Author Topic: Do you see people staring at your chest?  (Read 1092 times)

Brdy64

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It never fails, they try to be discrete but people will look at my chest from across the room or even while talking to them. 
I am a 50D, so I do have too much to effectively hide so I kind of understand. 
It is still bothersome anyway, and especially when the cashier at the store says: "Have a nice day ma'am".

Normal boobs1

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I sympathise, but as far as looking out for people staring at me, I gave up that sport years ago! If you do not look look around too much you will be much easier on yourself.
I know you have very large breasts but it often less noticeable if you do not try to be too covert. 
eg breasts that in a well cut women's shirt just look less obvious than if they are trying to pull the buttons off a man's shirt 

Offline 42CSurprise!

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As a heterosexual man who grew up in this society, voluptuous breasts have generally caught my attention.  I've little doubt that well endowed women are cognizant of the attention their bosom draws.  You can see young woman walking in a way that will highlight their breast development.  That some eyes may find their way to OUR breasts is not too shocking.  At 50D you will doubtless attract some attention.  I don't know where you live, but were you to be in this community wearing bib overalls, you'd get attention for THAT as much as for your breasts... if they show when you're wearing such a garb.  Welcome to the club no one wanted to join but is glad they've found.  :)

Brdy64

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 I don't know where you live, but were you to be in this community wearing bib overalls, you'd get attention for THAT as much as for your breasts... if they show when you're wearing such a garb.  Welcome to the club no one wanted to join but is glad they've found.  :)
Living in Texas bib overalls are about a common as white Ford pickups. 🤣

Men with boobs under them....
Not as common. 

Bib overalls, at least in my head, seem to do a "fair to Midland" job at hiding them unless it's a side view. It's still noticable due to the fact that the bib material has to come out and over the boobs, but I still think it draws a little less attention. 

When size is above average, it really doesn't matter what you do the boobs are just still there.

I don't like people looking, and it's not the kind of attention I wish to draw. It is something that I suppose I will have to get used to because of human nature 🤔

I am in the right place by joining this community. 

Offline blad

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Usually in public I do not think about my breasts and my bra. But sometimes after catching a view of myself in a store window reflection I become more self conscious of other peoples assessment of me.

Since my school days I have not had any definite affirmation that people are "sizing me up" for a bra.
If the bra fits, wear it.

Normal boobs1

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I have a theory that when women eye up your boobs they probably fall into two camps:
1. Those who will sympathise with having to cope with them.
2. The rest are probably envious!!
Either way, just try and enjoy the moment

Brdy64

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I have a theory that when women eye up your boobs they probably fall into two camps:
1. Those who will sympathise with having to cope with them.
2. The rest are probably envious!!
Either way, just try and enjoy the moment
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Offline Johndoe1

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I have a theory that when women eye up your boobs they probably fall into two camps:
1. Those who will sympathise with having to cope with them.
2. The rest are probably envious!!
Either way, just try and enjoy the moment
I have that same theory. I have had women notice and the more endowed she is, the more likely she is to be sympathetic. Just an accepting smile will fill my heart.
Womanhood is not defined by breasts, and breasts are not indicative of womanhood. - Melissa Fabello

Offline Herbert

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As to the topic, I notice people looking at my chest regularly. No one says anything. I catch my female coworker looking at my chest often and she is well endowed herself. We share the same office area.

My boss said something recently about our new thin moisture wicking work shirts and nipples showing. I explained to him that getting older and having to take medications for blood pressure and cholesterol contribute to the problem. It may be worse if you have to take prostrate medications. I also had to take chemotherapy drugs years ago to suppress my immune system from attacking my kidneys, which I thank the Lord is not an issue now. After completing the 6+ months course of medication, the doctor cupped his hand over my left chest and said moderate breast development. That comment was shocking and completely out of the blue. My boss now wears our new shirts and his nipples are visible too.

Living and working in a warm / hot climate, our options are limited to cover thing up. Just not worth it. A bra is not an option at the moment. Not until my wife comments I need a bra. It is a catch 22, you get criticized for flopping around with high beams or ridiculed for wearing a bra that shows. Contractors can be ruthless.

Life goes on and I will continue to ignore the looks.
   

Normal boobs1

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Herbert, I would give annoying contractors a two word repost. 
The second word would be "off" 

Brdy64

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Herbert, I would give annoying contractors a two word repost.
The second word would be "off"
Annoying participants at the Day Center I attend got the "# off" treatment when I showed up one morning and someone said: " Good Morning Boobs"

Brdy64

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Another custom made set of bib overalls is on the way. 

They aren't really covering things up a much as I might think they do, but they make me feel like I'm doing my best to cover up. 🤔

Kazmage

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I have noticed while walking through a shopping center a few women looking at my boobs most just give a quick glance but a few stare 
All I do is give a slight nod and keep walking 
Most of the women I have contact with regularly know I wear a bra and they good with it heck my daughter even wants to go shopping with me lol

Brdy64

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I have noticed while walking through a shopping center a few women looking at my boobs most just give a quick glance but a few stare
All I do is give a slight nod and keep walking
Most of the women I have contact with regularly know I wear a bra and they good with it heck my daughter even wants to go shopping with me lol
🤣 My daughter gives me clothes designing suggestions (I sew).

She even says she is going to bring over her makeup kit and help me do my face up (not happening)

My daughter reminds me to measure myself and keep a log.
She is very involved in this journey, and I appreciate her support. 

Offline Rich meier

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i just let things slide the other day I was grocery shopping and got mammed and i wasnt even wearing a bras it was to hot but have very noticible nipples that even a bra doesnt hide


 

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