lab report. And because of that I find myself continuing to deal with a chest that continues to evolve and with that I continue to feel alone due to removing myself from communities that gave me strength when I felt weak as heck or overly insecure. 

I’m blessed to have a loving wife who doesn’t seem to mind how her husbands chest has been and become. A family who is not judging of what they probably see on their son, cousin, etc or point out the what’s going on there. Friends who don’t distance themselves cause of how “he looks now days”. And if possible I’d love to be blessed and earn value back to being back here. I’m sure I’m not a member who goes noticed when missing or if I exited it goes as no surprise. 

But given the past year I’ve had it really has put a strong focus on how vital just being part of a community is when dealing with this.  

Anyways. I hope to reconnect with many and appreciate you all. Many of you have absolutely zero idea how much impact you’ve made in me being ok with my chest and myself. And truly appreciate it. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 08:15:32 PM »

It is an amazing process... change happens but in its own time.  Some of us had significant growth at an early age and we learned to come to terms with it all.  Some of us came to development later, perhaps because of medication, perhaps simply because we got older.  This conversation has always been important to me simply because being a man with breasts sprouting on my chest is not an easy thing to do.  But men here have shown me the way.  If we don't resist what is happening we begin to accept that bodies change with time.  My breasts have filled out and I find my rather voluptuous bosom quite thrilling.  I really want to put on a brassiere that presents my breasts in all their glory.  Of course, I have no interest in demanding that others in my life join me in celebration of my breasts... but I'm very happy to enjoy the experience for myself.  And so I wear a brassiere all of most days.  The fullness of my breasts is with me as I go about my day.  Do I want my breasts to be larger?... I'm not asking for larger breasts but my experience tells me it is not my choice.  So here I am, with men who understand.  I love my breasts and am happy to give them attention as I go about my day.  Acceptance is easy from this perspective.

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on May 12, 2026, 11:31:45 PM »

Good reminder as I read this thread,  breast growth will be what it is.  

Somedays I think it would be nice if they would hurry up and show me what I’m going to be dealing with.  ;-)  

But the gradual growth I’m having gives me time to get use to their size and decide how I want to present myself.  

Any time I’m thinking they should be bigger I have padded and pushup type bras to enhance what I have, and then dress how I want to present myself that day.

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: My story

« Last post by Midagemoobs2 on May 12, 2026, 02:50:04 AM »

Welcome and thanks for sharing. I too had prostrate issues that were really impactful, it can be a difficult choice. I already had gyno and managed and accepted it, so I  took the rx fully aware of the risk. I have gotten a little bigger, but it is a much better quality of life now, and would not go back as I’ve learned to manage my presentation. It sounds like you’re at a similar point. Wish you the all the best and keep sharing your journey. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Hair Removal

« Last post by Gyno64 on May 11, 2026, 07:35:31 PM »

Goodness gracious, Great Balls Of Fire!

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Hair Removal

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on May 11, 2026, 06:40:52 PM »

A friend of mine tried it on his balls he will never do that again

I use Nair just about every three months on my private areas without problems. Of course I'm built a bit different. 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Hair Removal

« Last post by Class66 on May 11, 2026, 01:56:54 PM »

A friend of mine tried it on his balls he will never do that again 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: My story

« Last post by Class66 on May 11, 2026, 10:03:54 AM »

Very pleased for you thank you for your reply 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: My story

« Last post by WPW717 on May 11, 2026, 07:33:43 AM »

Small , white, & fine as frog hair little ones are appearing after years of slick smooth skin. Not very visible, even by me, but an indication that the drug controlling the cranial tumor is working. 
No need to the trim or clip to avoid the bearded lady look. Same thing on my forearms. I have gone from shaving my face 2-3 times a month to now shaving twice a week. No sign of armpit hair. 
It also seems that the breast growth has abated as a result of the meds. I stopped at 51 bust with a 44 band, fitting into a D cup.