Finally talked to my wife

[Bman41]

Well, finally talked to my wife about it tonight, she said she has known for a long time, she never knew how much it troubled me.  She is supportive and now we can probably easily talk about it more. 

Yes, just like everyone said.  She has so much going on in with school, and much else, I just never found a "in" to talk without adding more stress in her life.  She didn't know much about it being a real problem.

[Paa_Paw]

Any load that is shared is easier to carry.

Your problem will be easier to deal with in the same way now that you have the input of your wife.