I used the atkins diet to get me started. The I just got moving first by walking. You can walk at malls schools or around your neighborhood. My workouts are cardio four days and weights three days. I work my abs every other day.. I do a hour of cardio with my treadmill or my eliptical. Before you start any program check with your doc to make sure everything is ok. Here are a few things I do as well.
Nothing to eat after six. If you have to try water cause a lot of times it will fill you up. If you have to munch grab a apple or some veggies.
Get moving as well Instead of driving to a place if you can walk do it. Try getting a buddy or your wife to go with you. I walk my dog 4 miles in the evening.
Drink water lots of it. I don't drink any booze either. Green tea seems to get my metaboloisn going. If you can make sun tea and add some splenda and lemon.
Join a gym if you have one there always someone in there to help you as well. I hit an aerobic class during the winter and next month I'm trying yoga as well.
One thing I do is keep an old fat picture of me next to my workout area. I also have my old belt hanging where I see it every morning so I remember how fat I use to be.
Main thing is you have to remember you didn't put the weight on overnight and you can't take it off overnight as well. You're going to hit walls where you feel like you can't go on but things do work out believe me. I was 322 and today I weighed at 188.
I can tire my grandkids out now

Good luck and get yourself moving. I figure like Tim Robbins said in shawshank. " get busy living or get busy dieing"
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