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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by Midagemoobs2 on Today at 03:59:34 PM »

Nice bra, thanks for sharing.  I think you will appreciate the support and control.

For me, I find the calculators over estimate the size by a band and a cup, perhaps due to having broad shoulders/lats which the estimation may not account for.  That said it is still a bit of trial and error, kind of like mens pants where one waist size can be way too big in some brands/styles and far too tight in others, and of course the shaping varies too…. so check the return policy if trying on at home.  Hope this helps.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Cup sized swimwear

« Last post by curiousk on Today at 01:17:47 PM »

Sea swimwear.   Very comfortable. 

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Acceptance / Re: My realization

« Last post by DianeMcG on Today at 11:26:25 AM »

I've come to the place where, for the most part, I don't give a rip about what society thinks of me. I'm actively pursuing growing my breasts. I'm not going to hide them. When it comes to our bodies, shame should not enter the picture. At 80 years of age, I'm living me, not what I think or imagine will be accepted. I find for the most part people just don't care anyway. The ones that are negative just don't matter.

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Acceptance / Re: My realization

« Last post by Parity on Today at 10:34:23 AM »

  I like how and what you said there 42C.  In this space I can accept and give encouragement.  It's a nice thing.  I feel me coming to terms with it is the easy part.  I have to say I haven't come to complete terms with how I feel society looks at men like us.  I wish I felt better and could just put on my nice underwire and a T shirt and be.  Wearing a button up if even unbuttoned helps me feel better about it.  The upside I don't look so sloppy either.  

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Acceptance / Re: My realization

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 10:14:24 AM »

I appreciate the conversation.  This is what makes this website so important.  Regardless of when our development began, having breasts as a man is anxiety provoking.  Yes, my circumstances as a sexual trauma survivor complicated the matter but there was still shame associated with it all.  Like most of us I've spent my life looking for a path that made sense.  It was coming to this website and discovering men who were working with self-acceptance that things began to change.  In reality, all of us present to the world what we believe the world will accept, while in our private moments we relate to the world in a more honest way.  This feels like an oasis where we can refresh ourselves and where we can be honest about our bodies and how we care for them.  Respect everyone... living your life truthfully, with kindness and compassion rather than shame and self-denigration...  How we do this thing called life is completely up to us.  Enjoy the ride everyone!

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Today at 10:00:44 AM »

You definitely belong in this club and I imagine those breasts would be very happy to be held in the soft cups of an underwire brassiere.  That is a different world and not one you may wish to explore if your partner/wife objects.  Many of the fellows on this website are married or in intimate relationships in which such adventures are at least tolerated.  You'll have to chart your own path in that regard, but, yes, a brassiere would be happy holding your breasts...  

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on Today at 12:32:13 AM »

You’re just giving me another reason to be jealous of you!  First your boobs, and now your iPhone!  I only have iPhone 14!!   LOL

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Photos / Re: New guy intro

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on Today at 12:26:51 AM »

After reading the comments recommending a fitting, in my first month of trying to find a bra that fit I went to three fittings.  My under bust was 41.  With that as a starting point, I ended up in bralettes at the first two places.  My third place was an undergarment boutique and I had found my “go to” place.  I ended up walking out with three 36 D bras.  A lot of stretching going on, but it worked for me and ended up being a fun experience.

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Cup sized swimwear

« Last post by LukeC on Today at 12:03:19 AM »

This is a tankini that I will wear swimming.  It has matching bottoms  too.  It fits great and covers me well.

Is that underwire and what brand?

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Cup sized swimwear

« Last post by JJ_Gyne on Yesterday at 11:53:57 PM »

I would need to keep pads in so as to keep from flashing nipage everywhere