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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by AlfaQ on Today at 01:05:42 PM »

My boobs began to grow in my 40s. It was slow gradual gowth and as l was swimming a great deal I thought it was muscle development. However as I caught my reflection in the mirror at the pool I noticed how much they jiggled as I walked. 
The movement got more and more annoying so I decided to try a bra. I assumed that I couldn't be more than an A cup so I bought my first bra a 38A which I thought fitted. I think my boobs are down to a diet rich in nuts soya and dairy as I am not overweight.   This year I have had 4 bra fittings at different shops and the smallest size recommendation was 34D. Bravissimo size me as 34DD and Boux Avenue put me into a 34E.  At my size I prefer to wear a bra and now I am happy to accept that this is the best solution for me. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 06:18:17 PM »

After 60 we become invisible. No one gives a **** what we think,how we look,what we wear,our opinions and our vast knowledge from years of living. People just don’t care. So enjoy the freedom. Free the boobies…👍😁😂

This site needs a "like" button!

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 50/50 on Yesterday at 11:45:02 AM »

After 60 we become invisible. No one gives a **** what we think,how we look,what we wear,our opinions and our vast knowledge from years of living. People just don’t care. So enjoy the freedom. Free the boobies…👍😁😂

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by gyne73 on Yesterday at 07:01:33 AM »

This is me, some days before. I have started to accept myself, I acknowledge that I am a man, but I really like to wear a bra. That's it.

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Photos / Re: What I'm Wearing Today

« Last post by explore_support on Yesterday at 06:06:36 AM »

Ulla popken front close bra. Does not give a lot of support but comfortable after day of wearing a sports bra at work

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Justagirl💃 on Yesterday at 01:37:54 AM »

Acceptance was realising I was different than 'Everyone' else. This happened many years before puberty. But acceptance was only nurtured by my family around me, so depending upon 'who' was caring for me it was changing. 

Puberty brought a new dimension to the equation,  and an upset father brought two years of testosterone treatments followed by 45 years of boy-mode. Boobs were wrong on me and must be hidden, and don't tell anyone why I had to pee sitting down. 

The true acceptance happened right here on this site after the social worker at the day-centre advised me to join a gynecomastia forum. 
I came to terms with my breasts and the need for a bra. I slowly stopped hiding behind bib overalls and baggy shirts and let the obvious be seen. 

I am built the way God intended me to be built, intersex and all. My natural attraction to 'hang out with the girls' was just a part of me as well as my lack of interest in violent sports. My love of nice colourful clothing and hairstyles was as much a part of me as my breasts. 

I might have gone too far for the likings of the day-centre,  but they don't have the right to dictate my life anymore than my father did for all those years. 

It's been a slow process that spanned several years, but I am 'Birdie'. The tomboyish little girl my grandmother was raising in my youth before my father took over my upbringing.  I sew, knit, cook, etc... I am not ashamed of who or what I am, and I live as myself everyday. I only dress androgynous at the day-centre because it's required by management for my attendance,  but all my clothes are off the women's rack. 

I made a purse for a CNA at the centre and she came over to pick it up the other day. We sat and chatted for about an hour about hot flashes, Hysterectomies, breasts, and lack of sex drive. 
She said, "girl, you are much more girl than you are guy." 
She has helped with transferring into the shower and seen my equipment,  or lack of it personally.  

I live my life as 'me' everyday regardless of those around me. You either like me or you don't.  That's not my problem.  I only have to move to Oregon to be free from the overbearing day-centre,  and that is still on the agenda. 

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by gotgyne on November 29, 2025, 03:56:44 PM »

It’s called FREEDOM. People should have the right to choose how they live,wear or whatever it might be as long as it’s not hurting or costing anyone else anything.
I live in a very conservative county and state. They talk about the government is taking away our freedoms. But these same people comment on what people wear or their sexuality or whatever.
I always point out that’s what freedom is. Then they say it’s just weird. But I tell them that’s their opinion but that person still has the right to their freedom. I actually think the ones with half a brain are starting to understand that. I sure don’t call them out on anything they wear or do or whatever because that is their freedom. The hypocrisy runs deep with morons🤣

My wife and me moved from a left to a conservative country. Here is much more freedom and I have worn my bras every day. In summer the neighbors could notice it by looking accurately. But nobody said a word. That's freedom too.

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by bobb on November 29, 2025, 11:08:32 AM »

It’s called FREEDOM. People should have the right to choose how they live,wear or whatever it might be as long as it’s not hurting or costing anyone else anything.
I live in a very conservative county and state. They talk about the government is taking away our freedoms. But these same people comment on what people wear or their sexuality or whatever.
I always point out that’s what freedom is. Then they say it’s just weird. But I tell them that’s their opinion but that person still has the right to their freedom. I actually think the ones with half a brain are starting to understand that. I sure don’t call them out on anything they wear or do or whatever because that is their freedom. The hypocrisy runs deep with morons🤣

if some one don't agree just start calling them names wtf.

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by 50/50 on November 29, 2025, 10:55:58 AM »

It’s called FREEDOM. People should have the right to choose how they live,wear or whatever it might be as long as it’s not hurting or costing anyone else anything.
I live in a very conservative county and state. They talk about the government is taking away our freedoms. But these same people comment on what people wear or their sexuality or whatever.
I always point out that’s what freedom is. Then they say it’s just weird. But I tell them that’s their opinion but that person still has the right to their freedom. I actually think the ones with half a brain are starting to understand that. I sure don’t call them out on anything they wear or do or whatever because that is their freedom. The hypocrisy runs deep with morons🤣

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Acceptance / Re: There's acceptance......and acceptance

« Last post by Normal Boobs 1 💄 on November 29, 2025, 06:31:22 AM »

What I am is still an ongoing process.

Aren't we all?! Hence my username. 😉

The other thing we need to keep in mind about self-acceptance, is that it's not just about accepting what we have become regarding "I've got boobs!" for example, but also accepting our journeys. If anyone is confused about where it will all end up, why not just go along for the ride? Who cares where it will end up? Embrace it!

Well said . Yesterday  is history -we can't change it.
The future is mystery -we can do very little to influence what it may bring.
This moment is a gift, which is why it is called the present.
Ours to live in and enjoy.