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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Hair Removal

« Last post by 42CSurprise! on Yesterday at 08:53:33 PM »

It seems the estrogen that is reshaping my body and giving me breasts has also diminished the hair on my arms, legs and chest.  I have light colored hair and am quite happy simply to use a beard trimmer to cut down the minimal hair on my chest.  An old joke about hair on breasts is that "grass doesn't grow on playgrounds."  Yes, breasts look much more appealing when not covered by a mat of dark hair.  But nature is in charge so we get what we get.., and deal with the consequences the best way we can... ideally with an underwire brassiere.  

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Acceptance Garments / Re: Underwire sports bra.

« Last post by LukeC on March 29, 2026, 10:10:32 PM »

Take a look at Vanity Fair high impact underwire sports bra.  Has a back clasp but pretty invisible if you crisscross the straps.   Unlined and underwire.

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Acceptance / Re: It’s been a year since joining

« Last post by Gyno64 on March 29, 2026, 04:50:13 AM »

From looking at your photos it appears that you have filled out quite a bit in the past year.
My initial onset began about a year ago at age 64. One thing I'm learning about gyno is that it doesn't seem to completely stop growing.
Mine has slowed down but I'm starting to also fill out more like yourself.
I'm pretty much in acceptance with my gyno at this point. I'm not concerned anymore about how large my breasts may get and I'm prepared to accept wearing a bra full time too.
 Thankfully my wife is very supportive and understanding about me having gynecomastia and how I feel I need to deal with it.
As far as bras go. I like the smooth seamless pull over sports bra type or bralette styles so I can be able to wear them under my T-shirt in the up coming warmer weather and not expose any hardware threw my shirt.
  I'm trying to find some that have an underwire? But having no luck so far.
I want to be able to swoop and scoop everything nicely into the cups whare it belongs.
I know that'll promote more prominent projection.  But I think I'll be ok with that. I feel confident enough about myself now not to worry about having my boobs on full display out in public. 
 I'm at an age and point in my life now and not so concerned about what other people may think.
I just want to be comfortable and if I'm going to be seen by others I want to at least add a nice shape and contour to my lady lumps.

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Acceptance / Re: It’s been a year since joining

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on March 29, 2026, 12:01:00 AM »

I’m wearing full time now, don’t like the discomfort at the end of the day if I don’t wear.  I have several bras that make the most of my shallow wide set breasts and I enjoy wearing them.  

My breasts are growing slowly so I decided to see how comfortable I can be without going to great measures to hide them.  Still darker colors and an unbuttoned shirt most days, but I’m doing some days with lighter colors or leaving the unbuttoned shirt at home.  

Just trying to be comfortable with where I’m at.  

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Acceptance Garments / Underwire sports bra.

« Last post by Gyno64 on March 28, 2026, 12:15:29 PM »

Hi gang.
I have a bra question here.
 Now that warm weather is coming upon us I'm trying to find either a smooth seamless pull over sports bra or a bralette of some sort with an Underwire.
Something that will lay smooth under my T-shirt with no kind of hardware showing through and give me the shape, comfort and support I'm looking for from an underwire.
preferably with removable cup pads.
The photo here I attached is of one of my Jockey brand sports bra that has no underwire to give an idea of what type of style I like.
Btw, 38 B cup here.

Thanks in advance. And have a wonderful weekend.

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Acceptance / Re: It’s been a year since joining

« Last post by Gyno64 on March 28, 2026, 12:35:23 AM »

I also looked into what the surgery procedure would involve and like yourself I'm not interested in it either.
Mine aren't all that large at this point. And if they do continue to grow I feel I'm at the point of acceptance to start wearing a bra full time if nessessarry. I'm already testing the waters with occasional bra wearing in public now as things are.

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Acceptance / Re: It’s been a year since joining

« Last post by OldSlowAndRound on March 28, 2026, 12:15:33 AM »

That’s a good point.  Maybe if I had continued to discuss surgery with the doctor we might have gotten into a discussion of my right breast and what might have been needed.  

But after the doctor’s description of my options for my left breast, surgery wasn’t anything I wanted a part of.

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Acceptance / Re: It’s been a year since joining

« Last post by Gyno64 on March 27, 2026, 02:59:32 PM »

OldSlowAndRound

I found it interesting that your plastic surgen claimed you only needed surgery on one side?
My right breast has prominent glandular tissue and my left one dosen't, although they are both developing femininely in appearance. Just my left breast is a bit smaller.
My Endo. Considered my breast development more as unilateral. And claimed to the suggestion that if I want to have surgery done. The the right side is more the target than the left side due to the glandular tissue growth in my right breast.
But I feel If I were to have surgery I would need to have it done on both sides. Glandular extraction with fat tissue on the right and lipo on the left.
I can't say for sure. But maybe this is some shead of light as to why you got that reason for only one side?
Here's a photo of my condition to give you an idea.
 

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Gynecomastia Talk / Re: Gore gap

« Last post by taxmapper on March 26, 2026, 02:17:23 PM »

For me, its a marker point.   That gap is telling me I have grown more. 

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Acceptance Garments / Re: My favorite bra

« Last post by Parity on March 26, 2026, 02:10:56 PM »

That is a lovely looking brassiere and it fits your breasts very well Jason.  It isn't easy to find a brassiere that both fits well and does a fine job of presenting our breasts, so when we find one we want to buy a few, as you've done.  I've noticed this brassiere before but I've hesitated to spend that much money.  As folks who have seen photos I post know I'm fond of a Bali brassiere with a Lilyette label... styled the "Keyhole Plunge into Comfort."  I too wear a 42C but only because that is a largest band they have in that brassiere.  I use an extender as well as a slender strap that holds the shoulder straps in place.  The cups do an amazing job and the brassiere is comfortable to wear.  Alas, the style is not being produced any longer and the size I prefer is no longer available.  Fortunately, I bought a few "spares" and will likely enjoy this brassiere for a long while.

Thanks for sharing these photos.  I'm grateful that men are talking about brassieres and breasts.  We know that men DO often have breasts.  Being able talk about our experience is a relief.

I am also grateful.  It reminds me it's okay as a male to have breast and not feel shame. The wearing of a nice bra is then accepted and warranted.