I'm doing great, thanks. I still check my chest out from every angle when I look in the mirror... I think I'm fearing that they'll come back or something! I always focused on my chest before (mirrors, pictures, etc) so I kind of hoped that obsession would go away after surgery, but it hasn't. However, the big difference is that before it was always accompanied by a feeling of disgust, and now I'm constantly feeling relieved.
The swelling is completely gone. There's a bit of lumpiness right under the nipple, but it's minor and it gets better each day. My left side looks 100% "normal". Like I never had gynecomastia, never had surgery, just as normal as normal could be. I think I will end up being a bit lopsided, because I think I still have some fullness on my right side... but when I say "fullness", I'm talking very very VERY minor. I don't know that I'd have anything done about it, although I do have a follow-up with Dr. P next week and I'll see what he says. I knew going into it that being uneven was a possibility, and I'm OK with it.
As for the lipo on my flanks, it's taking time for the region to settle into what it will ultimately look like. I'm 2 months post-op, and everything I've been told and read says it takes about 16 weeks for lipo results to show. I'm pretty happy with the results there. There's some rippling on my right side, but that's to be expected. In a few more weeks, that area should look even better, and I'm pretty pleased with it now.
Going into this, I was 100% sure I wanted to do it. I'm SO happy to report that I have ZERO regrets. Not a single one. I added the flank lipo as an "add on", and I'm so glad I did it. I think I'd have regretted not doing it, and probably would have saved up and gone back and have it done. Better to just get it all done at once.
The phrase that keeps running through my head about how to describe the procedure is "gynecomastia correction". It's not removal or reduction, it's "correction". I, quite simply, do not have it anymore. It feels wonderful! My confidence is definitely boosted. I still have issues that I need to work on, the biggest of which is a major fixation on that area of my body. I think over time it will get easier, I just have a LOT of years of history to work through. For 20 years I've hated that part of my body and spent all of my energy trying to minimize it and cover it up. Surgery was an instant correction. It'll take time for my mind and my body to get into sync. I'd never had surgery before, so I think I just wasn't prepared for the immediacy and the permanance of it. The results were instant and they're permanant. Just kind of hard to get used to that... but it was the best possible outcome, so I'm really happy about it! Hard to describe. Maybe someone else has a similar experience...?
To anyone considering it, I'd say get a few opinions and a few quotes. You're doing research already by reading this forum, so get the rest of the info by talking to a doctor. Any doctor who pressures you to schedule surgery during the consultation probably should be avoided. This is no small procedure... this is surgery and there are risks involved. You should have the ability to walk away and think it through very carefully.
So, to make a long story short (too late!) I'm doing GREAT and I am thrilled with the result. I have a follow-up with Dr. P on Wednesday, and I'll report any updates if there's anything relevant.
Glad to hear you're doing well too Unisys.
David